The dating pool is terrible for our black queens

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The longer I live, the more apparent it becomes that most people (men and women alike) are full of shyt. What people primarily engage in socially is this legerdemain that acts to persevere and protect their ego. When that breh graduated law school and stated he’s the prize now — a lot of dudes on here agreed with him. A lot of women on social media said he’s not cute enough for that declaration, and so on. Here, you have an accomplished woman basically saying that’s the kind of man she’s wants, and you have men saying that she’s not cute enough for those stipulations. Essentially, it’s the other side of the same damn coin.

Moreover, is what she’s asking for really that crazy? I’m 30+, no kids, I start on my PhD in the fall at either Rice or Notre Dame, have no issues with whatever people choose to do sexually in their bedroom or whatever they sexually identify as. I don’t have to call someone a fakkit to feel like a man. Additionally, I have no interest romantically or sexually in other men — and never have. I can hold these positions simultaneously. I’ve never been married, and being a baby daddy is not an option. Yet, despite being a p*ssy magnet and putting up prime Kobe numbers yearly — not siring any children has been incredibly easy.

If she doesn’t look good enough for those requirements, and she’s a bytch and all this other extra-curricular shyt… what we’re really saying is that we’re more animalistic and primal than we want to admit. And if that’s the case most of that shyt people talk socially about what women need to do to attract men — particularly black men — is bullshyt. Right? If it all really boils down to how fine a woman is, she should get a BBL, and get her chi’s chi’s done, start rocking a 27 piece, and her requests becomes much more reasonable. That’s kinda warped, no?

To keep it real, if her expectations were on the opposite end of the spectrum, y’all would say she needs to choose better. If she was somewhere in the middle, “Oh, she wants Tupac in business suit.” If Tupac in a business suit fukked her over and left her as a baby momma, “Oh, she should have had higher expectations. She should have chose better.” Basically, for a woman that isn’t prime Cherokee D’ass Phatty Girl 2 fine — it’s always going to be her fault, so I can’t blame shorty for wanting what she wants because no will give a damn if shyt goes sideways, because she’s not fine, right?

People are funny.

Then YOU take her so she can shut up. Come back and tell us about how she has you on some son son shyt and all the rainbow squad functions she has you at.
 

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I do you ensure that you are attracted to someone by their face...ya'll know thats a part of it but it dont "ensure" shyt. Trying to use words but don't know the practical definition just the idea of the word.

I need to know what time the store opens so I can ensure I get low fat milk.....
 

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The longer I live, the more apparent it becomes that most people (men and women alike) are full of shyt. What people primarily engage in socially is this legerdemain that acts to persevere and protect their ego. When that breh graduated law school and stated he’s the prize now — a lot of dudes on here agreed with him. A lot of women on social media said he’s not cute enough for that declaration, and so on. Here, you have an accomplished woman basically saying that’s the kind of man she’s wants, and you have men saying that she’s not cute enough for those stipulations. Essentially, it’s the other side of the same damn coin.

Moreover, is what she’s asking for really that crazy? I’m 30+, no kids, I start on my PhD in the fall at either Rice or Notre Dame, have no issues with whatever people choose to do sexually in their bedroom or whatever they sexually identify as. I don’t have to call someone a fakkit to feel like a man. Additionally, I have no interest romantically or sexually in other men — and never have. I can hold these positions simultaneously. I’ve never been married, and being a baby daddy is not an option. Yet, despite being a p*ssy magnet and putting up prime Kobe numbers yearly — not siring any children has been incredibly easy.

If she doesn’t look good enough for those requirements, and she’s a bytch and all this other extra-curricular shyt… what we’re really saying is that we’re more animalistic and primal than we want to admit. And if that’s the case most of that shyt people talk socially about what women need to do to attract men — particularly black men — is bullshyt. Right? If it all really boils down to how fine a woman is, she should get a BBL, and get her chi’s chi’s done, start rocking a 27 piece, and her requests becomes much more reasonable. That’s kinda warped, no?

To keep it real, if her expectations were on the opposite end of the spectrum, y’all would say she needs to choose better. If she was somewhere in the middle, “Oh, she wants Tupac in business suit.” If Tupac in a business suit fukked her over and left her as a baby momma, “Oh, she should have had higher expectations. She should have chose better.” Basically, for a woman that isn’t prime Cherokee D’ass Phatty Girl 2 fine — it’s always going to be her fault, so I can’t blame shorty for wanting what she wants because no will give a damn if shyt goes sideways, because she’s not fine, right?

People are funny.
But she's right, a PhD isn't gonna open the doors to high end value women with great looks. Just more of the same in the looks department but a better quality of women.

If anything, it makes you prime mark status if you look wise are lacking.
 

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The longer I live, the more apparent it becomes that most people (men and women alike) are full of shyt. What people primarily engage in socially is this legerdemain that acts to persevere and protect their ego. When that breh graduated law school and stated he’s the prize now — a lot of dudes on here agreed with him. A lot of women on social media said he’s not cute enough for that declaration, and so on. Here, you have an accomplished woman basically saying that’s the kind of man she’s wants, and you have men saying that she’s not cute enough for those stipulations. Essentially, it’s the other side of the same damn coin.

Moreover, is what she’s asking for really that crazy? I’m 30+, no kids, I start on my PhD in the fall at either Rice or Notre Dame, have no issues with whatever people choose to do sexually in their bedroom or whatever they sexually identify as. I don’t have to call someone a fakkit to feel like a man. Additionally, I have no interest romantically or sexually in other men — and never have. I can hold these positions simultaneously. I’ve never been married, and being a baby daddy is not an option. Yet, despite being a p*ssy magnet and putting up prime Kobe numbers yearly — not siring any children has been incredibly easy.

If she doesn’t look good enough for those requirements, and she’s a bytch and all this other extra-curricular shyt… what we’re really saying is that we’re more animalistic and primal than we want to admit. And if that’s the case most of that shyt people talk socially about what women need to do to attract men — particularly black men — is bullshyt. Right? If it all really boils down to how fine a woman is, she should get a BBL, and get her chi’s chi’s done, start rocking a 27 piece, and her requests becomes much more reasonable. That’s kinda warped, no?

To keep it real, if her expectations were on the opposite end of the spectrum, y’all would say she needs to choose better. If she was somewhere in the middle, “Oh, she wants Tupac in business suit.” If Tupac in a business suit fukked her over and left her as a baby momma, “Oh, she should have had higher expectations. She should have chose better.” Basically, for a woman that isn’t prime Cherokee D’ass Phatty Girl 2 fine — it’s always going to be her fault, so I can’t blame shorty for wanting what she wants because no will give a damn if shyt goes sideways, because she’s not fine, right?

People are funny.
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you right :yeshrug:
 

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You can tell she’s annoying:mjlol:


“cis, straight, educated, Black men w/o kids that aren’t sexist and/or homophobic/transphobic“
Any bytch that talks like that and uses those terms is just looking for a white man to fukk. No black woman says that, not if she’s a sistah.
 

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My screenshot was actually suppose to capture what I’m assuming her point was: the dudes who don’t have the credentials are steppin’ to her while the men that fit the bill are insecure or think shyt is a joke.

If she truly wanted a partner so bad, she would of scooped one during her college years.
 

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You can tell she’s annoying:mjlol:


“cis, straight, educated, Black men w/o kids that aren’t sexist and/or homophobic/transphobic“

She wants a straight breh to double date with her and her gay besties :mjlol:


Edit: This chick live in Oregon. Girl go sit yo silly ass down somewhere :mjlol:

@2 one 3 was gonna tag you after the first post and say that sounds like the women here, but then I saw the 2nd post with the Edit :mjlol:. See...it ain't us :mjcry:
 

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@2 one 3 was gonna tag you after the first post and say that sounds like the women here, but then I saw the 2nd post with the Edit :mjlol:. See...it ain't us :mjcry:


I don’t get these hoes fam…

Just a few days ago a black and Korean chick was messaging me talking about how she found it odd that I didn’t use my real name or put my job information on my profile or anything.


Telling me she likes to do research on dudes before she meets up with them. And was telling me how one dude had all of his information on there and she saw that he had a bankruptcy or some shyt…


All this non binary, poly, her/ she/ they shyt is so fukking lame out here in Portland. Some black chicks I’ve seen are into open relationships too and I’ve seen a lot of black women with white dudes looking for a third..:picard::scust:



the hoes here are a solid 5.5/10


And that’s being too generous..:pachaha:
 

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I didn’t see the op, but I see from the replies that she mentioned “cis” so I’m glad I didn’t read that bullshyt :hhh:

I’ve never even heard a person say that dumb shyt out loud btw, I only see it online
 

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I don’t get these hoes fam…

Just a few days ago a black and Korean chick was messaging me talking about how she found it odd that I didn’t use my real name or put my job information on my profile or anything.


Telling me she likes to do research on dudes before she meets up with them. And was telling me how one dude had all of his information on there and she saw that he had a bankruptcy or some shyt…


All this non binary, poly, her/ she/ they shyt is so fukking lame out here in Portland. Some black chicks I’ve seen are into open relationships too and I’ve seen a lot of black women with white dudes looking for a third..:picard::scust:



the hoes here are a solid 5.5/10


And that’s being too generous..:pachaha:

Portland :hhh:
 
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