News flash - telling women they should just "think different" is not going to do anything. Women don't feel this way about men just because someone told them, it comes from their own lived experience. An experience that many men still aren't willing to come to terms with.
Just look at this board. How many times on The Coli have you seen men:
1. Claim that all/most women are idiotibdont see the contradiction
c, immoral, unable to control themselves, or other blanket negative characteristics.
2. Outright dismiss sexual assault victims or suggest they did something to deserve it.
3. Try to minimize sexual assault with caveats, "It's not sexual assault if she was scared but didn't fight back" or "It's not sexual assault if they were already dating", etc.
4. Immediate excuse reports of domestic violence and ask what the woman must have done to trigger him?
5. Argue that we need to return to a society where only men have authority, where women are fully obedient, etc.
The average woman, if her ONLY experience of men was reading what they post on The Coli, would come to the conclusion that there are a large # of men who either hate women or who don't have proper boundaries around nonconsensual sex, and thus worry that she needs to be wary around them.