Terry Crews Tap Dancing (Official Thread)

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Its very common, almost the norm actually, for victims of sexual assault to wait before seeking justice. Men are human just like women. Regardless of their physical strength, they go through the same shyt we all do and that includes the victims. Terry is calling out men that made light of his abuse as he should. Yall need to get it through your heads that Black men are not viewed as human. Much of the shyt that happens to yall is because people think you should be able to handle it and not be affected like any human would be. This is toxic. No one's abuse should be a joke.



Absolutely not and my husband is bigger and taller than Terry. Women allow men to be human more than men do. We understand yall better than you understand yourselves. Im more shocked his wife didn't react. Black women aren't afraid to go there with cacs. Its why we have the 'angry and manly' stereotype. You'd think Black men would love us more for this quality, but this isn't the thread for that.




Ignorant.




You're adding adjectives to my sentences. I said Im against all predators and I stand firmly by that. I said nothing of perceived predators.

I go hard on men and women equally when they do bad. Please know who you're talking to before making claims of "shrinking up".

I really think men dont understand how sexaul assault attacks your mental more than your body. I suggest any human truly concerned about victims read up on this. Terry's reaction was almost textbook. His gender and physique dont trump his humaness. Because I know this, there is no way I would blame my man or look at him differently after he was assaulted. Thats crazy. Men are not Superman. Superman is not real.
See your lumping. In men when the correct thing is a lot of PEOPLE do not understand the effects of sexual assault. Women too don’t fully understand it . People need to be educated
 

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See your lumping. In men when the correct thing is a lot of PEOPLE do not understand the effects of sexual assault. Women too don’t fully understand it . People need to be educated


Women understand more because its a fear we're taught to be on the lookout for at very young age. I was 8 when I was taught. Sexual assault recovery is geared towards women. We're taught early, "its not your fault."

As you can see in this very thread, men think muscles is all it takes to stop an attack. Research disagrees. In not going to not "lump" people just for the sake of not lumping. I dont engage in immature convos like that.

Sexual assaults are about power. Muscles are strength, not power.
 

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Its very common, almost the norm actually, for victims of sexual assault to wait before seeking justice. Men are human just like women. Regardless of their physical strength, they go through the same shyt we all do and that includes the victims. Terry is calling out men that made light of his abuse as he should. Yall need to get it through your heads that Black men are not viewed as human. Much of the shyt that happens to yall is because people think you should be able to handle it and not be affected like any human would be. This is toxic. No one's abuse should be a joke.



Absolutely not and my husband is bigger and taller than Terry. Women allow men to be human more than men do. We understand yall better than you understand yourselves. Im more shocked his wife didn't react. Black women aren't afraid to go there with cacs. Its why we have the 'angry and manly' stereotype. You'd think Black men would love us more for this quality, but this isn't the thread for that.




Ignorant.




You're adding adjectives to my sentences. I said Im against all predators and I stand firmly by that. I said nothing of perceived predators.

I go hard on men and women equally when they do bad. Please know who you're talking to before making claims of "shrinking up".

I really think men dont understand how sexaul assault attacks your mental more than your body. I suggest any human truly concerned about victims read up on this. Terry's reaction was almost textbook. His gender and physique dont trump his humaness. Because I know this, there is no way I would blame my man or look at him differently after he was assaulted. Thats crazy. Men are not Superman. Superman is not real.
We know men can be sexually assaulted, thats not the point.

Point is, he let dude sexually assault him. Thats what black men can’t understand. While yall championing him for being strong and come out, we’re saying why wasn’t he strong when he needed to be? He wasn’t a child, he wasn’t incapacitated, he was scared of losing his job.

It doesn’t mean he didn’t get sexually assaulted, doesn’t mean men don’t get sexually assaulted, but we’re just wondering why he let it happen with ZERO self defense for himself or his wife in front of his wife. No one is making light of it and Terry is attacking ALL black men
 
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He is upset, and rightfully so, because he is a victim of sexual assault, but instead of using this moment to legitimize black male sexual assault...too many members of our community have used it as an opportunity to shame Terry Crews, and basically blame him for his own sexual assault. I guess SOME black men see him speaking out as an attack on their own masculinity, and fragile egos. Apparently, black men aren't supposed to feel pain. This whole situation is getting really out of hand, and turning into a joke. And it makes me sick.
We shaming him because any other man would be ashamed of that and not let it happen
 

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@GoldCoastSaint i respect your opinion and believe you’re genuine but I promise that 99.9999% of women would lose respect for their man if they saw him get sexually accosted in that manner and not check the perpetrator immediately. Maybe not openly, but deep down inside they would.

It reminds of a clip from ‘Louie.’



Synopsis: he’s on a date. A group of teens are being rowdy. He asks them to be quiet and one of the bullies walks over to him and threatens to kick his ass unless he says sorry. He says sorry and afterwards (not shown in the clip) the woman he’s on a date with loses her physical attraction to him.

Now was he wrong for backing down? Of course not. He was outnumbered and could’ve got the shyt kicked out of him. But his date got turned off watching him get emasculated like that. It’s human nature to see your man as a protector and not get punked.

No different than what happened to Terry Crews. Again, not victim blaming but I bet his wife lost a lot of respect for him after the incident and that’s why he lashes out at everyone else.
 

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Women understand more because its a fear we're taught to be on the lookout for at very young age. I was 8 when I was taught. Sexual assault recovery is geared towards women. We're taught early, "its not your fault."

As you can see in this very thread, men think muscles is all it takes to stop an attack. Research disagrees. In not going to not "lump" people just for the sake of not lumping. I dont engage in immature convos like that.

Sexual assaults are about power. Muscles are strength, not power.
So your saying women who haven’t been sexually assaulted know the pain of someone who has bene sexually assaultrc
 

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@GoldCoastSaint i respect your opinion and believe you’re genuine but I promise that 99.9999% of women would lose respect for their man if they saw him get sexually accosted in that manner and not check the perpetrator immediately. Maybe not openly, but deep down inside they would.

It reminds of a clip from ‘Louie.’



Synopsis: he’s on a date. A group of teens are being rowdy. He asks them to be quiet and one of the bullies walks over to him and threatens to kick his ass unless he says sorry. He says sorry and afterwards (not shown in the clip) the woman he’s on a date with loses her physical attraction to him.

Now was he wrong for backing down? Of course not. He was outnumbered and could’ve got the shyt kicked out of him. But his date got turned off watching him get emasculated like that. It’s human nature to see your man as a protector and not get punked.

No different than what happened to Terry Crews. Again, not victim blaming but I bet his wife lost a lot of respect for him after the incident and that’s why he lashes out at everyone else.



My ex, a very hotheaded mofo (RIP), and I were walking through an unfamiliar hood in Houston. There were 3 dudes by a car and a dyke with a rockweiller walking towards the car. We had just walked past when one of the dudes was like "what you need?" My ex was like "nothing" and dude replied "well what you keep looking back for nikka?" I quietly whispered to my ex to ignore him. He glanced at me, blew a kiss and kept it moving. A woman that cares about her man will keep him out of shyt, not hope he fights through it. Now, i knew my man was carrying and already had 2 strikes in Texas and not a bytch, but still...

I'm not walking away from a fight myself. I almost got into a situation last week with a Latina bytch on the pink line going to Pilsen (a heavy Hispanic area in Chicago). Called her all types of bytches and threatened to smack her for talking stupid and not making space on the train. It was dumb and luckily she threatened to call the police and wasnt on some gang shyt. But yeah, my husband checked me because this is how people die.

But sexual assault is different. Its a power move. If I were going to blame Terry for anything (which I absolutely don't, but for the sake of a discussion...) it would be for him believing these people are more powerful than him in the first place. Thats why the man disrespected him like that. He knew Terry thought more of him than he did himself. Thats what money does to some people. Truth is, I bet a lot of our favs have gone through this. Thats why its important that Terry isn't blamed for his own attack. It keeps the power dynamic as is which gives space for more victims.

Sexaul assault can cause a person to freeze I hear. the Latina bytch froze when she realized calling me an idiot was the wrong move. Imagine had I grabbed her p*ssy.
 

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Are we really supposed to believe a normal sized white man is just going to have the courage to randomly grope a guy like Crews?

They either had relations before or maybe the guy knew Terry was selling his body to get in the industry.

His story doesn't pass the smell test.
 
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