Terry Crews on Victim Blaming:"This mindset has gone unchallenged by the black community for 2 long"

[get these nets]

By not involving authorities granted out of fear that the kid gets taken out the house, or simply turning a blind eye

I'm gonna cosign this 100%. I've seen this happen with physical abuse. My aunt (RIP) was abusing my cousin when I was a kid......he's about 5 years younger than me. Everybody knew about it.I went to their house and took him to stay at our house. When he went back to her house, she was beating him again. My parents said that social worker would be calling our house and asking about the situation...I told them if I picked up the phone i would tell the truth. Parents yelled at me talking all kinds of nonsense. Just like you said......they started talking about "they're going to take him out of the house,etc,etc,"

She was beating his ass with extension cords. They would go over to the house talk to her and "pray for her" and all types of irrelevant actions. Eventually he was taken out of the house temporarily.

I give less than a fukk about "shame" and other meaningless bullshyt, my family mishandled it .

I can only imagine how they'd be even more reluctant if it was sexual abuse. fukks the airs, what people will think and all that bullshyt....you've got to protect the children.

 

[HopeKillCure]

All you had to say was, “this mindset has gone unchallenged by society for a long time”

Why did he have to pander and sensationalize a serious topic by turning it into a race debate?

Why did he have to turn it into a “race subject” when it is clearly a societal issue that needs to be addressed ( victim shaming).

Why are we pandering to the majority ruling class by turning a serious issue in their community into a black race thing?

It’s sad, we lost a legit chance for real discussion when he made this one about race.

 

[Matt504]

All you had to say was, “this mindset has gone unchallenged by society for a long time”

Why did he have to pander and sensationalize a serious topic by turning it into a race debate?

Why did he have to turn it into a race subject when it is clearly a societal issue that needs to be addressed ( victim shaming).

Why are we pandering to the majority ruling class by turning a serious issue in their community into a black only race debate

He's talking to Black people and all the Black men jumping into his Twitter mentions to call him a fakkit.

 

[HopeKillCure]

Black people got to fix everything

Right. But when it comes to white people nikkas suddenly have an appreciation for nuance. I was riding for Terry Crews now it's fukk Terry Crews.

Breh I’m so tired of the black bogey man being the blame for everything.

Why did this even turn into a race/ black community thing. The guy who grabbed his balls was white, how did it become the black bogey man’s fault?

 

[Blackout]

i don't think terry was talking about racism. he was talking about victim blaming/shaming. he was just talking to the black community specifically

What happened to him has a racial factor and you know it

 

[Thanos]

Why do we have to collectively change our ways, but nobody else should?

We have less incidents of pedophile activity than other groups and mob justice is a very popular way for black people to deal with predators.

Terry was molested by a white man, it was a chance for him to address the extremely high incidents of sexual deviance in the white community, but instead he is attacking the way the black community does things?

It’s a cowardly response. He was molested by a white man, not a black one. He is focusing his anger on a softer target instead of facing the bigger problem. I’m all for criticism of the black community when it’s justified and when we have equal criticism of other communities as well, but we never do.

Nobody every addressed this problem in the white community as a whole. Even when it was a white man who grips his nuts in front of his white, it’s still somehow the entire black communities fault?

It's a problem in all communities, However, the black community viewed on a different lens than any other communities. We are clearly judge by the worst of our individuals. Aside from that, I think the focus should,be on the victims of sexual assault. There are people all walks of life that get assaulted each day by all walks of life, and we barely having discussions what can we do as whole to prevent these occurrence or make victims more comfortable enough to report these incidents when they do in fact happen. I think we get caught in "this communities does this and this" (Imo, we are all just enclaves)", than this is happening, what can we do to help the situation, etc help the victims.

 

[HopeKillCure]

He's talking to Black people and all the Black men jumping into his Twitter mentions to call him a fakkit.

Breh those are troll cac accounts and attention seeking weirdos on twitter. He should know that already, he a celebrity.

I can only imagine the vile Shyte they were saying to him and he took the bait. He should focus on what he was doing and not turn an important societal debate into a race distraction like the trolls wanted him to do here.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

If he never mentioned race. If he just said that “everybody needs to stop victim shaming in our society”

I would be behind him 100%

When you say “the black community” then you have just made it about race. Terry didn’t say our communities or society, no, he made it about race and said “the black community”

You can’t theow stones and then hide your hands afterwards. If you want to make it about race by saying, “the black community problem” then let’s talk about race.

the only person making it about race is you. what's worse, no one mentioned whites and you're busy doing a compare and contrast between racial group behavior. the analysis came from a black man on the community he comes from. whether you want to dismiss him because he married a white woman or dresses in drag, he's a black man talking to his community not some social activist trying to combat racism between groups.

 

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[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

What happened to him has a racial factor and you know it

we're not talking about the molestation, we're talking about black people verbally attacking him because of his story. that has no racial implications and doesn't suggest other racial communities are exempt. we're just talking about the black community ATM

 

[HopeKillCure]

the only person making it about race is you. what's worse, no one mentioned whites and you're busy doing a compare and contrast between racial group behavior. the analysis came from a black man on the community he comes from. whether you want to dismiss him because he married a white woman or dresses in drag, he's a black man talking to his community not some social activist trying to combat racism between groups.

Breh when you said “black community” you make it about race. “Black” is a race. “Black community” is a specific racial group. I didn’t make it about race when I said anything, it became about race the minute Terry stopped talking about society as a whole and singled out the “black community”

Don’t be intellectually dishonest

 

[get these nets]

All you had to say was, “this mindset has gone unchallenged by society for a long time”

Why did he have to pander and sensationalize a serious topic by turning it into a race debate?

Why did he have to turn it into a “race subject” when it is clearly a societal issue that needs to be addressed ( victim shaming).

Why are we pandering to the majority ruling class by turning a serious issue in their community into a black race thing?

It’s sad, we lost a legit chance for real discussion when he made this one about race.

I agree with this. I co signed Soundbwoy's comments about the general topic but I also agree with you about TC's actions. I haven't read the tweet but I can figure out and piece together the comment.
Terry is trying to spin this and with all due respect to him I can't agree with him.

This isn't the same as a child being touched by a family member. This is an adult being assaulted by a smaller adult in a public setting and paralyzed not by fear or confusion but by the thought of losing money/career.

Nothing kept TC from going to police station and reporting what happened to him then. Not the same thing as a scared kid perhaps being threatened by an adult who they've been taught to trust.

TC is reaching.

 

[Blackout]

we're not talking about the molestation, we're talking about black people verbally attacking him because of his story. that has no racial implications and doesn't suggest other racial communities are exempt. we're just talking about the black community ATM

Aren’t you white?

Why you up in our community?

Nice try at directing people away from addressing racism

 

[Rakim Allah]

ya'll gonna learn about supporting/trusting black people with white spouses

He remarried?

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Aren’t you white?

Why you up in our community?

Nice try at directing people away from addressing racism

i'm not white. you'd figure with all the exposing going on, you would have learned that all your friends who tried to take a shyt on me about my race, at the end of the day, were the real frauds. you can keep following in their footstep though with their dumb ass tactics.