The blond hair is the first sign she was not with us.
I have a theory when you see a black, latin, or asian, with blond hair, she has a white mentality. Not just a regular white person, but the media's version of what white is, and sadly that goes against what black is. Black meaning the opposite of the media's version of white.
Now, not all women with blond hair is like this. If she has different styles all the time, and very into her looks, she doesn't need to be put into the bedwench category, but if she doesn't, look out if you are a black man. She will never give you respect. If she wears blond weaves/wigs, you better run, I don't care how fat the ass is.