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agnosticlady said:
Wait so if you are walking down a street and a man drives by and tells you that you look nice today that is street harassment? They are building a new school a block away from my residence and when I walk by some of the men greet me and tell me that I look nice. No it is not cat calling but they are polite and say, "You look nice today mam". I always smile and say thank you. A man coming up to you and talking to you is street harassment? So if a man comes up to you and says, "Hi hello do you like so and so type of cars, because you have a nice car" that is street harassment? If a man come sup to you and says, "Hi, hello you look nice today and I would like to get to know you more." that is street harassment? Sweetie a man with a pitbull walking down the street makes me uncomfortable but that is not street harassment.
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Let's just agree to disagree and keep it moving because that's not what I said. In my first post I said that I say hello to avoid being rude and a dude should tell by body language if I don't want to continue the conversation. If I say hello back and turn my head. That's code for hi, now leave me alone.
 
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LOL you are joking right?

1. I lived in the hoods of Miami growing up. MOST of those children did not have fathers in their lives. Most of the mothers procreated with bummy men. There was only a very few that has fathers (VERY VERY VERY few). Also if the father was in the house it was a bummy dude that laid up under the womans roof eating food and doing nothing. The one's with good fathers in their house and living under the roof rarely let their kids come out to play. I was considered boujie because my mother and father did not let me play with the kids, because most of them were headed in the wrong direction.

2. A lot of men raised by single mothers are hyper sensitive. A lot of the men raised by single mothers do hold a type of resentment towards their mother because there was not really a man around to teach them how to be a man or help them in their coming of age process. Also people rarely talk about, but you would be surprised at the amount of single mothers that verbally/physically abuse their sons. A lot of these mothers also do a bad job at raising their sons. Fathers are needed to direct and guide children as they enter their pre-teens and adolescents. In many cases the mother is unable to control the child, especially considering that she is working at now home all the time. The boy starts to get raised mentally by the worthless men in the hood. There are men who's mothers traumatized them so since they can't attack their mothers they take it out on the women they meet. There are men who were emotionally castrated by their mothers. Why do you think there is such a high population of gay males in the black community now? A lot of men raised in the hood and other environments by their single mothers tend to have weird relationships with them. I see this a lot.

3. Young men who are standing on the street playing dice and etc more than likely don't have fathers in their lives. Their father would have put enough fear in them to keep them away from that. Men who are going around chasing down women and grabbing them on the street more than likely didn't have fathers, because a father would have taught his son self respect and integrity. You're embarrassing your self when you do that. You are basically saying that the only way you can get a woman is by having chasing her down. My brother never did that. He saw it as weak.

Most of the men acting like that towards women are savages.
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the rampant classism is disgusting
 
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cloudbox said:
the rampant classism is disgusting
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Rampant classism? Instead of the women to marry up and procreate with a man of means she procreated with bummy men that she KNEW weren't going to be around. That is the truth.
 
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Miranda said:
Your black in america and You don't know that dc is chocolate city



And you're nigerian but grew up " in the hood"

And you refer to black men "in the hood" as bummy, worthless and savages repeadeatly

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Do you really want to continue with this charade?
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Hey I didn't know D.C. is called Chocolate city.....Boo-hoo who cares.

Uh, yeah surprise all Nigerians are not filthy rich. My fathers business went under when was 4 so yes we lived in a very low income neighborhood in Miami Gardens/Carol City. I did not like that place. Some of the guys would try to fight my father because he did not like the way they were talking to my mother (his wife), they broke into his car to steal his work tools, they broke into our place, and etc. There were shootings, drive by's, dead bodies found in trashcans, drugs, and etc. I would see tiny plastic bags littered across neighborhood. Yeah most people don't think that's where I spent my childhood because of the way I talk, but I don't give two shyts. I know where I grew up and I knew what I saw. A lot of the single mothers could not handle their kids, especially as they entered the pre-teen years and teenage years. I remember one woman had two daughters and one son. The sons father is serving a life sentence in prison. That boy was 15 in the 7th grade. By the time he was 16 he was put on probation. A few months ago I found out that he got shot in the leg during a dice game because he was winning. He is 19 now and getting his GED.

It's not a charade. Places like that are referred to as the hood. The women procreated with bummy savage men. That is a fact. A lot of hood rats procreate with bummy men. The men they pro create with don't know how to be fathers because they didn't have father figures, or the men are in some criminal shyt. They bounce from the child's life or live under the woman's roof mooching off of her. The child doesn't have a proper father figure and they are raised by the hoodlums of that neighborhood unless a positive man steps in.I saw that mess a lot. it's a cycle that repeats itself.
 
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cloudbox said:
lol no
that's generalizations and assumptions
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No it's not. MOST of the young ladies I knew who are from low income neighborhoods and did not receive good parenting ended up pro creating with worthless low income bummy men. If you are a shiftless lazy man that goes around doing nothing you are a bum. If you are all of that and a criminal you are a savage. Let's not act like those types of people don't exist. Many of the kids grew up fatherless. I saw it with my won eyes. It is a cycle.
 
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agnosticlady said:
No it's not. MOST of the young ladies I knew who are from low income neighborhoods and did not receive good parenting ended up pro creating with worthless low income bummy men. If you are a shiftless lazy man that goes around doing nothing you are a bum. If you are all of that and a criminal you are a savage. Let's not act like those types of people don't exist. Many of the kids grew up fatherless. I saw it with my won eyes. It is a cycle.
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just generalizations again :smh:
 
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cloudbox said:
just generalizations again :smh:
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Ok so who are they pro creating with?? Please enlighten me, because I see this mess happening even now. I know a chick that pregnant at 16 by some lame dope boy, and now she's pregnant at 20 by some aspiring rapper. Like wtf, and her mom is ok with it.
 
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Family Man said:
Does the black man ever take responsibility for anything?
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Yes aren't you one? What should we as a collective take responsibility for in this discussion? We didn't do these bad things to the girls so what are we supposed to take responsibility for? Do you take responsibility for every negative your gender, race, family does?
 
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