STOP TALKING TO WOMEN. Don't say anything to Random women. #HOH

[ZoeGod]

I don't understand the point of this. It's such a waste of time to me. SMH. I also don't understand why men text women they just met. CALL HER. If I give you my number and you text me instead of calling, I will automatically lose interest. Texting me makes me feel like you aren't THAT interested, or you are texting multiple women at the same time as you are texting me. No thanks.

Coffee dates. I've never been on one. Do you actually just drink coffee and that's the date? Or do you do more after? It seems so short.

You make alot of great points. Its good to get a females perspective. I might change up from texting alot to call her more. Texting feels mad impersonal. Ill call more often. And on coffee dates. Yeah we have coffee but we do more shyt after. I live in NYC we can take the train and go anywhere. I usually take broads to the Prospect park zoo or the botanical gardens then after we take a walk in the park.

 

[ZoeGod]

@Blackrouge and @VFib great advice. Yall open my eyes and now im gonna change up my strategy. Great info.

 

[audemarzz]

How long before the #youokays movement moved onto the internet lmao you go to message a chick a litte warning pops up on some "are you sure she wants to talk to you, maybe slow down, relationship building is great but dont want to overdo it." The next day the message will be more threatening "alright fella we've noticed a trend with you and for the protection of you and other users we've stripped away your messaging capabilities for 72 hours"

If you have facebook and use to try mutiple chicks back in the day you know what im getting at

 

[Blackrogue]

@Blackrouge and @VFib great advice. Yall open my eyes and now im gonna change up my strategy. Great info.

More power to you for listening to a different perspective and at least trying it out instead of being stuck in your ways.

 

[Ghanaian Armor]

For the Woman that said "Call Her" , I call B.S. - A lot of Women don't answer the phone and prefer to text. You really got to play that shyt by ear because some may consider it an annoyance or even view you as thirsty for calling.

 

[onelastdeath]

Yes I've decided to stop trolling.

Someone told me they hope I die in a neg so I think everyone is starting to take my trolling too seriously. Not trying to get death wishes over a message board that someone takes too seriously.

These nikkas thought I was having a nervous breakdown brehette

nikkas told me to comitt suicide because of trolling

 

[Ashley Banks]

These nikkas thought I was having a nervous breakdown brehette

nikkas told me to comitt suicide because of trolling

don't listen to them

 

[eufemism]

how do y'all talk to girls in college? I'm not very good at having conversations 1 on 1. I'm truly awful at it. I have no idea what to talk about.

In a group I am hilarious but I think it's because I can feed off what people are saying.

 

[VFib]

For the Woman that said "Call Her" , I call B.S. - A lot of Women don't answer the phone and prefer to text. You really got to play that shyt by ear because some may consider it an annoyance or even view you as thirsty for calling.

A lot of women =/= all women. How old are these women who text date? Under 25? Please miss me with that BS.

I was speaking for myself. When I am dealing with a MAN, I expect to be called. If a man texts me, he gets placed in the friend zone. If a woman called my brother thirsty for CALLING her, I'd tell him that she isn't a woman he should want to date seriously.

Text dating. GTFOHWTBS. Is he going to propose via text, too? FOH.

 

[DA_LURKA]

Why do females do this?

 

[Ghanaian Armor]

A lot of women =/= all women. How old are these women who text date? Under 25? Please miss me with that BS.

I was speaking for myself. When I am dealing with a MAN, I expect to be called. If a man texts me, he gets placed in the friend zone. If a woman called my brother thirsty for CALLING her, I'd tell him that she isn't a woman he should want to date seriously.

Text dating. GTFOHWTBS. Is he going to propose via text, too? FOH.

You're out of touch with the majority of your modern day gender counterparts.

Fellas this is why you never ask another female advice on how to deal with Women.

It's always "Not All" or "Not the ones I know".

See a pattern here?

 

[VFib]

Why do females do this?

I can only speak for myself, not other women. I get nervous when a man just stands there and stares at me. He doesn't smile or say anything, just stares. So I look away.

 

[jwonder]

it depends. i dont think there's anything wrong with approaching. but i agree that approaching randoms is inefficient like you said. i think if a chick is giving you the greenlight with her eyes/bodylanguage, nothing wrong with approaching. sure she could be playing game or be fronting, but this will be minimal once you find the sweet spot in your game.

Bingo. If I don't get the . I don't approach in these days. Plus I never was into hitting on chicks in the grocery store and places like that. I don't think the cold approach is great as an adult. I used to rack up at the mall back in the day as a teen. Just seems kind of odd to do it as a grown man.


Edit: I do the cold approach, but when I'm in a different country. There are no stupid ass rules like the US when and where are are supposed to approach a women. Too much lee way given to women here.

 

[VFib]

You're out of touch with the majority of your modern day gender counterparts.

Fellas this is why you never ask another female advice on how to deal with Women.

It's always "Not All" or "Not the ones I know".

See a pattern here?

Because ALL women and ALL men are and do the same thing, right? ALL MEN are dogs, all men are baby daddies and all men are thugs? No, of course not, and maybe not the ones you know, either.

Here's the thing. I don't care about what other women do. I represent myself. I do what's best for me. Therefore, I can only answer questions about me.

But go ahead and ask TheColi for advice about women. Lmao.

 

[jeh]

Da hell is up with these "don't talk or approach women threads lately"

is it lets make rehashed thread week