STOP TALKING TO WOMEN. Don't say anything to Random women. #HOH

[Blackrogue]

an old friend of mine from college usedto give each other challenges
(why is my space bar fukkign up??)
one time he chllenged me to pick up a girl without saying a word
so we were in the student uniobowling alley
first approach was.. well, charades don't work very well if only one of you knows you are playing
second approach i walked over to this coed
so i sat down at her wobbly little table and pulled out a notebook

wiseowl

• old_timer
• May 29, 2015

start writing out hello how's it going??
passed the pad to her and she wrote "hi"
then i wrote back somethign
and she wrote back a reply
it wasn't til the third exchange she wrote "can you talk??"
"laryngitis - can't talk for 48 hours"
so she was considering this, started to write something and then said..
"can you hear?" i nod "then why was i writing back to you??"
i didn' thave a good answer forthat
but this girl was trying to "study' in the bowling alley so...
then i asked for her number, she wrote it donw
then said "call me when you can talk"
so i bid her adeiu
my friend was like when i showed the notebook with ehr number
he hadn't expected me to play the laryngitis card
we were some fools back then
i might try that again just for old times sake

Use a cellphone on your next go. I've done this in loud bars. Text something on your phone and show her. She can either delete or start a row down with her response. You take turns messaging.
When you get her number have her text herself an outrageous message from your phone so it seems legit to show her friends what some dude wrote to her

 

[VFib]

Be polite and courteous. Ill tell you how i approach. I got to them like "hello my name is Zoegod. (i shake her hand ) i know you have somewhere go and have something to do and i dont want to hold you up. But i would love to take you out to coffee or tea sometime. Here is my number give me call it was nice seeing you." If she rejects me I say ok its was nice seeing you. I shake her hand again and smile. If she open to get my number. I take her phone put my number in it and put a funny name in her contacts so she wont forget. If she calls me or texts me she is interested if not i move onto the next one. That is how i do it.

Why do you offer your number? Why not take hers? Just curious.

 

[ZoeGod]

Why do you offer your number? Why not take hers? Just curious.

Its just some game my cousin told me. Most broads give they numbers even when they arent interested. You text them and remind you who u are they get annoyed. Its to clear out those who are interested and those who arent. If she is interested she will text or call me. If she isnt then i didnt waste my time texting her. Plus she will remember who i was. Its works well when she is interested in me. And most dudes dont do it.

 

[Blackrogue]

Why do you offer your number? Why not take hers? Just curious.

I saw people saying this in some other thread too. I was like nah I'm taking er number and being the initiator. It's quite easy for a female to flake not thinking you'll be receptive later. Plus you putting her on the spot. Even if my phone is dead ill have her text her name into my phone and retrieve it later. Getting her number is best case scenario for me. Most time I get the number and we flash her phone right away so she has mine

 

[VFib]

Its just some game my cousin told me. Most broads give they numbers even when they arent interested. You text them and remind you who u are they get annoyed. Its to clear out those who are interested and those who arent. If she is interested she will text or call me. If she isnt then i didnt waste my time texting her. Plus she will remember who i was. Its works well when she is interested in me. And most dudes dont do it.

Interesting...
If a man offered me his number instead of taking mine, I would have thought he wasn't that interested in me and wouldn't bother calling. I see where you are coming from, though.

ETA: I also don't give my number out to anyone that I don't want calling me. However, I do know women will give you their number then block you later.

 

[Blackrogue]

Its just some game my cousin told me. Most broads give they numbers even when they arent interested. You text them and remind you who u are they get annoyed. Its to clear out those who are interested and those who arent. If she is interested she will text or call me. If she isnt then i didnt waste my time texting her. Plus she will remember who i was. Its works well when she is interested in me. And most dudes dont do it.

You'd have missed out on the women who liked you but needed you to take initiative. Plus you can't base how you'll be with a girl based on initial Interaction. Sometimes there's a balance of power where you need to do more to win her over at the beginning, you carry the initiative more but less as time goes and she's willing to reciprocate.

 

[VFib]

You'd have missed out on the women who liked you but needed you to take initiative. Plus you can't base how you'll be with a girl based on initial Interaction. Sometimes there's a balance of power where you need to do more to win her over at the beginning, you carry the initiative more but less as time goes and she's willing to reciprocate.

I'm pretty shy and it takes me some time to warm up to a man, but if I am interested I wouldn't blow him off if he took initiative. Some men think I'm not interested when really, I'm just trying to feel them out. I'm this way with everyone, men and women.

But again, I don't play games with people, so I wouldn't go out on a date with a man I wasn't interested in. F free food, I have a great career and support myself, I am not too broke to buy food. Plus I don't eat out a lot, so the whole "free meal" nonsense doesn't pertain to me. I love home cooked meals. If I am not interested in you, I tell you right then and there.

 

[ZoeGod]

Interesting...
If a man offered me his number instead of taking mine, I would have thought he wasn't that interested in me and wouldn't bother calling. I see where you are coming from, though.

ETA: I also don't give my number out to anyone that I don't want calling me. However, I do know women will give you their number then block you later.

You'd have missed out on the women who liked you but needed you to take initiative. Plus you can't base how you'll be with a girl based on initial Interaction. Sometimes there's a balance of power where you need to do more to win her over at the beginning, you carry the initiative more but less as time goes and she's willing to reciprocate.

Hmmm interesting. The thing is alot females give out their number cuz they fell bad and dont want to reject the dude. When they dude texts her she feels bothered and gives one answer questions. Also it fits what i say when i offer to take her out to coffee and tea. If she text me her number that itself is a sign she is interested. Its not 100% but it worked from timt to time.

 

[Blackrogue]

Hmmm interesting. The thing is alot females give out their number cuz they fell bad and dont want to reject the dude. When they dude texts her she feels bothered and gives one answer questions. Also it fits what i say when i offer to take her out to coffee and tea. If she text me her number that itself is a sign she is interested. Its not 100% but it worked from timt to time.

I mean true. But the same girls you are getting in your cousins system you could still get by getting their numbers because theoretically they like you already.

It's a cop out in a way because you are dodging rejection. I'm sure the follow up calls are not that much. Secondly some women do give the one word answers cause they are under stimulated. If it persists try calling or arranging a meet. Recently I was getting that from some girl and the moment we met sparks flew cause the dynamic was different. Maybe women are numb to typical texts.

Plus consider @VFib who seems like an interesting female just said if a guy gave her his number she'd not call him and assume disinterest on his part..

Also if you don't want to play phone tag mention when you want to get her number it's because you have a specific plan to hang out with her in mind on a specific day and the number is for logistics. If you do play phone tag there will be barriers you'll have to break past. Not over pressing her or easily giving up or taking it personally or assuming she's bored or bothered. Sometimes it has nothing to do with you.

I know how it easy it is for women to flake on calling you cause I flake on calling women with no good reason for the most part. Maybe timing

 

[VFib]

Hmmm interesting. The thing is alot females give out their number cuz they fell bad and dont want to reject the dude. When they dude texts her she feels bothered and gives one answer questions. Also it fits what i say when i offer to take her out to coffee and tea. If she text me her number that itself is a sign she is interested. Its not 100% but it worked from timt to time.

I don't understand the point of this. It's such a waste of time to me. SMH. I also don't understand why men text women they just met. CALL HER. If I give you my number and you text me instead of calling, I will automatically lose interest. Texting me makes me feel like you aren't THAT interested, or you are texting multiple women at the same time as you are texting me. No thanks.

Coffee dates. I've never been on one. Do you actually just drink coffee and that's the date? Or do you do more after? It seems so short.

 

[ZoeGod]

Alot of broads play games nowadays when you get the number. Happned alot to me they give the number but when you call or text they either seem not interested or dont answer. I give a female e calls
One on the same day. The other two the next two days at different times. If she doesnr answer she clearly wasnt interested. Its like why waste my time? So me giving the number says i am interested but call me or text me if you are. Hell text me the number if you are interested.

 

[Blackrogue]

I don't understand the point of this. It's such a waste of time to me. SMH. I also don't understand why men text women they just met. CALL HER. If I give you my number and you text me instead of calling, I will automatically lose interest. Texting me makes me feel like you aren't THAT interested, or you are texting multiple women at the same time as you are texting me. No thanks.

Coffee dates. I've never been on one. Do you actually just drink coffee and that's the date? Or do you do more after? It seems so short.

Yeah I think I've learnt my lesson to shoot a couple texts here and there but it's more adult, more intimate to call. You hear that persons voice which is a positive if you love how she sounds and nuances. You get ahead of the game and you are showing very specific interest in her. You kinda verifying the direction I'm moving towards. I do shoot texts here and there when one of us can't talk

 

[VFib]

Alot of broads play games nowadays when you get the number. Happned alot to me they give the number but when you call or text they either seem not interested or dont answer. I give a female e calls
One on the same day. The other two the next two days at different times. If she doesnr answer she clearly wasnt interested. Its like why waste my time? So me giving the number says i am interested but call me or text me if you are. Hell text me the number if you are interested.

I get it. People do play games, both men and women.

I don't work a 9-5. So if I'm called during the day, chances are that I won't pick up (if I have to work that night). I do tell men this, though. One guy a friend tried to set me up with still seemed annoyed that I would answer his texts hours later. Dude, I told you my work hours. Why are you contacting me at such and such a time? That's like me calling someone at 4am, and getting upset when they don't answer or return my call until 8am.

Dating sucks (for me). Ah well.

 

[Blackrogue]

I get it. People do play games, both men and women.

I don't work a 9-5. So if I'm called during the day, chances are that I won't pick up (if I have to work that night). I do tell men this, though. One guy a friend tried to set me up with still seemed annoyed that I would answer his texts hours later. Dude, I told you my work hours. Why are you contacting me at such and such a time? That's like me calling someone at 4am, and getting upset when they don't answer or return my call until 8am.

Dating sucks (for me). Ah well.

But real talk sometimes people get offended and it has nothing to do with them. Just gotta be patient and understand it's not personal. She'll consider it a plus

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

What simp ass nikka made this thread?


Don't you know females will be just as buttsore if we ignored their asses??
Then they'd be blaming men for another thing...