1. That's how it's always been portrayed for the old Jedi order (not the NJO).here we go again with the "jedis aren't allowed to love" bs.![]()
2. Pretty sure the the OJO said relationships, not love.
3. I doubt obi wan stuck to it, (especially since he had a semi-relationship in the clone wars which is canon) and introducing offspring in the ST era is a possibility.