Spin thread: How many brehs are actually looking to date or be with a woman?

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If I ever become single again I’m never hopping in another relationship. Skraight City Boy slangin D
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If I ever become single again I’m never hopping in another relationship. Skraight City Boy slangin D
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My Wife and I are both on the same page if we ever call it quits haha. I can’t imagine dating again in my late 30’s. I’d wait until my daughters are grown before I find me another woman to die with.
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Probably circle back to the Wifey.
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My Wife and I are both on the same page if we ever call it quits haha. I can’t imagine dating again in my late 30’s. I’d wait until my daughters are grown before I find me another woman to die with.
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Probably circle back to the Wifey.
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Man dating in your 30’s would be a nightmare. It was tough in the 20’s but at least you had the youthfulness and energy. I’d wait like you said for my son to be grown. Those are just daddies “friends” :russ:
 
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It's good to be honest. Time is the only non renewable resource we have. Gotta deal with women on the same page. It does seem like people are dating with fear now adays. Like I don't wanna get played so I'm not gonna try.

Like another breh posted I meeting females who are down with just your typical fwb dating type relationship.

It’s funny cause I dating this chick towards beginning of the year and she texted me ”let’s just skip the bs” meaning let’s be in relationship and I kinda glossed over it n she ghosted me few weeks later out the blue. She hit me up last month when she saw me at the airport with another chick asking me a bunch a questions and I responded with we can catch up when I return and never heard from her.

It’s just an era were people have been through way too much and become way to jaded making it harder to build/find a genuine connection. I can’t say I have a hard time dating I just have a hard time staying long term.
 

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It’s funny cause I dating this chick towards beginning of the year and she texted me ”let’s just skip the bs” meaning let’s be in relationship and I kinda glossed over it n she ghosted me few weeks later out the blue
So she wanted to be in a relationship with you without getting to know you?
 

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Define basic for the audience breh.
It depends on what you're looking for.

In my framing, it's someone who doesn't have some ambition or sense to do better within her respective presentation.

Traditional, but can't cook, can't clean, isn't personable, already has 2 or more kids from multiple partners.

Career-oriented, but wants someone who makes more than her, is enamored with titles and salary, not willing to compromise, it's her way or the highway.

Etc...

I'm a progressive dude, but I think the best relationships the partners complement each other's weaknesses and the partners grow together. It's not competition, it's not complacency, and it's genuinely supporting the other person like day one, first date, when you first met each other's representative. Showing up as your best self 9 out of 10 times even on days you don't feel like it.

So much of dating nowadays feels like a race to the bottom, with each partner putting the least effort out so as not to get hurt or be salty. That's corny as shyt. I rather take a chance and be salty then have a lifetime of cynical dating experiences. Fortunately, I've learned to step away when I don't think the interaction is genuinely reciprocal. I didn't always, and bent over backwards in what "I" perceived as doing the most for partner.
 
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