Stop complementing men that u don't find physically attractive maybe.I stopped doing that It's a damn shame too, but every time I would give a compliment (doesn't even have to be about physical beauty) I get the and they start pressing for a number hard. Then they get a confused/upset look on their face when I decline. Ain't nobody trying to hook up, I'm just being nice dang it. I can't even casually talk to someone about tomatoes without being tried. I don't understand it