This is exactly the kind of damaging, misandrist, gender-normative attitudes driving this behavior.They probably have low self esteem and hate themselves. Just down right insecure and they need to learn to appreciate themselves no matter how ugly they look because I say so and my opinion matters to all men, all the time and everywhere I go.![]()
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FWIW I didn't say I was completely against surgery. On the contrary, I'm for women doing what they want with their bodies. Nonetheless, the reality is it's been proven that most people (both men & women) who get gratuitous amounts of cosmetic surgery usually have a psychosis and higher rate of body dysmorphic disorder relative to the general population (statistics bear this out). With that said, there are plenty of mentally healthy people who undergo cosmetic procedures as well. I'm just pointing to the averages and speaking in generalities, it's not a personal attack on you two at all and I wasn't referring to mentally healthy people who feel the need for self-improvement. I'm referring to the mentally ill IG prostitutes who act like they're better than the next woman, then turn around get shytted on by shieks in Dubai for coins and the right to post pictures on a camel in a hot, smelly desert for IG likes. Those unnatural freakshow types are a blight upon our society along with men who put them on a pedestal and perpetuate unrealistic beauty/body standards on women.
Plus like @Giselle alluded to in her thread, both of you along with most women would prefer a naturally handsome and muscular guy who put in hard work for his fitness over a guy who had fake muscles, fake abs, fake nose, fake lips, cheek bones fillers and reconstructed jaw line. A man with that much plastic surgery would be perceived different than a naturally tall, handsome and muscular guy.
This is exactly the kind of damaging, misandrist, gender-normative attitudes driving this behavior.
They wouldn't have such low self-esteem if Black women didn't impose these ridiculous standards of male attractiveness.
If you don't have a full head of locs like a Chi-town banger or Miami nikka, or 360 hairwaves with a crisp line-up y'all just don't see us.
It's no surprise that men would go to these lengths, putting themselves in significant financial debt just to please the demands of Black women.
Y'all are the White women of the Black community with all your expectations and demands.
Squatting fixed my hairlineIt's not our fault. They need to be worried about our RESPECT!! Even though we give all the attention to attractive men and treat "average" men like meal tickets. Who cares? Except your place at the bottom of the food chain fellas!!! Know your place and be ugly. Get in the gym and do squats! Squats cure EVERYTHING! Squats make your butt grow 5 inches, remove belly fat, balance a lopsided head, make your hair grow and cure acne. Just do squats and don't attempt to improve yourself in any other fashion except get money so that you can beusedrespected more. The lives of these men should only be about hoping someone random women will respect them. fukk how they feel!!
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I don't wear weave so I don't expect my man to![]()
It's not our fault. They need to be worried about our RESPECT!! Even though we give all the attention to attractive men and treat "average" men like meal tickets. Who cares? Except your place at the bottom of the food chain fellas!!! Know your place and be ugly. Get in the gym and do squats! Squats cure EVERYTHING! Squats make your butt grow 5 inches, remove belly fat, balance a lopsided head, make your hair grow and cure acne. Just do squats and don't attempt to improve yourself in any other fashion except get money so that you can beusedrespected more. The lives of these men should only be about hoping someone random women will respect them. fukk how they feel!!
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