So your girl says your not romantic enough...

[Fatboi1]

Your girl and her thoughts. go bust her ass and go play the game when you done.

Throw on some Keith sweat and fukk her good to that shyt once in a while.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

she wants you to eat the box..

 

[Non Sequitur]

she wants to to eat the box..

Eat the box, brehs. No, seriously.

 

[Action Jackson]

Is this your first serious relationship? If it is you'll learn breh. I'm not a romantic dude at all but I've learned that you have to do sappy shyt for them every now and then. You'll also learn to pick and choose your battles. Foreplay breh? Go down on her for 5 mins and this shyt is never an issue.

Buy her some flowers and send them to her work for the hell of it to surprise her. Zero effort and no headaches.

Foot massage/ Back massage/ p*ssy massage. Little effort and no headaches.

Take her shopping to buy something nice then take her out that night to somewhere fancy. Tell her you want to show her off. Minimal effort breh and no headaches.

You don't need to be Casanova, just show her a little extra every now and then. Those things for her I do for me, making her happy is just a bonus.

Now of course if she isn't putting in then thats another issue.

 

[karim]

Is this your first serious relationship? If it is you'll learn breh. I'm not a romantic dude at all but I've learned that you have to do sappy shyt for them every now aneverthen. You'll also learn to pick and choose your battles. Foreplay breh? Go down on her for 5 mins and this shyt is never an issue.

Buy her some flowers and send them to her work for the hell of it to surprise her. Zero effort and no headaches.

Foot massage/ Back massage/ p*ssy massage. Little effort and no headaches.

Take her shopping to buy something nice then take her out that night to somewhere fancy. Tell her you want to show her off. Minimal effort breh and no headaches.

You don't need to be Casanova, just show her a little extra every now and then. Those things for her I do for me, making her happy is just a bonus.

Now of course if she isn't putting in then thats another issue.

He spent the day in bed with he r, if she slowed him down and told him to be more gentle or something like that it would be acceptable. But to start a fight out of the blue is not. Yes you can be romantic at times but you can never bow down to a hissy fit.

 

[ThiefyPoo]

I love doing nice shyt when i have a girl

 

[Geek]

fukk her and move the fukk on.

fukk a relationship.

 

[Blackking]

if u need motivation... fukk another chick.. then the quilt will make u suck it up and do something nice. Or find a chick that actually like u for u.

 

[BezO]

Thanks for the advice brehs, my real life friends aint shyt none of them been in serious relationships for years and dont know what its like to actually like a girl

anyways the argument all started because we was in bed all day and i wanted a quick nut before i left her house, she got mad coz i didnt give her no foreplay then it all kicked off talking bout i dont make her feel special We'd been in bed together all day what the hell is the need for foreplay on the third round Girls man, i just dont get them. I miss her though

Sounds like you feeling the broad. Nothing wrong with that.

People grow. You are not the person today that you will be tomorrow. Change is good when you're improving yourself. Learning how to make YOUR woman happy is a good thing. She make you happy? Do the same. She doesn't make you happy, either move on or put in the communication to make it right if it's worth it.

Sometimes women can be passive aggressive, but it sounds like she's expressed what she wants from you. And none of it sounds unreasonable. Spontaneity? Ain't too many women that don't want that. Plan things & set up dates? You're the man. She's expecting you to take the lead. Sweet text? Why not?

I'm not quite clear. This is your woman? If so, I'm sure you want her to be happy. Like I said, there's a difference between stepping outside of yourself & improving. Spontaneity is a good trait when dealing with women. Most like surprises & adventure. Even if it doesn't work out with this one, you'll want to develop that for the future.

Unless she wants you to take her out every night of the week, spending money you can't spare, take her out. If you don't know what she likes, find out. Most women are happy with what seems simple to us. Especially going from nothing to something. You know how happy she'd be if y'all were laying around and you was on some, "Get dressed. We going to do -insert some shyt she likes-"? If she solid, the reciprocation will be sweet. And you don't have to hear her beefin' with you. And what it cost but a little thought & some money you were going to spend on some BS?. Depending on what y'all do, it might not cost a dime.

Foreplay? Yeah, this ain't porn. Most women require some warm up time. For a chick, a good lay starts before you put your shyt in. Nothing wrong with a quickie or a particular session being just for you, but you gotta put work in. Not only will it make you feel good to make her feel good, a solid broad will put in that much more effort into pleasing you. Few things make you feel more man than seeing a satisfied woman needing a nap.

Learn to communicate before arguments start. And teach her to do the same. You're the man. If your broad is wildin' you either picked the wrong one or you're not runnin' the show correctly. Figure it out quick.