So when did social media become better than a phone number?

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I understand that if she can't remember you then it's her fault, it's your fault etc. etc.

But for a moment forget about game techniques, let's realize that if it works it works and these nikkas are trying to get LAID they are not trying to theorize...

A phone number and a name they have to do work and most young chicks today don't want to do work. Many of yall like these young Women so this is what you are gonna have to put up with to achieve the punani. You need to get with their program or charge them to the game entirely as a generation. If you hit her up from your regular cell she will need to remember your "swag" and why she should be talking to you vs. her IG thirsters. But if you hit her up VIA IG and you have interesting photos showing you and other Women she can :hamster: rationalize in her lizard brain again "Oh yeah that's that fly negro I see he popping with some other bytches I got to snatch this nikka up"...

THIS is the mentality that you must ACCEPT when dealing with young Women under age of 25 whether you like it or not!
I still think they're are women who appreciate a man CALLING them. All this "hey let me get your IG" just seems on some high school shyt too me. I'd :laff: if I saw a 30 year old man on some "let me get your IG shyt" . We gotta get back to acting like real man yall. shyt is getting embarrassing
 

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Phone number is too thirsty and personal now a days.

asking for the IG is a good ice breaker it lets them see what you on and visa versa also you can work your way to the number once they reach a comfort and go from there. otherwise you dealing with issues texting and not texting etc blah blah and storing a number you will never call etc etc it weeds out most of the flaky bytches. I had this fine little redbone thang rant on twitter after I exchanged the social media with her...forehead was big af

Even if I had a social media tho what makes u think I want other people seeing thots on it? Its all types of getting caught up
 

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I still think they're are women who appreciate a man CALLING them. All this "hey let me get your IG" just seems on some high school shyt too me. I'd :laff: if I saw a 30 year old man on some "let me get your IG shyt" . We gotta get back to acting like real man yall. shyt is getting embarrassing

I feel you but just as easily I've seen Brothers get the curve I'm sitting on the park bench watching multiple brothers walk by trying to game the same group of girls...One like let me get that phone number the other dude was like here my IG ho hit me up....

Guess who probably got the buns...They was like to the first dude "Uh I don't know you like that to be giving my phone number"....The IG let's them feel you out and helps pre-qualify you. Get that pre-selection game going on when they see you on Miami beach with other Women that look 10x better than them. Yeah a 30 year old dude shouldn't be doing that but if he wants 20 year old buns that might be what has to happen these days...Even in the non-cold approach social game aspect I could see it working better...
 

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Plenty of reasons why people would rather communicate via social media then the phone.
-you can always get visuals/video/pics in messenger apps or PMs.

-easier to multitask, and talk to multiple people at once. Unless you are in front of a computer or running your smartphone on Wi-Fi, can't communicate with more then one person at a time (at the best its a little more difficult)

-easier to attach social media profiles to faces. Its happened to most guys.....how many times have you mixed up phone numbers with faces/names?

There are other reasons......too stoned to think of the rest!

Easier to send unwanted nikkas to the bushes. Not everyone has a Instagram with pics of weed/stolen stuff or whatever young dudes do these days,the dudes that pretend to get girls post on them shyts, then when u ask they boyz if those same dudes are getting pics they just say "nah.bro , those pics with the girls are just for sho so people think they get girls"
 

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Phone number is too thirsty and personal now a days.

asking for the IG is a good ice breaker it lets them see what you on and visa versa also you can work your way to the number once they reach a comfort and go from there. otherwise you dealing with issues texting and not texting etc blah blah and storing a number you will never call etc etc it weeds out most of the flaky bytches. I had this fine little redbone thang rant on twitter after I exchanged the social media with her...forehead was big af

It also helps you screen them. Find out is the baby's father still hanging around, shyt like that you would not know unless you on her timeline. Stuff that can save you time and drama from hollering at a trap spot chick. Let you know what strategies to use when trying to get the panties. With a phone number what you got? Shooting bullets in the dark hoping something hits. We gotta wage INTELLIGENCE WARFARE he who has the most information wins.
 

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I feel you but just as easily I've seen Brothers get the curve I'm sitting on the park bench watching multiple brothers walk by trying to game the same group of girls...One like let me get that phone number the other dude was like here my IG ho hit me up....

Guess who probably got the buns...They was like to the first dude "Uh I don't know you like that to be giving my phone number"....The IG let's them feel you out and helps pre-qualify you. Get that pre-selection game going on when they see you on Miami beach with other Women that look 10x better than them. Yeah a 30 year old dude shouldn't be doing that but if he wants 20 year old buns that might be what has to happen these days...Even in the non-cold approach social game aspect I could see it working better...
But as another poster said how is that going make you stand out. You follow a fine female on IG and you're just one of the MANY dudes. Also on social media your life is kind of an open book and thus no mystery. But if you approach real strong get her attention, and also bring up that you not on social media( casually) it kind of adds that element of mystery and being different to you which a woman might find sexy.
 

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I mean this not the 90's anymore where you can turn a girl on by having a barry manilow voice on the phone. She like "nikka that sound cool and everything but i need to know who you are"...

Get that shyt out of the way the easiest way to get in her shyt is to SHOW your creds visually...

"Yes I roll with ____ squad"
"I be up in _____ club I know ____ promoter"
"You can see my homies on fleek"
" My boys all on point you can see my ride"

This can be said all with photos you don't need to say a word except "Peep my IG that's me what else you need to know"

Women want to know they are giving up the goods to a nikka who is PERCEIVED to be fly they don't give a damn about what you are about internally it's all about the surface when it comes to casual encounters...

The game has changed you gonna be an old man calling saying "Yeah I be about it" in the back of her mind she gonna keep asking "So when and HOW I'm gonna know and see this nikka real"...That ADHD is a bytch and you gotta make it easy serve it on the a platter pre-cooked THESE HOES NOT TRYING TO WORK TO FEEL YOU....
 

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But as another poster said how is that going make you stand out. You follow a fine female on IG and you're just one of the MANY dudes. Also on social media your life is kind of an open book and thus no mystery. But if you approach real strong get her attention, and also bring up that you not on social media( casually) it kind of adds that element of mystery and being different to you which a woman might find sexy.

There gotta be a direct message option similar to Twitter and you should be able to invite her to group chat pull her in when you talking to your male-female crew. Show her you are well connected and got the "hook up".

Now you can see everything so to speak but she don't know the full story behind those IG photos, they are the bait she will ask you more about it and that's when you start the real game.
 

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I mean this not the 90's anymore where you can turn a girl on by having a barry manilow voice on the phone. She like "nikka that sound cool and everything but i need to know who you are"...

Get that shyt out of the way the easiest way to get in her shyt is to SHOW your creds visually...

"Yes I roll with ____ squad"
"I be up in _____ club I know ____ promoter"
"You can see my homies on fleek"
" My boys all on point you can see my ride"

This can be said all with photos you don't need to say a word except "Peep my IG that's me what else you need to know"

Women want to know they are giving up the goods to a nikka who is PERCEIVED to be fly
they don't give a damn about what you are about internally it's all about the surface when it comes to casual encounters...

The game has changed you gonna be an old man calling saying "Yeah I be about it" in the back of her mind she gonna keep asking "So when and HOW I'm gonna know and see this nikka real"...That ADHD is a bytch and you gotta make it easy serve it on the a platter pre-cooked THESE HOES NOT TRYING TO WORK TO FEEL YOU....

I think that's where your looks and style come into play. If you approached her and you were physically on point that might be all you need.
 
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