So what part of the game is it to date multiple people?

[Dooby]

I dunno but it caught me by surprise when I saw this video with this 30 year old bytch saying you have to date her for 6 months before she is monogamous

What is this world coming to? Am I weird for thinking if a girl is dating me she shouldn't be dating anyone else as long as I'm spending money and time taking her out?

Please explain this to me. Maybe I'm just old fashioned...

 

[Diondon]

That's what a lot females say these days
But I'll be goddamn if take a chick out and spend money on her
drop her off and a next nikka swing through like

 

[JLova]

Average/ugly looking women with "rules" tend to stay single.

 

[cleanface coney]

i dont take females serious when it comes to exclusivity nowadays

i would like to tho

 

[Rawtid]

The part before you comitt to someone exclusively.

 

[Brofato]

It's old-fashioned for people to have many other people they date before they talk about being exclusive. Not really a new thing. That's where the whole going steady thing comes from. Til you ask a girl to go steady then both of you are free to do whatever you want.

That's something I didn't understand at first but just cause you take a hoe out to eat and shyt and call her your girlfriend to all your boys, doesn't make it so. Unless you both actually talked about it and agreed to it.

If she didn't and you just assumed, then that's your fault. That goes both ways, too. Women thinking you're their boyfriend cause they do the same shyt.

 

[Brofato]

The part before you comitt to someone exclusively.

summed up my whole post in one line

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

lmao if you spend money on a woman then she should only date you? Funniest thing I heard all day.

 

[MikelArteta]

Pay for first date brehs

 

[Rawtid]

I dunno but it caught me by surprise when I saw this video with this 30 year old bytch saying you have to date her for 6 months before she is monogamous

What is this world coming to? Am I weird for thinking if a girl is dating me she shouldn't be dating anyone else as long as I'm spending money and time taking her out?

Please explain this to me. Maybe I'm just old fashioned...

So you'd be monogamous with someone after the first date?

That's insane! you don't even know them. It's smart to date someone for a few months before being exclusive, even smarter not to have sex with them in that time. Also you don't hve to spend tons of money on a woman when you're dating her. You can use groupon/living social or do a series of cheap/free dates during that time. You breaking alot of bread on a chick you hardly know is on you.

 

[Action Jackson]

I don't like to rush shyt but if I'm fukkin and we're spending time together (longer than a few weeks) then I don't expect you to be doing that with anyone else. If she is, then at that point she's just whore and thats the category she'll fall under.

 

[Rawtid]

I don't like to rush shyt but if I'm fukkin and we're spending time together (longer than a few weeks) then I don't expect you to be doing that with anyone else. If she is, then at that point she's just whore and thats the category she'll fall under.

So at what point do you ask her to be exclusive or your just assume the whole time?

 

[Soundbwoy]

I don't like to rush shyt but if I'm fukkin and we're spending time together (longer than a few weeks) then I don't expect you to be doing that with anyone else. If she is, then at that point she's just whore and thats the category she'll fall under.

this and it's skressfull

 

[Raava]

Until y'all are exclusive you shouldn't put* anything past the other person for either party. You can't expect relationship treatment with no relationship

 

[kevm3]

Maybe I grew up different, but you "TALK" before you date. The talking phase is the noncommittal one you engage in. Dating is when you are not formally committed, but you are taking this one person out to see if they are worthy of long-term commitment. You aren't committed to them over the long-term, but you are committed to the extent that you aren't seeing other people.

Women wonder where 'dating' has gone and why men would rather 'hang out' or 'chill' than spend money. The woman in the video is the perfect example. What self-respecting man is going to pay money and give out free dinners to a woman is also seeing 10 other men?

If you're not feeling the person you're dating, you know what you do? You call it off... and THEN you talk to other men, and then you find one and then you date one of them... but if ya'll got this notion that men are cool with spending money and taking you out while 5 other guys are doing the same thing, then that's not a realistic perspective at all.