So there may be a custody battle brewing....

[Steve Piffler]

"You never know a woman till your in divorce court"

now this i agree with. i'm learning a lot about my wife that i didn't know.

 

[Taadow]

Why this thread so long?

@ThickyRozay and @JKFrazier's first posts got it: she tryna do too much, especially given the fact that this whole situation was initiated by her.

- She doesn't need a 3-bedroom place.
- She sees you taking li'l man as a power move trying to undermine her authority. She is looking at how it affects her first instead of everybody else involved.

That said, I think you handled the call correctly. Cut through all that fucc chit and ask her why she's acting the way she is.

 

[Jesus]

@Steve Piffler so you have one kid with here and the other ones are by another nikka?

 

[Steve Piffler]

@Steve Piffler so you have one kid with here and the other ones are by another nikka?

yeah. she had ONE son when i met her, and we had one together......

 

[Texas2step]

our lease is up in January and we gotta be gone before Feb. 1st. i already got my accommodations together, deposit paid, furniture ordered. i told her that she will need to get on her shyt so that her and the boys can have an easy transition. i also told her that i'd help her in any way that she needed me to so that it can be easy for everyone. she calls me today and tells me that she can't find any apartments or townhomes with 3 bedrooms that she could afford in our current area (she wants to stay there so the kids don't have to change schools). i suggest to her that if she can't find anything that she could afford, that I would stay in the area also, let my son stay with me and he could go back and stay with her when she gets her money up so she could get a bigger place. this is pretty much how it went:

her: nikka you crazy! i ain't splitting up the boys! he ain't going nowhere!
me: (cause her tone caught me COMPLETELY off guard) first of all, DON'T TALK TO ME LIKE THAT!!!! don't address me like i have no right to be concerned about my childs well being! i never said that i wanted to split up the boys. all i'm saying is that worst case scenario, if you can't find an affordable spot right now, he can live with me until you can. after you get a better place, he can go back with you.
her: whatever! you just wanna take him from me and i'm going to let you do that!
me: what do you mean LET?!! stop acting like i'm not just as much his parent as you are. i been living under the same roof with him and taking care of him since day 1, just like you. if any decisions are gonna be made about our son, it will be by US. you being his mother does not give you the right to automatically have more rights than me by default. and besides, i never said that i would take him from you permanently. it's just an option if you can't find a place. why are you acting like this?
her: i'm his mother, and he needs to be with me.
me: I'M HIS FATHER! he needs me too!!! what makes you think that he doesn't need me just as much???!!!
her: *hangs up telephone*
me:

WHAT THE fukk???!!!! i certainly didn't see that coming!

Ladies, what's your take on this? Fellas, i already know your take on this...

Breh you live in Texas right? When she hit you wit them child support papers, it is gonna kill you and everything you worked hard for bc Texas has Back Child Support.

My homeboy and his BM lived together for some years. He payed for everything. But when they separated, she put him on child support and them muthafukkas said that he will have to pay Back Child Support which was $40,000 because they will go all the way back to when the kids was born . So he had to pay child support for the time that they was living together and he was providing everything. And he is the 3rd person I know that this happened to.

I suggest you read up on this ish breh and prepare yourself. That is what I've been doing for the past couple days because I know Im on borrowed time .

 

[↓R↑LYB]

she ain't gonna do that...women are not humble like that, usually takes the child to rebel or the man to be man and man up and take back his child to give his child the best, in a situation right now, where my bm should "realize she has to let her go" but she fightin' to hold on to keep my daughter in the projects when i live in the burbs

Why the fukk were you fukking with a broad from the projects

 

[↓R↑LYB]

she never looked for a place in the first place..how u find somethin n she didnt..

she was waitin on ya move...play the guilt trip...u offered..

she ran it by her family n friends...she took a logical situation n flipped it..


better u put yaself on child support..n try n get custody vs..her doin it..n her gettin ya new spot..forcin u to move n find somethin else

i kno some broads who did soem nikkas like this...dude got a brand new house n everything...had it set up..so that if he had to n the girl didnt find nuthin..the boys could stay with dad since he lived in the same area..n stay at the same charter schools..

he mentioned to the broad..she went made it like dude was takin the kids..to her friends n aunts n shyt..

came back... filed on the dude..the brand new 4bedrooms 3.5 baths he jus bought in his name...which she aint have shyt to do with...she ended up gettin..n he had to continue payin the bills on it..

n he had to find some bullshyt ass studio...

I could only imagine if some shyt like that were to happen to me. That bytch would end up missing. I honestly don't know why some nikkas don't realize murder is always an option

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Breh you live in Texas right? When she hit you wit them child support papers, it is gonna kill you and everything you worked hard for bc Texas has Back Child Support.

My homeboy and his BM lived together for some years. He payed for everything. But when they separated, she put him on child support and them muthafukkas said that he will have to pay Back Child Support which was $40,000 because they will go all the way back to when the kids was born . So he had to pay child support for the time that they was living together and he was providing everything. And he is the 3rd person I know that this happened to.

I suggest you read up on this ish breh and prepare yourself. That is what I've been doing for the past couple days because I know Im on borrowed time .

Again, why are y'all nikkas not murdering these bytches? Sometimes taking a life IS the answer. Just pretend you're playing COD and you need one more kill to get a kill streak, it makes it a lot easier

 

[Malta]

now this i agree with. i'm learning a lot about my wife that i didn't know.

Women are vindictive, even if they end things on good terms, they will still try to fukk you over more often than not.

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

i thought about that, but i ain't playing russian roulette with my son. why would i let him settle for less just to prove a point, when i can give him the best? i can't do him like that. he deserves the best that i can provide for him. i can't give him nothing less....

thought both of them were your "sons"?according to the other thread..u raised him as your own blood since he was a toddler..

But now u only riding hard for your biological..

sup with that?

 

[Kobes Two Jerseys]

he is only 11, so he's not quite a teen yet.

Now more than ever he needs you instead of her in his life. He's at the very beginning of the impressionable stage. You better get that kid.

 

[Kobes Two Jerseys]

Again, why are y'all nikkas not murdering these bytches? Sometimes taking a life IS the answer. Just pretend you're playing COD and you need one more kill to get a kill streak, it makes it a lot easier

Rae Carruth?

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Rae Carruth?

Him and good brother OJ should be celebrated

EDIT: just read his story on wiki and this part was funny as fukk

On Nov. 16, 1999, near his home in Charlotte, North Carolina, Cherica Adams, a real estate agent he had been casually dating, was shot four times by Van Brett Watkins, a night club manager and friend of Carruth. Surviving the shooting for a while, Adams called 911 and described how he behaved: he had stopped his vehicle in front of hers as another vehicle drove alongside Adams and its passenger shot her, and Carruth then drove from the scene [6].
Adams was eight months pregnant with Carruth's child at the time. Soon after her admission to the hospital, she fell into a coma.[6] Doctors saved the child, Chancellor Lee Adams, via an emergency Caesarean section, but the unfortunate mother died a month later (on Dec. 14).
Carruth went to the police and posted a $3 million bail, on condition that if either Cherica or Chancellor died, he would turn himself in.[6] After Cherica died, he fled and became a fugitive. The Panthers released him a few days later, citing a morals clause in his contract. He was captured after being found hiding in the trunk of a car outside a motel in Parkers Crossroads, Tennessee. Also in the trunk was $3,900 cash, bottles for body waste, extra clothes, candy bars and a cell phone. He was found guilty of conspiracy to commit murder, shooting into an occupied vehicle, and using an instrument to destroy an unborn child. He was sentenced to 18 to 24 years in prison. He was found not guilty of first-degree murder, and so was spared the death penalty. He is serving a sentence of at least 18 years and 11 months at Nash Correctional Institution near Rocky Mount, North Carolina, with a projected release date of Oct. 22, 2018.[7]
The driver in the murder, Michael Kennedy, pled guilty to second degree murder and was sentenced to 11 years and eight months. Van Brett Watkins pleaded guilty to charges stemming from the shooting, and was sentenced to a minimum of 40 years and three months.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

thought both of them were your "sons"?according to the other thread..u raised him as your own blood since he was a toddler..

But now u only riding hard for your biological..

sup with that?

That's why I think naturally, you're not supposed to take on women with kids.


I know your heart might bleed bloody red for the kids, but nature's a bytch like that.Nature knows what's right.


For one, the only way that shyt would work is if women became extremely wise to the point that they fukked up and made a mistake in life.... and respect & honor you for sacrificing the time and energy to care for a kid that's not even yours.Are modern women that wise/ spiritually in sync/inclined to show such a profound gratitude? To a man?....even if he's keeping it 100...i doubt it.To much pride and to much Beyonce


This is America and women have been taught that men are disposable and "ain't shyt", so deep down in their sub-reactive mind, they don't respect you anyway.No matter how much they show it on the surface, just know, deep down, they doubt you, are skeptical, and just waiting for you to fukk up.



That's why their attitudes can switch on some jekyll and hyde shyt so quick.The conscious mind is full of shyt.She just decided to take off that mask and show her true, damaged soul.It's some old deep shyt you can't sink your feet into.It's generational with not only black women, but American women as a whole.It's just more extreme with black women.Their game is not as refined as white women because most black women don't get the same head start.A lot of them grow up with just their mom, so they don't really know how to interact with a man.They idolize the same nikkaz on the block that the men do.They grow up with a skewed perception of what a man really is.They get caught up in that overly aggressive, false bravado shyt.That's where the "gangsta/thug love/Zane novel" shyt is born from.Them nikkaz are the big strong men that her father never was.They feel "protected"....the void is filled.


Them white ho's just know how to act around you, but their intentions are just the same.We can't win, y'all

 

[Super TD Jakes]

Why the fukk were you fukking with a broad from the projects

i know...