this sista went HAM on Collins with truth. the media won't dare mention the facts that she dropped because it doesn't help sell the agenda.
If you’re easily offended and under the age of 25, I HIGHLY suggest you stay the hell off of my blog and away from this post because shyt it about to get real.
In case you forgot, earlier in the year basketball player Jason Collins came out of the closet to announce that he was indeed gay. While many had opinions about his choices to go public, many people praised him for being brave enough to come out as a gay African American professional athlete. They applauded him for his strength, courage, and openness and while others stood in awe of what an amazing step it was for gay advocacy………. I set there stewing.
At first I was like, “Oh, this is great for the LGBT community!”
Then as I begin to read more and delve more into his personal life, I gotta be honest, I find Jason Collins to b a punk ass bytch.
As a heterosexual woman, who’s attracted to men who want women, I felt for his ex, former WNBA player Carolyn Moos.
This woman gave 8 years of HER LIFE to a man that was basically one big ass lie. Half of those 8 years was spent planning a wedding that clearly never was going to understand. Don’t get me wrong, if you have these deep rooted feelings of who you are and you need to come clean with that, then BY ALL MEANS DO IT. But when you start dragging other people into your web of trying to find yourself, that’s when it becomes a problem.
As a woman, a straight woman, most of us (not all but most) dream of having a family of our own with children that are made up of components of us and our significant others. Someone who’s into and loves US and only US. 8 years is a long ass motherfukkin’ time to be with someone dragging them along trying to get your shyt together. Whether your coming to cope with your sexuality or not, he could’ve done that shyt by his self instead of leading that woman on.
DO YOU KNOW how hard it gets to conceive children when you get up in age?
As a woman in my late twenties, I’m not dating just to date anymore. The next man I end up with, could potentially be my last.
I understand this woman’s hurt. While everyone else is laid up calling Collins a hero, she find out about his sexuality A WEEK before he came out in public.
What type of peanut butter and jelly bullshyt is that?!
I’m all for people coming to terms with their sexuality because I think it makes you a better person when you’re honest with yourself. I’m NOT about this while you find yourself you lead people on though. It’s not fair and it’s selfish.
fukk that.
She’s better than me cause I would’ve had an Angela Bassett moment in private and public.
http://leaveyourfeelingsatthedoor.tumblr.com/post/55263622627/yep-ive-got-an-issue-with-closeted-men
