So I went to the bar/club last night SOLO for the 1st time....

[Kenny West]

Thats real.

I've haven't gone to a bar/lounge dolo. My nikkas got girls or blew their cash on Polo. Need to start sayin "fukk it, YOLO".

 

[Atlrocafella]

Salute breh, I've gone out dolo plenty of times, and it's always good to only have to worry about yourself..Chicks also like to catch a nicca dolo and not have a crew of niccas with him.

 

[concise]

Ya'll don't go out solo?

word.
You brehs need to do this more often.

 

[Trip]

The most come to grip moment in a mans life is when he realizes people are too worried about themselves to give a shyt about what someone else is doing.

Nothing wrong doing something by yourself.

 

[AMcV'88]

^ good point.

i think once you hit 20 you start doing alot more things solo that you probably wouldn't think youd do when your younger.. but theres still things like going to the cinema by yourself (i know a few chicks that do this if they have short days at work) and i've been to bars/lounges by myself but never a club.

i'm out here in the UK dolo at the minute apart from a down the line relatives i go and see for a couple of hours every few days and from spending a little bit of time with the one my age it seems if hes not working he's out drinking so i have been mostly myself.

as someone whos pretty known for being a bit of a cocky arrogant confident guy in the way i go about things it still is pretty daunting and makes you feel a bit insecure a little bit until you get used to it.. it's been a good confidence booster in ways but at other times its uncomfortable...but i've found this one chick thats been really helpful though if i've needed her.

go back to NY on the 10th and then back out to europe for trials in France, Holland and Italy from June 28th.

 

[stealthbomber]

i turn 21 in a month. i can't wait till i can go to bars

this story got a nikka hyped up

 

[newworldafro]

Salute breh, I've gone out dolo plenty of times, and it's always good to only have to worry about yourself..Chicks also like to catch a nicca dolo and not have a crew of niccas with him.

Yeah, I'm regularly dolo solo with my yolo in a polo, ya know .. ...
Hung out in Raleigh last night, it was more , I've better/more successful nites.....but it was whatever.......

 

[AgentGrey]

^ good point.

i think once you hit 20 you start doing alot more things solo that you probably wouldn't think youd do when your younger..

word, as I get older I see myself doin shyt I considered "ole nikka shyt" in high school. I had lots of friends but didn't like doin shyt solo, graduated and moved out in the same month and the first time I went grocery shopping dolo was status.

Now I just smoke a blunt and go do whatever, soon as I turn 21 Im hittin the bar solo like

 

[CrimsonTider]

I have been screaming for people on sohh to do this for ever.

I have always said to meet new people / girls you have to get out of the house at night time.

There is no reason to complain that life is boring and you dont go out on the time on the weekend.

 

[Mantle Drunk]

I usually have friends that are down but last night no one was around i thought about it and bailed. Cool story def gives me reassurance to do it. It seems like that OU shirt helped break the ice what if you chose a diff shirt. For the dude said now do it in another state I oddly think that would be easier I almost rather not bump into people I know and plus the sheer fact that i know i cant bump into anyone would make me step up to the plate and i would have an excuse why i'm alone in a bar.

 

[klientel]

Ok I understand everybody wanna pretend like going to the club solo is cool but lets be honest....

9 times outta 10 that shyt is a L. Jadillac may have avoided a L on his outing but don't act like that will happen on a regular basis. Infact he may have taken a L and didn't even know it. The club is all about perception. If anybody tries to say anything different they are a muthafukking lie or they are the dude I'm about to describe. We all know this dude...

Dancing in the middle of the club solo with a 3X Coogi shirt, baggy south pole jeans and shades. From his perspective he's having the time of his life, nobody can tell him nothing. From everyone else's perspective homie is the lamest nikka on earth. Did he walk away with a W that night? Nope....

I'm not saying u will automatically turn into the coogi nikka if u roll solo. But it's hella easy to get lumped into lame nikka category if u roaming around the club by urself. U stick out like a sore thumb unless A. U know mad people in there or B. U pulling bytches constantly. Chances are u not doing either of those. And trust me everybody see u sitting on the wall with ur drink, bobbing ur head to the music trying to look cool. 90% of the time in the club people are just scoping that bytch out looking at everybody.....so we see u nikka.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Ok I understand everybody wanna pretend like going to the club solo is cool but lets be honest....

9 times outta 10 that shyt is a L. Jadillac may have avoided a L on his outing but don't act like that will happen on a regular basis. Infact he may have taken a L and didn't even know it. The club is all about perception. If anybody tries to say anything different they are a muthafukking lie or they are the dude I'm about to describe. We all know this dude...

Dancing in the middle of the club solo with a 3X Coogi shirt, baggy south pole jeans and shades. From his perspective he's having the time of his life, nobody can tell him nothing. From everyone else's perspective homie is the lamest nikka on earth. Did he walk away with a W that night? Nope....

I'm not saying u will automatically turn into the coogi nikka if u roll solo. But it's hella easy to get lumped into lame nikka category if u roaming around the club by urself. U stick out like a sore thumb unless A. U know mad people in there or B. U pulling bytches constantly. Chances are u not doing either of those. And trust me everybody see u sitting on the wall with ur drink, bobbing ur head to the music trying to look cool. 90% of the time in the club people are just scoping that bytch out looking at everybody.....so we see u nikka.

I have done a bar/lounge before also did a club once... but I agree clubs solo aint the biz...Just stick to bars... i just hit up beach bars

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

And for my brehs who travel solo... how do yall do that? Any tips you can give a breh? And would you do a cruise solo?

 

[CrimsonTider]

Ok I understand everybody wanna pretend like going to the club solo is cool but lets be honest....

9 times outta 10 that shyt is a L. Jadillac may have avoided a L on his outing but don't act like that will happen on a regular basis. Infact he may have taken a L and didn't even know it. The club is all about perception. If anybody tries to say anything different they are a muthafukking lie or they are the dude I'm about to describe. We all know this dude...

Dancing in the middle of the club solo with a 3X Coogi shirt, baggy south pole jeans and shades. From his perspective he's having the time of his life, nobody can tell him nothing. From everyone else's perspective homie is the lamest nikka on earth. Did he walk away with a W that night? Nope....

I'm not saying u will automatically turn into the coogi nikka if u roll solo. But it's hella easy to get lumped into lame nikka category if u roaming around the club by urself. U stick out like a sore thumb unless A. U know mad people in there or B. U pulling bytches constantly. Chances are u not doing either of those. And trust me everybody see u sitting on the wall with ur drink, bobbing ur head to the music trying to look cool. 90% of the time in the club people are just scoping that bytch out looking at everybody.....so we see u nikka.

This is so damn stupid. If that nikka goal was to go out and have a good time BY HIMSELF why would he care how he looks to a bunch of strangers.

Ol boy seems like he a good time in your retarded hypothetical while everyone else is wasting their time judging someone he doesn't even know.

You lost at life if your are hesitant to do something because of some imaginary L's some people you will never see again "give" you

 

[Anothergirl]

The ppl I usually hang out with were busy or didnt have any money...so last night, I'm watching the Celtics game like, "screw this, I'm going out...even if by myself. It's time I start having more self-assuredness in situations like this"

So the place I went to is a kinda a casual club/bar(some ppl wear shorts, hats, etc.), so I just wore some jeans and a t-shirt. My muscle fitted OU t-shirt to be exact...this will play in later. So the whole time I'm drivign in the car, half of me is like "Do you really wanna do this?" other half of me is like "I'm on my YOLO shyt, henceforth. And I'm gonna be positive."

So anyway, I get there bout 11 something, spray a dab of Kenneth Cole cologne, square myself up and head to the door like a . Off the bat, this white chick was like, "you know what, I like you....and I like ur shirt....I'm not gonna even charge you cover." I was like "Really...why thank you very much!"
She said she was from Tulsa.

So then I walked in, and no sooner than I got 10 feet in the door these two brothas were like, "Ahhh man, you got the right shirt on...you went to OU? We did too" So we chopped it up for a minute, then I headed on.

Several mins later, I'm walking around & I spotted this girl I went to college with, she saw me, and so I start talking to her about what she'd been up to since then, etc....while that was goign on, this other dude came up to me like, "hey man, I knew you looked familar, then I got closer and saw ur shirt and remembered you....I went to OU too" (I didnt remember him tho)

By now I'm thinkin', "hey this shyt just might work out afterall."

Anyway, so I leave that area and head over to the dance floor area by the DJ booth & sidebar. I post up....and these two cool ass Nigerian dudes that were over there start talkin to me, and we're hollerin at girls as they pass through, dancing with them etc. I got a beer or two and they offered to pay for it.

Talked to some girls, got a couple girl numbers by the end of the night....and had a great time overall.

I'd lost my swag a while back and was in a severe slump within myself, but last night was like

for me. I'm not all the way back yet, but I'm on the road.

Moral of the story: Have some damn confidence in yourself regardless of the situation, believe that some positive stuff will come to you and it will.

sounded like a blast *daps*