True Blue Moon
Superstar
You're gonna make me scrap the novel I've been working on and start this up
It's like 500 Days Of Summer but more raw
So I Took A Rare, Yet Severe L The Other Day :huhldup:
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It's like 500 Days Of Summer but more raw
onelastdeath
Banned
That movie made me angry breh.It's like 500 Days Of Summer but more raw
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
Yeah... But you have to make sure it's being recipricated. That's the tough part, finding that balance.I read T48LOP when I was 14. I got put on to it by my older brother.
When you love someone though, sometimes you have to put them first. I could have 100% moved on a while ago, cut my losses, and just took it as a lesson. But you sacrifice for those you love.
It happens though
You wanted her. She wanted you but also wanted freedom and time to "think".
Her problem is she had issues she needed to work on. She can't do that when she was messing with someone. It's a distraction. She knew that and so she didn't get back with you. Instead, she tried but she got lonely and met someone new.
She can't have both. Either you work on the issues single before you try to jump back in a relationship with someone or you trust someone to help you work through together.
The problem is how can you trust someone to help you with your trust issues? You either close yourself off to people and get lonely, or you have to be brave and just do it. You might get hurt but it won't be the end of the world. Just learn to pick yourself back up and try again.
It's a problem a lot of people have.
onelastdeath
Banned
I was assuming it was being reciprocated. I was under the assumption that she really needed time for whatever mental wounds she had to heal, and since I was the one who created the wounds, I figured I should at the very least be patient enough until the day they scarred over.
I didn't even know she was messing with anyone. When she asked me was there anyone I was fukking with, I said yeah. Because I was. I told her I had a couple of girls that I was in. I also told her that I'd put an end to it. Immediately. Which I did. When I asked her, she said she didn't have anything going on with anyone.
I think for me, I was hoping I could recreate the chemistry we had before the imbalance surfaced. Thinking back now that was stupid. Because what we had the first time around was pure and untainted. There was never a chance to get it back to that place. That was over, and maybe I should have accepted that, instead of playing the waiting game for so long.
Everything you're saying are things that I thought about. Things that I've lived by, and things that I've told my friends, and even advice that I've given here. The difference here though is that I held her to a different standard than I held other women. I applied these things to girls I've met at parties, in Starbucks at Malls and stuff. With her, everything that I know about women, I threw out the window because she was more than a woman to me. I wouldn't have done that waiting shyt for anyone else. I haven't done it for anyone else.
god shamgod
Veteran
I bet this nikka cried in the car before staring at the ceiling for 2 hours 
who da fukk does that
who da fukk does that
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
I feel like I understand where she's coming from. She just has a lot to learn. I think its selfish and unrealistic to ask someone to wait for you indefinitely. Hopefully, she learned that from this situation.
onelastdeath
Banned
I bet this nikka cried in the car before staring at the ceiling for 2 hours
I didn't cry. That's not something I would cry over. And I do that. I'm a thinker
YaThreadFloppedB!
The Patron Saint of Threads
I needed thatJust take a (another) break
If people want to walk out of your life, let them. Those who wanna be there, will be.
It's her lost. You were an option to her, she had you on the back burner. Now she's pregnant, look who she ran to.
You are her security blanket, her teddy bear.
Let it go, let it goooo!
Next thing you know she gon start asking for money for doctors visits and baby formula.
Kufismack
In Beats We Trust
Well I'm not someone who can relate to your story as I've never been in a relationship, but as a man I respect you for even sharing this story. I did read the whole thing lol
A.V.
reTIreMEnt: THE ALBUM (01/22) ALL DSPs
Real shyt. HOH or not, this some shyt everybody goes through. If you don't, I feel sorry for you eventually when it does happen and you're blindsided I think the key is looking at the bigger picture and realizing that it happens to a lot of people. Looking at shyt objectively instead of emotionally. shyt's hard as fukk but ultimately, it'll help. 
I think the key is looking at the bigger picture and realizing that it happens to a lot of people. Looking at shyt objectively instead of emotionally. shyt's hard as fukk but ultimately, it'll help.
onelastdeath
Banned
I don't normally have girl problems either. I got hurt bad when I was younger and that was enoughReal shyt. HOH or not, this some shyt everybody goes through. If you don't, I feel sorry for you eventually when it does happen and you're blindsided
I been #HOH since and I eased up for her.
YaThreadFloppedB!
The Patron Saint of Threads
Heart blacker than a Harlem night, fukk bytches they all alike
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
Demon
Evil b*stard
@CinnaSlim dropping those jewels
