u feel the same exact way so don't even front....it's a unknown known that homosexuality with men is 10000000x worse than it is for females.
A chick can get drunk at a club and make out with another chick....it's all good. The next morning she's not a lesbian, she's just a chick that got faded and decided to wild out. A dude gets drunk at a club and makes out with a dude he's full blown gay....plain and simple.
Or let's say a female friend of urs walked in a female strip club and tipped. Would u make a big deal about it? Nah. But if ur boyfriend(I'm assuming ur a girl or atleast pretending to be) said he walked in a male strip club and got a lap dance, u would freak the **** out.