It would truly be random. The child isnt a newborn, so im not really turned off. I dont dislike kids, and 3 years is a good age. I would not automatically pick the other girl just cause she doesnt have a kid. Guess my way of thinking is against the norm
Assuming you aren't full of it, which you very well could be, the reason you identify with them so much is because you were raised by one. A women can't teach a boy to be a man on her own. that child will miss out on some things and could have some mental issues whether big or small later in life because of it.
Also, since you have this bias, you may be inflicted with simp tendencies which could allow you to be taken advantage of. Like reincar said, the statistics are there. Should these women he hated? No. But every child deserves a father, and the ones who don't will have a disadvantage and are missing out. Also, yes these women deserve to be held accountable just as much as the piss poor dude she chose to fukk raw who ran.