Single mothers are a used material for beta males

[MikelArteta]

According to the dudes in here, it's the woman's fault. That's my issue. It's such a simplistic way of looking at things and hurt nikkaz eat all that crap up.

guy hollers at women - she can decline
guy asks women for number - she can decline
guy asks women on a date - she can decline
guy starts to kiss - she can decline
guy starts removing clothes - she can decline

thats 5 instances in a fictional scenario she can decline

as we continue

guy sticks his dikk in her vagina - she can decline or say wear a condom
she can pop a day after pill even if she has unprotected sex
she finds out she is pregnant she can get a abortion, give hte child up for adoption etc.

its all in her hands

 

[el_oh_el]

This thread just shows that there are a lot of smart dumb muthafukkas on this board. Some of yall aint even really experienced this shyt called life..yet pass out generalizations and insults left and right. Everybody makes mistakes, but it seems if u fukk up and become a single mother, you are an abomination
Not countin these sorry ass nikkas that have they cake and eat it too (fukk, impregnate, duck)
Most these chicks young as fukk and dont even have the mentality to be a mother..so you cant really be too hard on em
I was raised by a single mother that was so far from ratchet that I was raised in the hood, but i can barely identify with anybody with that hood mentality..

On some real shyt, if a chick in her 30s and dont have no kids and no dude, she prolly wayy more fukked off than these "abominable" single mothers are..
If you can get past the child not being yours, aint shyt wrong with accepting the mother and child together...half yall nikkas aint got soldiers marching to make kids anyway
Yall dudes need to get off the sherm

guy hollers at women - she can decline
guy asks women for number - she can decline
guy asks women on a date - she can decline
guy starts to kiss - she can decline
guy starts removing clothes - she can decline

thats 5 instances in a fictional scenario she can decline

as we continue

guy sticks his dikk in her vagina - she can decline or say wear a condom
she can pop a day after pill even if she has unprotected sex
she finds out she is pregnant she can get a abortion, give hte child up for adoption etc.

its all in her hands

Ohh..word? So all this makes it the chicks fault..kinda like a baby can be made with one person. Makes sense

 

[Chris.B]

According to the dudes in here, it's the woman's fault. That's my issue. It's such a simplistic way of looking at things and hurt nikkaz eat all that crap up.

I have never seen a man pregnant before

 

[MikelArteta]

This thread just shows that there are a lot of smart dumb muthafukkas on this board. Some of yall aint even really experienced this shyt called life..yet pass out generalizations and insults left and right. Everybody makes mistakes, but it seems if u fukk up and become a single mother, you are an abomination
Not countin these sorry ass nikkas that have they cake and eat it too (fukk, impregnate, duck)
Most these chicks young as fukk and dont even have the mentality to be a mother..so you cant really be too hard on em
I was raised by a single mother that was so far from ratchet that I was raised in the hood, but i can barely identify with anybody with that hood mentality..

On some real shyt, if a chick in her 30s and dont have no kids and no dude, she prolly wayy more fukked off than these "abominable" single mothers are..
If you can get past the child not being yours, aint shyt wrong with accepting the mother and child together...half yall nikkas aint got soldiers marching to make kids anyway
Yall dudes need to get off the sherm



Ohh..word? So all this makes it the chicks fault..kinda like a baby can be made with one person. Makes sense

invalidates and makes anything you wrote unreadable. Why? because you see this thread not praising the strong single mom so you come in here on your high horse with anger in your heart like my mom wasn't like that, how dare anyone attack single moms.

And then you retort to the same ol simping comments, "if a woman doesnt have kids or dude she is messed up" way to paint a vast array of women who didn't mess up and valued their education and career as messed up.

This is hitting you to close to home, disagreeing with what the general consensus is to you makes it seems like you will be bashing your mom. So I understand the stance you are taken but I can't read what you wrote with your background, conflict of interest.

 

[el_oh_el]

invalidates and makes anything you wrote unreadable. Why? because you see this thread not praising the strong single mom so you come in here on your high horse with anger in your heart like my mom wasn't like that, how dare anyone attack single moms.

It does not, because I am not angry. I always get annoyed when i see generalizations. They are for imbeciles. They do not see anything from any other point of view but theirs. Its a totally un-enlightened way of thinking. In the end, I do not believe single mothers to be any more fukked up than regular single chicks. shyt, the regulars are often more selfish, self-centered, and have less home skills (cant cook).

 

[MikelArteta]

It does not, because I am not angry. I always get annoyed when i see generalizations. They are for imbeciles. They do not see anything from any other point of view but theirs. Its a totally un-enlightened way of thinking. In the end, I do not believe single mothers to be any more fukked up than regular single chicks. shyt, the regulars are often more selfish, self-centered, and have less home skills (cant cook).

no one said single others are not more screwed up or less screwed up than regular chicks

however single moms have more baggage, ala a child, ala a baby daddy and his family.

here's a question

two women

Both are the same height
both are the same weight
both make teh same amount of money
both live on their own
both have a car
both are very beautiful

however 1 has a 3 year old child
and the other does not

which one would you choose first to date?

 

[el_oh_el]

no one said single others are not more screwed up or less screwed up than regular chicks

however single moms have more baggage, ala a child, ala a baby daddy and his family.

here's a question

two women

Both are the same height
both are the same weight
both make teh same amount of money
both live on their own
both have a car
both are very beautiful

however 1 has a 3 year old child
and the other does not

which one would you choose first to date?

It would truly be random. The child isnt a newborn, so im not really turned off. I dont dislike kids, and 3 years is a good age. I would not automatically pick the other girl just cause she doesnt have a kid. Guess my way of thinking is against the norm

 

[Bay Area]

Im glad that the nikkas spewing ignorance in this thread are getting that work

 

[MikelArteta]

I respect that

It would truly be random. The child isnt a newborn, so im not really turned off. I dont dislike kids, and 3 years is a good age. I would not automatically pick the other girl just cause she doesnt have a kid. Guess my way of thinking is against the norm

 

[el_oh_el]

I respect that

Damn, this place is different from the Arcadium

 

[MikelArteta]

Nothing I spewed was ignorant.

Its just typical not agreeing to the PC way in the black community. I'm sure everyone who is riding for single mothers, probably have a sister who is a single mom, or raised in a single mom household, or gasp dating a single mother. Us men who are not blinded or not guilt tripped into accepting a major part of the decay of our community can say it how it is

Im glad that the nikkas spewing ignorance in this thread are getting that work

Nothing i

 

[MikelArteta]

Damn, this place is different from the Arcadium

 

[The Mad Titan]

One of the coolest down to earth chicks I ever met is a single mom. She holds it down too... And she got loot, and is dying to spend it on a nikka.


But the kid......



I couldn't do it....

 

[jalamanta]

OP fronting like he got it like that with women


Truth is most of yall complaining about these chicks are the first ones to holla and get shot down

being shot down by a single mother. I am sorry you love them crumbs.

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

i got turned down by single moms a few times before

did i lauce?