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ChocolateQueen said:
Did you sign a prenuptial? If I were you I would open a private account and save some money when the time is right to leave. If you're unhappy why bother to continue with your marriage. Was he like this the first time you meet him? When did he start changing? Do you find any signs of him cheating on you? Have you check his phone messages? If he's with another women...
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Sign a what? Never heard of that..
I do have a private account, that's been established since August.
And no, he wasn't like this in the beginning.. I mean, there was minor flaws but who doesn't have those? I just wish I paid more attention to those flaws. It woulda opened my eyes more and made me pump the brakes in our relationship...
And no, I don't go thru his phone. That's going the extra mile when I honestly don't care. There's obviously other forms of cheating besides sleeping with someone else. Do I believe he slept with another? No but he has done other things I consider cheating (gone out with another female, text/picture messages, etc.)
 
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SweetDelightxx said:
Sign a what? Never heard of that..
I do have a private account, that's been established since August.
And no, he wasn't like this in the beginning.. I mean, there was minor flaws but who doesn't have those? I just wish I paid more attention to those flaws. It woulda opened my eyes more and made me pump the
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Prenup-

"A prenuptial agreement ("prenup" for short) is a written contract created by two people before they are married. Aprenup typically lists all of the property each person owns (as well as any debts) and specifies what each person's property rights will be after the marriage."
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And no, I don't go thru his phone. 1. That's going the extra mile when I honestly don't care. There's obviously other forms of cheating besides sleeping with someone else. Do I believe he slept with another? No but he has done other things I consider cheating 2.(gone out with another female, text/picture messages, etc.)
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1. You don't care if he text multiple women? :dahell:

2. Was this before or after you were engaged to him(if I'm reading your response correctly)?

I'm just saying. If he's treating you like shyt you should do a little investigation. My last ex boyfriend treated me like shyt and I was wondering why he was acting like an a$$hole until I checked his phone and there were multiple messages of him texting old ex girlfriends he used to be intimate with. Left him right then and there and he even admitted that he cheated on me with different women. Our relationship lasted for 5 years but I was unhappy and I'm glad that I left.

If you feel like he's not cheating then I'll take your word for it, but I'm just saying. :whoa:

Just keep an eye on him. I wish you nothing but the best and please update us. And good move on the private account. :smile:
 
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ChocolateQueen said:
Prenup-






1. You don't care if he text multiple women? :dahell:

2. Was this before or after you were engaged to him(if I'm reading your response correctly)?

I'm just saying. If he's treating you like shyt you should do a little investigation. My last ex boyfriend treated me like shyt and I was wondering why he was acting like an a$$hole until I checked his phone and there were multiple messages of him texting old ex girlfriends he used to be intimate with. Left him right then and there and he even admitted that he cheated on me with different women. Our relationship lasted for 5 years but I was unhappy and I'm glad that I left.

If you feel like he's not cheating then I'll take your word for it, but I'm just saying. :whoa:

Just keep an eye on him. I wish you nothing but the best and please update us. And good move on the private account. :smile:
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When I say I don't care I mean like... the fight to keep the relationship is gone. The urge to fix everything, I no longer have. The thought of him talking to another doesn't hurt me like it use to. I just don't care. And feeling like this, in a way, is saving my sanity.
Thanks for the advice though :hug:

Btw we didn't sign any prenups.


EDIT: I just realized I didn't answer question 2. He did that after we got married.
 
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Poitier said:
You suggesting foul shyt.
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I see nothing foul about opening up another private account while you're in a long time relationship. I think it's a smart move for a man and a women. You will never know what the outcome will be. :manny:


If you think it's foul why don't you create a thread in the salon asking us ladies if it's foul to open a private account while you're in a committed relationship? Go ahead Poiter. :mjpls:

ETA: She answered my question. What are your thoughts now.
 
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SweetDelightxx said:
When I say I don't care I mean like... the fight to keep the relationship is gone. The urge to fix everything, I no longer have. The thought of him talking to another doesn't hurt me like it use to. I just don't care. And feeling like this, in a way, is saving my sanity.
Thanks for the advice though :hug:

Btw we didn't sign any prenups.


EDIT: I just realized I didn't answer question 2. He did that after we got married.
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OK thanks for clarifying and what a piece of shyt your husband is. You deserve better( no offense).:snoop:

I hope you get everything you need and leave asap.
 
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