Single ladies, Feb 14th is approaching :mjcry:
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agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
What about a $100 gift card is that a good gift?
I don't believe in V-day. After all, the white man created such a stupid holiday.
If I had a girlfriend that would be the first ting I tell her.
If I had a girlfriend that would be the first ting I tell her.
Mines don't believe in giving gifts for just one day yet doesn't give me gifts period. Last year, I had to keep telling him I would like a gift for V-day, I kept reminding him for 3 weeks up until the day before where he bought me this big Victoria Secret packaging that came with a HUGE bear and make-up bag, sweater, pantyhose, candy, a rose & perfume/body lotion. After that, I felt upset that when special occasions nevertheless "just because" occasions comes around, I have to ask for something. I just stopped doing it. Anniversary came, nothing, birthday, nothing, Christmas I bought him these clothes that he wanted so bad but I got nothing. V-day coming up and I didn't say anything. I'm actually sad that this how it is. We only been married 3 years and the effort stopped the moment after I said yes to being his girlfriend
No offense but you shouldn't be dealing with that type of emotional abuse. I've been down this road before, with my EX. It's not healthy and to be honest it may not get better. You really deserve better; but I've been here before so I kind of have a feeling where this may head; but I really hope the best for you. Its really sad to read this. Good luck to you!
GoGetMyDamnBelt_
All Star
No offense taken but I know I just don't have the time nor funds to do anything right now..
Had a chick just ask me what Im doing next weekend. Told her Im going to see Nas in DC on the 13th
I'm missing this?!!! Oh he's going to be at bliss
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
hell yea. id be
Ah ok thanks! I'll get him that and a new wallet. I'll get him new sneakers for his birthday and take him to the auto show.
shyt wish i had someone to do all that for me lol
BmoreGorilla
Veteran
What's wrong with bliss?
What's wrong with bliss?
Not a thing, just thought it was at the warner theater or something like that. my birthday is thursday and we're celebrating on saturday so I'd have to miss it anyway
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
If you had the funds do you see yourself leaving him?
GoGetMyDamnBelt_
All Star
yes.
Bugatti Biceps
Supreme Hacker
Mines don't believe in giving gifts for just one day yet doesn't give me gifts period. Last year, I had to keep telling him I would like a gift for V-day, I kept reminding him for 3 weeks up until the day before where he bought me this big Victoria Secret packaging that came with a HUGE bear and make-up bag, sweater, pantyhose, candy, a rose & perfume/body lotion. After that, I felt upset that when special occasions nevertheless "just because" occasions comes around, I have to ask for something. I just stopped doing it. Anniversary came, nothing, birthday, nothing, Christmas I bought him these clothes that he wanted so bad but I got nothing. V-day coming up and I didn't say anything. I'm actually sad that this how it is. We only been married 3 years and the effort stopped the moment after I said yes to being his girlfriend
I bet his girlfriend gets gifts
QueenSheba
All Star
Did you sign a prenuptial? If I were you I would open a private account and save some money when the time is right to leave. If you're unhappy why bother to continue with your marriage. Was he like this the first time you meet him? When did he start changing? Do you find any signs of him cheating on you? Have you check his phone messages? If he's with another women...