Single ladies, Feb 14th is approaching :mjcry:

[General Mills]

You have to be mindful lol but maybe it was for the best because you dodged a bullet.

I don't think she was looking for a sucker, I just think she was desparate and has the preconcived notion that some other women do about the holiday being about them. She probably also thought since you were dating around the holiday it you wouldn't mind and didn't want to be alone on the Holiday. There are a lot of people who (on movies ) find someone to be with on Valentines around the holiday. That doesn't mean she wasn't crazy, I just think she was desparate and crazy.

You are probably right . I just think she got over eager. If we are together I have no issue doing the Valentine day thing and I plan it. Or at least my portion of it and she will plan her stuff for me.

I was caught by surprise and turned off by her continually bringing it up.

At that point I started to feel like she thought I was a potential sucker. She was damn near trying to make the date herself. And she was not talking about taking ME out. That's when I pumped the brakes

 

[Raava]

You are probably right . I just think she got over eager. If we are together I have no issue doing the Valentine day thing and I plan it. Or at least my portion of it and she will plan her stuff for me.

I was caught by surprise and turned off by her continually bringing it up.

At that point I started to feel like she thought I was a potential sucker. She was damn near trying to make the date herself. And she was not talking about taking ME out. That's when I pumped the brakes

Yea that's the desparation once she brought it up and you didn't go for it she should have dropped it. Reading her saying she never had a real Valentines day, she probably had it all thought out and was super eagar when she thought she had a chance. Crazy/clingy/dotoomuch people never realize when they've cross the line. In her mind she was just trying to get an answer and mark down a definite plan. To you this isn't even a big deal or something you even thought of so it was even more extra to you.

 

[Action Mike]

Vday definitely wasn't about you breh, you'd be walking down the street, sitting at dinner, trying to have fun and she would document every step via social media.

You would be Just a living breathing prop, silly girl.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Someone make a spin thread on Vday


"What did you get for Valentines day"

 

[folasade]

Probably working, but i just got out a relationship, so ill be distracted. I was going to see about a guy i like but he unfortunately has a girlfriend.

 

[Rawtid]

Valentine's day is special for women and if you're dating someone you really hope regardless of your relationship they treat you a little special. When I see women who are "anti valentines" day it makes me sad because I just assume they have been conditioned to think that way because of the dude they are with or just a bad experience all together.

 

[iBrowse]

Kept saying how she never had a real valentines day and a woman likes to get candy and gifts and be taken out for dinner etc. . .

 

[iBrowse]

She then starts a argument with me. . Well it started out as a convo but once I told her my ideas on the subject and I stuck to my guns she got mad. Also. . . her telling me she has never been wined and dined on Valentines Day does NOT make me want to be the first one to do it. . I look at it like. . Oh. . all those other dudes you dated were able to get by with only giving you hard dikk and bubble gum for Valentines day but a new guy you just met you want me to wine and dine you?

Lol she played right into the coli nikka playbook

 

[IVS]

Got a helluva date set up with Mary Jane. She dont play no games...yeE yEe Yeahhhhhhhhh!

 

[The Mad Titan]

Hope all you ladies have a great Weekend

A man of god vday cards


@Chelsea Bridge

@CinnaSlim

@Rue

@Vice Queen

@Phoenix_Knightly23

@Spotlessmind

 

[Lo-Co]

I met a chick off a dating site two weeks ago. We went on one date. Ate dinner and after our dinner convo I decided I enjoyed her company. Asked her if she wanted to extend the date a lil and see a movie. . She agreed and we saw Ride Along 2. Dropped her back at home and was feeling pretty content. I am in no rush but it seems like it could have potential.


Since that date she has COMPLETELY turned me off. She started asking about Valentines day. . I was I mean I like her. But we went on one date. . She kept beating around the bush asking me what plans did I have. . . I told her. . Aiyo. My work schedule is not out yet but I normally work weekends. So she starts pestering me about what time do I think I will be working. . Kept saying how she never had a real valentines day and a woman likes to get candy and gifts and be taken out for dinner etc. . .

I told her look. I am not anti Valentines Day. But I am also not about being pressured into doing something. Plus. You seem very nice but at the end of the day you are not my girlfriend. I am not going to do all of those things for a friend. That is reserved for the special person in my life. Wife or GF.

She then starts a argument with me. . Well it started out as a convo but once I told her my ideas on the subject and I stuck to my guns she got mad. Also. . . her telling me she has never been wined and dined on Valentines Day does NOT make me want to be the first one to do it. . I look at it like. . Oh. . all those other dudes you dated were able to get by with only giving you hard dikk and bubble gum for Valentines day but a new guy you just met you want me to wine and dine you?


I told her exactly that. I also told her don't let the my nice voice fool you. I am a nice guy.. . but I am no fool. I am pretty laid back and am a giving person. . but people really want to take advantage.

During our argument about Valentines day when I told her that I reserve the Valentines benefits for a girlfriend. . She said.

Her - Valentines is also for friends. There is nothing wrong with a friend taking another friend out for Vday and buying her gifts and making her feel special.

Me - So. . .what would you give me?

Her - Me.

Me -

Her - I don't see whats so funny. Plus VDay is for friends too. Why else do kids in school have Vday parties and give each other cards.

Me - For one that is two different things. When I was a kid I also thought having a pizza party was the best thing in the world. But we grow up. Anddddd. You say its cool if male friends treat you during VDAY eh?


Her - Of course!


Me - How many have done that so far? How many of your "Male Friends" have treated you and wined and dined you on VDAY?


Her - well. . . none but. . .


Me - ( cut her off ) and. . say for example me and you was in a relationship. Would it be ok for one of your male friends to give you candy and gifts and take you out?? Even though you are in a relationship? Or would it be ok for one of my female friends to do the same for me?


Her - I thought you was nice.


Me - You thought I was a simp. That has already been beaten out of me years ago.




Then she got mad



She murked herself.

1st Bolded:


2nd Bolded:

 

[Lo-Co]

to all that have dates, enjoy yourselves.

 

[-DMP-]

I gave her her gift(s), she cried. told me she was on cloud nine the whole night

 

[Solano707]

Mines don't believe in giving gifts for just one day yet doesn't give me gifts period. Last year, I had to keep telling him I would like a gift for V-day, I kept reminding him for 3 weeks up until the day before where he bought me this big Victoria Secret packaging that came with a HUGE bear and make-up bag, sweater, pantyhose, candy, a rose & perfume/body lotion. After that, I felt upset that when special occasions nevertheless "just because" occasions comes around, I have to ask for something. I just stopped doing it. Anniversary came, nothing, birthday, nothing, Christmas I bought him these clothes that he wanted so bad but I got nothing. V-day coming up and I didn't say anything. I'm actually sad that this how it is. We only been married 3 years and the effort stopped the moment after I said yes to being his girlfriend

Damn that shyt is sad. Even though wifey and I fell apart, I made sure for the holidays she was straight; bytch never had to want for anything.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

Damn that shyt is sad. Even though wifey and I fell apart, I made sure for the holidays she was straight; bytch never had to want for anything.

This, although I stopped celebrating vday after last year.