Single ladies, Feb 14th is approaching :mjcry:

[GoGetMyDamnBelt_]

@SweetDelightxx hubby sounds selfish and/or clueless. getting to this level is nothing to admire. its sad actually, especially since she has made it clear to him that gift giving matters to her.

To be honest, its not even about gift giving matters to me, it's about the effort. Even if he hit me with that "I'm sorry for not giving you a gift. I didn't have money because blah blah blah," I would of still been flattered by the thought of it.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

I'm half way flattered lol thanks

The other half is lust, its fairly common in my experience

my date this year:

At least chase it down with something

 

[LeeDoubleLee]

To be honest, its not even about gift giving matters to me, it's about the effort. Even if he hit me with that "I'm sorry for not giving you a gift. I didn't have money because blah blah blah," I would of still been flattered by the thought of it.

i totally get it. but in when it comes to holidays giving a gift a result of the effort, which is what i meant. he knows it is important to you but still won't do it or at least try to do it. in this day and age there really isn't an excuse to try unless you are really financially in bad shape. and even then there are flowers...

 

[Raava]

I love Valentine's Day, single or not. My dad gets me a gift every year so I'm never without

Mine too, my dad always gets me something

 

[360dagod]

the last vday i was in a relationship (2012), my bf thought it was wise to hand me something he had brought for himself and didn't want anymore. and he literally boxed it up in front of my face and then handed it to me. SMH

anyway i have nothing planned and TBH vday isn't really a big deal to me.

....Wow

 

[Ol’Otis]

idk why i thought y'all was talking about the TV show

very well than carry on

 

[Regine Hunter]

The other half is lust, its fairly common in my experience







At least chase it down with something

Of course. I can only handle a capful in a bottle of Coke.

Hennessy is the devil

 

[Ello_Vee]

Mine too, my dad always gets me something

Mine too. . Always chocolate Turtles.

This is my first Valentine's Day with my boo. I don't really get into Valentine's Day at all, and I don't know what he expects. I don't want to cheat him out of his Valentine's Day if it means something to him, just because I would rather ignore it. I don't want to do too much or too little. Ugh! Single Valentine's Day was less stressful!

 

[CinnamonTequila]

One of my cousins received a text from her boyfriend last night saying:
" p*ssy DOESN'T COUNT AS A VALENTINE'S DAY GIFT "

 

[General Mills]

I met a chick off a dating site two weeks ago. We went on one date. Ate dinner and after our dinner convo I decided I enjoyed her company. Asked her if she wanted to extend the date a lil and see a movie. . She agreed and we saw Ride Along 2. Dropped her back at home and was feeling pretty content. I am in no rush but it seems like it could have potential.


Since that date she has COMPLETELY turned me off. She started asking about Valentines day. . I was I mean I like her. But we went on one date. . She kept beating around the bush asking me what plans did I have. . . I told her. . Aiyo. My work schedule is not out yet but I normally work weekends. So she starts pestering me about what time do I think I will be working. . Kept saying how she never had a real valentines day and a woman likes to get candy and gifts and be taken out for dinner etc. . .

I told her look. I am not anti Valentines Day. But I am also not about being pressured into doing something. Plus. You seem very nice but at the end of the day you are not my girlfriend. I am not going to do all of those things for a friend. That is reserved for the special person in my life. Wife or GF.

She then starts a argument with me. . Well it started out as a convo but once I told her my ideas on the subject and I stuck to my guns she got mad. Also. . . her telling me she has never been wined and dined on Valentines Day does NOT make me want to be the first one to do it. . I look at it like. . Oh. . all those other dudes you dated were able to get by with only giving you hard dikk and bubble gum for Valentines day but a new guy you just met you want me to wine and dine you?


I told her exactly that. I also told her don't let the my nice voice fool you. I am a nice guy.. . but I am no fool. I am pretty laid back and am a giving person. . but people really want to take advantage.

During our argument about Valentines day when I told her that I reserve the Valentines benefits for a girlfriend. . She said.

Her - Valentines is also for friends. There is nothing wrong with a friend taking another friend out for Vday and buying her gifts and making her feel special.

Me - So. . .what would you give me?

Her - Me.

Me -

Her - I don't see whats so funny. Plus VDay is for friends too. Why else do kids in school have Vday parties and give each other cards.

Me - For one that is two different things. When I was a kid I also thought having a pizza party was the best thing in the world. But we grow up. Anddddd. You say its cool if male friends treat you during VDAY eh?


Her - Of course!


Me - How many have done that so far? How many of your "Male Friends" have treated you and wined and dined you on VDAY?


Her - well. . . none but. . .


Me - ( cut her off ) and. . say for example me and you was in a relationship. Would it be ok for one of your male friends to give you candy and gifts and take you out?? Even though you are in a relationship? Or would it be ok for one of my female friends to do the same for me?


Her - I thought you was nice.


Me - You thought I was a simp. That has already been beaten out of me years ago.




Then she got mad



She murked herself.

 

[Action Mike]

@General Mills she actually said her gift was "me"

the audacity

 

[Raava]

I met a chick off a dating site two weeks ago. We went on one date. Ate dinner and after our dinner convo I decided I enjoyed her company. Asked her if she wanted to extend the date a lil and see a movie. . She agreed and we saw Ride Along 2. Dropped her back at home and was feeling pretty content. I am in no rush but it seems like it could have potential.


Since that date she has COMPLETELY turned me off. She started asking about Valentines day. . I was I mean I like her. But we went on one date. . She kept beating around the bush asking me what plans did I have. . . I told her. . Aiyo. My work schedule is not out yet but I normally work weekends. So she starts pestering me about what time do I think I will be working. . Kept saying how she never had a real valentines day and a woman likes to get candy and gifts and be taken out for dinner etc. . .

I told her look. I am not anti Valentines Day. But I am also not about being pressured into doing something. Plus. You seem very nice but at the end of the day you are not my girlfriend. I am not going to do all of those things for a friend. That is reserved for the special person in my life. Wife or GF.

She then starts a argument with me. . Well it started out as a convo but once I told her my ideas on the subject and I stuck to my guns she got mad. Also. . . her telling me she has never been wined and dined on Valentines Day does NOT make me want to be the first one to do it. . I look at it like. . Oh. . all those other dudes you dated were able to get by with only giving you hard dikk and bubble gum for Valentines day but a new guy you just met you want me to wine and dine you?


I told her exactly that. I also told her don't let the my nice voice fool you. I am a nice guy.. . but I am no fool. I am pretty laid back and am a giving person. . but people really want to take advantage.

During our argument about Valentines day when I told her that I reserve the Valentines benefits for a girlfriend. . She said.

Her - Valentines is also for friends. There is nothing wrong with a friend taking another friend out for Vday and buying her gifts and making her feel special.

Me - So. . .what would you give me?

Her - Me.

Me -

Her - I don't see whats so funny. Plus VDay is for friends too. Why else do kids in school have Vday parties and give each other cards.

Me - For one that is two different things. When I was a kid I also thought having a pizza party was the best thing in the world. But we grow up. Anddddd. You say its cool if male friends treat you during VDAY eh?


Her - Of course!


Me - How many have done that so far? How many of your "Male Friends" have treated you and wined and dined you on VDAY?


Her - well. . . none but. . .


Me - ( cut her off ) and. . say for example me and you was in a relationship. Would it be ok for one of your male friends to give you candy and gifts and take you out?? Even though you are in a relationship? Or would it be ok for one of my female friends to do the same for me?


Her - I thought you was nice.


Me - You thought I was a simp. That has already been beaten out of me years ago.




Then she got mad



She murked herself.

She just thought this time...maybe this time she wouldn't be alone on Feb. 14th

Why in the world would you talk to someone so close to Valentines anyway Come on Mills.

 

[General Mills]

She just thought this time...maybe this time she wouldn't be alone on Feb. 14th

Why in the world would you talk to someone so close to Valentines anyway Come on Mills.

I honestly did not even think about it. Lol. We had a couple of good conversations. So I said let's do dinner. Had no idea she saw a potential vday sucker.

 

[General Mills]

@General Mills she actually said her gift was "me"

the audacity

I laughed dead in her face when she said that

 

[Raava]

I honestly did not even think about it. Lol. We had a couple of good conversations. So I said let's do dinner. Had no idea she saw a potential vday sucker.

You have to be mindful lol but maybe it was for the best because you dodged a bullet.

I don't think she was looking for a sucker, I just think she was desparate and has the preconcived notion that some other women do about the holiday being about them. She probably also thought since you were dating around the holiday it you wouldn't mind and didn't want to be alone on the Holiday. There are a lot of people who (on movies ) find someone to be with on Valentines around the holiday. That doesn't mean she wasn't crazy, I just think she was desparate and crazy.