While I can't knock the women that find me cute for some reason; a short
dude and all, I normally get women interested in me past casual friendship by either being a dude they can rely on for good conversation or a laugh, which soon turns into me being a dude they can talk and confide in since I got no problem listening to chicks vent or talk about their day'n'shyt. So they start to see me as a fun dude to be around, I ain't cheap if we go out on a date (Don't go above and beyond until she's mine, however) and if we spend enough time together and she been listening to be subtly admiring her in some way, shape or form if I'm not being a bit more 'hands on' with my admiration
and they eventually decide to try a breh out and see what I got to offer.
Sounds like work, yeah, but my success ratio is higher than most would think 'cause alot of these girls's skirts I done tugged at felt I was a 'fresh breath of air' from whatever they was dealing with before with my genuinely caring, naturally but affectionately goofy ass. Had a few problems with chicks taking my kindness for weakness, but ever since I learned to just
on command and shut all my love and affection off on a chick that betrayed that shyt, I've grown more confident in hollering at chicks without thinking that they'd just walk all over me 'cause I ain't as dominating or imposing as others dudes would be when dealing with their chicks.