Shoutout to this black Sista for being honest and direct.

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if this girl didn’t grow up with a father who was an alpha provider in the house she just talking to get views because the alpha provider male makes ALL of the decisions and most of these City Girl / Cardi B influenced chicks will not go along with his program
 

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If shorty really bout wat she talkin bout than she really the type I'M attracted to honestly :ld:

As stated before, this always comes down to personality types(really ya zodiac sign/planet alignments, but that's a whole other thread).

If u the prototypical, old school type dude by nature than a stable household littered with your seeds is the ultimate offering a woman brings to the table. There is nothing of greater value a woman could bring. I'm not interested in how much money u got, your degrees, none of that; can u give a nikka some kids and hold down the fort. I'll take care of the shyt outside of the household and u handle the household itself. That's a smack dab in the middle equal trade off in my eyes....if the chick genuine.

I dont think that makes me a simp for looking at it that way, but then again maybe it does....if u say the latter I can argue it's purely cultural.
 

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If shorty really bout wat she talkin bout than she really the type I'M attracted to honestly :ld:

As stated before, this always comes down to personality types(really ya zodiac sign/planet alignments, but that's a whole other thread).

If u the prototypical, old school type dude by nature than a stable household littered with your seeds is the ultimate offering a woman brings to the table. There is nothing of greater value a woman could bring. I'm not interested in how much money u got, your degrees, none of that; can u give a nikka some kids and hold down the fort. I'll take care of the shyt outside of the household and u handle the household itself. That's a smack dab in the middle equal trade off in my eyes....if the chick genuine.

I dont think that makes me a simp for looking at it that way, but then again maybe it does....if u say the latter I can argue it's purely cultural.
So all she got to do is have ur kids and nothing else?

Dudes gotta stop creating these fairy tale relationships. For Black people that has never existed
 

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So all she got to do is have ur kids and nothing else?

Dudes gotta stop creating these fairy tale relationships. For Black people that has never existed
Essentially, yes. And hold down the fort.
And I disagree to an extent, seen it first hand with my grandaddy. He bought them a fat crib and they had 6 kids and dude took care of the bills and worked and all that type shyt, my grandmama raised my daddy and nem and kept shyt in order at home. Was together til she passed a few yrs backs. Same house still up there in Youngstown, OH as we speak.

Same with my folks too, and then well my pops fukked that up. Dude got on the drugs heavy and it got to the point where bruh was hitting licks on the Ma Dukes to support his habit lol.


And yeah wat u said is both right and wrong. Some nikkas just bred to have a harem and not be tied down to the whole family shyt and that worked for them...some wanted that everyone under the same roof, Cosby family type shyt and that worked for them. It's not a one size fits all.
 
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