Should men check their homeboys for cheating on their girls

Prynce

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Hell yes. As a friend it's best to try to steer your friends clear of things that might fukk up their lives later. Cause you know the second they're caught they'll be down bad. Best you can do is try to talk sense in to them. But for real I ain't trying to have a cheater as a close friend because if they're willing to do the person they love foul what means they won't do some foul shyt to me.
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If that’s really your friend, the best thing you can do is help them question self destructive behavior.

ANYTHING that has the potential to fukk up their family, money and peace needs to be discussed.

Lay out how badly it can go (divorce, death, etc.) and remind them what they have and ask if some p*ssy you won’t care about next year is worth risking it for.

:yeshrug:

I’m less concerned with their character and the potential of eventually being foul with me, because we’re all fukked up in some way and some of us are better at hiding our quirks or vices.

I’m more concerned with a breh being out there bad having to start over.
 

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I don't tell friends how they should live their relationships just like I don't tell them how they should raise their kids. Now if they want to talk about it I'm always all ears and will give my advice/opinion, but until invited to comment on their personal life it's not my place. Most of the times I don't really know the girl like that so I don't feel a need to "protect" her, and whatever the friend may do he has his reasons and stuff to deal with (as long as there's no physical violence involved).
 

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if it’s their wife? yes.

cheating on your wife can have disastrous outcomes and you might be saving him by checking him. a nikka that cheats on His wife is a disloyal nikka who can’t respect vows and oaths.

his girlfriend? no.

cause wtf is a girlfriend

them hoes come and go every year.

girlfriends are just your turn with somebody else’s bytch.
 

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I’ll only say something if it’s my day one homie that’s married and I know she’s a good woman.

If it’s my nikka in toxic relationship, play on playa.
 

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Black men have been fooled into being bytch ass nikkas due to the sins of the men from the crack era. Hell no! It’s none of my business and I’m covering for him if I need to. I would only “check” him if he was moving raggedy and about to get himself caught or he tells me he has been busting the bytch raw. A man with an in pocket side bytch makes for a better husband and father.

Your woman’s friends would NEVER called themselves checking her for cheating on you.
 

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I wouldn't respect it. If I knew about it, I wouldn't tell his lady but would try to advise my friend to stop

Not on some holier than thou shyt but just being real with breh

But if I'm actually could with her then I might have to at link give her a hint cause I'd feel guilty if we're supposed to be friends :francis:

And nah, I'm not trusting breh if he does his girl dirty. Not saying it's a guarantee they'll do you but it's an indicator they ain't always true to their word

And yall can't play dumb like you don't get why. Like wouldn't you lose some respect for your dad if you found out he cheated on your mother? Or brother on his wife?
 
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