Should black women lower there requirements of a man if they want dating success

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I know a girl whose standards were ridiculous. For example she says he has to be at least 190 & 6'2 or else "I can't go"...

Yet when my 5'11 175 ass became Single she doesn't remember saying that...

Case in point... nobody knows what they want... :francis:
 

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Sounds like something that would come out a Black woman's mouth.

I bet she said that as she sat there rockin' another person's hair.


Yes she was. I just told her that isn't financially practical and not to mention unsafe
 
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The thing is. People confuse standards with basic requirements

A basic requirement is: own car, own place, decent job, etc

While my standards are : no kids(preferably), sense of humor, nice teeth, good hygiene, clean cut

Some dudes think that if they meet basic requirements, I should swoon
No, I have all those things also, but that doesn't make me a catch. It makes me an adult
 

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Yea, to get to steak, we all have to settle for chicken tv dinners for a while.

I think so bro. I don't mind to be honest. The last guy I dated had no hairline. Bless em but he had a great smile. He was apart of that Janet micheal Jackson tyra banks my momma and me club of beautiful smiles so it was a good trade off.
 

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The thing is. People confuse standards with basic requirements

A basic requirement is: own car, own place, decent job, etc

While my standards are : no kids(preferably), sense of humor, nice teeth, good hygiene, clean cut

Some dudes think that if they meet basic requirements, I should swoon
No, I have all those things also, but that doesn't make me a catch. It makes me an adult
How old are you?
 

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I think most men and women live in a world of lies, fairytales and fallacies. We believe that our wants are things we need. Like most posters have said they have standards that are non negotiable and that is understandable. But we should ask ourselves are our wants even that important?

I don't think they are that important. I can live without him being above average because I know that I'm average.
 
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