Have you noticed that single people with kids never fukk with other single people with kids? They hate baggage just as much as you do. Don't feel any shame in keeping it moving.
Think about i have kids and when im looking to make friends to hang out with i always gravitate towards othre couples that already have kids because me and wife can't do the same shyt that a dude with attachments can do. Most guys with families that i know feel the same way. So it doesn't make sense for a mother or father to seek out a person who has no responsibilties.