She Broke that Nikka Cam Newton down to Particles! Keep Her Away from Nick Cannon

[bubba scotch]

Agreed. I will say that marriage rates for young black people in some parts of the country (mainly the south) are healthy, so there are black men around who still value a stable home. But you're right that the mentality for marriage amongst black men is not high enough overall in the country, and it leads to the chaos we see. It also explains a lot of the poor financial literacy and bad life experience a lot of us have. Even before Kevin Samuels was pimping this bullshyt, how many threads/posts have we seen on the Coli that boil down to "men don't care what job or education a woman has when dating." This is something anyone who has been to college or had a decent job knows is false...so what does that tell you about the demographics on this forum. Why do white men constantly marry teaching and nursing students in college? Because they understand the family can be on her insurance (govt employee and hospital insurance plans are some of the best in the country), while they focus on advancing through their career until they can afford a better life.

Why do white men studying medicine/law/engineering/etc constantly marry women studying similar shyt? So they can consolidate debt, build credit, and be ready to step into that next class level as quickly as possible (private schools, country club, nice neighborhood/subdivision, etc). None of this is some secret plot either. White people are very open about this. Asian people too. Indian people too. Arab people too. Meanwhile we've got retail workers declaring they aren't impressed by higher education so it must not matter for other men either. Good luck with that.

Marriage is a financial tool. The government gives you money to incentivize it, society looks on it favorably, financial institutions cater to you, etc. The fukk up we're witnessing is dooming us. This is such an interesting time with so many black women getting degrees. For all the talk about men going their own way and not wanting college, you'd think black men would be stepping into the huge demand for trades, construction, etc. Yet we're not. Think about the blueprint that's possible...man working trades/blue collar job, woman in teaching/nursing. We can literally run the same play white people run, but without the man going to college. And yet we'd rather do nothing.

i agree with a lot of your points but the bolded does not apply to Cam. Y'all taking Cams situation and painting a broad stroke over all of us. If I was in his position I probably would never get married.

 

[lib123]

She was mostly right but some of that was projection...

Being a good father isn't dependent on being in the same home as the child. Does that generally increase of the potential for rearing healthy, loving children? Sure, I'd agree that it increases the potential and it's the ideal scenario...

I'll also agree that at some point, having children in too many homes becomes too large of a cross to balance proportionally. He's got three different mothers of his kids, so this is really testing the limits here, but is probably doable if you have the means and live local to your children...

After that these conversations eschew reality, which is, some relationships break down, and that your ability to be a great father doesn't change from you not being in the home, though you will have to adapt your parenting to meet the reality of not being in the home...

If all it took was just being in the home or having your kid(s) by one woman, we wouldn't know so many of us who grew up with fathers in the home who beat us; couldnt financially provide for us because they couldnt keep a job; couldnt financially provide for us because they didnt have a skill to make more income; neglected us; molested or raped us; were drug or alcohol addicts; had no extra kids but were womanizers; beat our mothers; not attending our events or clubs or sports activities; etc. Anyone black who didn't grow up with a Carlton Banks background knows black families where dad was in the home and experienced these woes...

On top of that, those of you who love "traditional men", which are alot of us black people, the traditional bar is that the man is the breadwinner which in the real world, where we know only 6% of Black men make $100k income-plus---->in the real world a traditional man being the breadwinner means he's working long hours and long weeks and he'd need to work extra hard to make time for his kids anyway. Which, many of them just want rest after working so hard to be able to provide for their kids...

And before nikkas in here project on me, I have 3 kids with two women and want no more.............maybe one more once im with the woman I'm with the rest of my life. But I'm very, very comfortable with my 3 daughters, not seeking more, not looking to repopulate the city...

I'd say Dr Bryant was 80% correct but she and too many other people stray this convo away from real life...

As a father your goal of being with one woman can change based on circumstance but you should understand how to remain a great dad regardless of if that relationship ends or not...

Would you be cool with your daughters each having three kids with two men and not married?

 

[lib123]

Agreed. I will say that marriage rates for young black people in some parts of the country (mainly the south) are healthy, so there are black men around who still value a stable home. But you're right that the mentality for marriage amongst black men is not high enough overall in the country, and it leads to the chaos we see. It also explains a lot of the poor financial literacy and bad life experience a lot of us have. Even before Kevin Samuels was pimping this bullshyt, how many threads/posts have we seen on the Coli that boil down to "men don't care what job or education a woman has when dating." This is something anyone who has been to college or had a decent job knows is false...so what does that tell you about the demographics on this forum. Why do white men constantly marry teaching and nursing students in college? Because they understand the family can be on her insurance (govt employee and hospital insurance plans are some of the best in the country), while they focus on advancing through their career until they can afford a better life.

Why do white men studying medicine/law/engineering/etc constantly marry women studying similar shyt? So they can consolidate debt, build credit, and be ready to step into that next class level as quickly as possible (private schools, country club, nice neighborhood/subdivision, etc). None of this is some secret plot either. White people are very open about this. Asian people too. Indian people too. Arab people too. Meanwhile we've got retail workers declaring they aren't impressed by higher education so it must not matter for other men either. Good luck with that.

Marriage is a financial tool. The government gives you money to incentivize it, society looks on it favorably, financial institutions cater to you, etc. The fukk up we're witnessing is dooming us. This is such an interesting time with so many black women getting degrees. For all the talk about men going their own way and not wanting college, you'd think black men would be stepping into the huge demand for trades, construction, etc. Yet we're not. Think about the blueprint that's possible...man working trades/blue collar job, woman in teaching/nursing. We can literally run the same play white people run, but without the man going to college. And yet we'd rather do nothing.

Also most African immigrants are open and serious about this.

 

[Gloxina]

Agreed. I will say that marriage rates for young black people in some parts of the country (mainly the south) are healthy, so there are black men around who still value a stable home. But you're right that the mentality for marriage amongst black men is not high enough overall in the country, and it leads to the chaos we see. It also explains a lot of the poor financial literacy and bad life experience a lot of us have. Even before Kevin Samuels was pimping this bullshyt, how many threads/posts have we seen on the Coli that boil down to "men don't care what job or education a woman has when dating." This is something anyone who has been to college or had a decent job knows is false...so what does that tell you about the demographics on this forum. Why do white men constantly marry teaching and nursing students in college? Because they understand the family can be on her insurance (govt employee and hospital insurance plans are some of the best in the country), while they focus on advancing through their career until they can afford a better life.

Why do white men studying medicine/law/engineering/etc constantly marry women studying similar shyt? So they can consolidate debt, build credit, and be ready to step into that next class level as quickly as possible (private schools, country club, nice neighborhood/subdivision, etc). None of this is some secret plot either. White people are very open about this. Asian people too. Indian people too. Arab people too. Meanwhile we've got retail workers declaring they aren't impressed by higher education so it must not matter for other men either. Good luck with that.

Marriage is a financial tool. The government gives you money to incentivize it, society looks on it favorably, financial institutions cater to you, etc. The fukk up we're witnessing is dooming us. This is such an interesting time with so many black women getting degrees. For all the talk about men going their own way and not wanting college, you'd think black men would be stepping into the huge demand for trades, construction, etc. Yet we're not. Think about the blueprint that's possible...man working trades/blue collar job, woman in teaching/nursing. We can literally run the same play white people run, but without the man going to college. And yet we'd rather do nothing.

All this.


ALL THIS.

 

[Big Boss]

Agreed. I will say that marriage rates for young black people in some parts of the country (mainly the south) are healthy, so there are black men around who still value a stable home. But you're right that the mentality for marriage amongst black men is not high enough overall in the country, and it leads to the chaos we see. It also explains a lot of the poor financial literacy and bad life experience a lot of us have. Even before Kevin Samuels was pimping this bullshyt, how many threads/posts have we seen on the Coli that boil down to "men don't care what job or education a woman has when dating." This is something anyone who has been to college or had a decent job knows is false...so what does that tell you about the demographics on this forum. Why do white men constantly marry teaching and nursing students in college? Because they understand the family can be on her insurance (govt employee and hospital insurance plans are some of the best in the country), while they focus on advancing through their career until they can afford a better life.

Why do white men studying medicine/law/engineering/etc constantly marry women studying similar shyt? So they can consolidate debt, build credit, and be ready to step into that next class level as quickly as possible (private schools, country club, nice neighborhood/subdivision, etc). None of this is some secret plot either. White people are very open about this. Asian people too. Indian people too. Arab people too. Meanwhile we've got retail workers declaring they aren't impressed by higher education so it must not matter for other men either. Good luck with that.

Marriage is a financial tool. The government gives you money to incentivize it, society looks on it favorably, financial institutions cater to you, etc. The fukk up we're witnessing is dooming us. This is such an interesting time with so many black women getting degrees. For all the talk about men going their own way and not wanting college, you'd think black men would be stepping into the huge demand for trades, construction, etc. Yet we're not. Think about the blueprint that's possible...man working trades/blue collar job, woman in teaching/nursing. We can literally run the same play white people run, but without the man going to college. And yet we'd rather do nothing.

Generational Wealth

 

[Still Benefited]

Babylon zoo babble,but while in the zoo you have to operate accordingly.


UNLESS you have millions in your bank account. Then you only need to get deprogrammed,build a compound in isolation,and make your own rules. Fake pretending to be domesticated is a bad look. The women involved will obviously go whereever Cam wanted to lead them. If he led with honesty about how he wants to live his life from the jump. Hes been brainwashed and thinks he wants something that he actually doesnt

 

[Still Benefited]

See-A few of y’all see it tho. This is the only reason why the women are in here giving our 2 cents.

The out of wedlock birth rate can never be fixed if we have a decent percentage of Black men who think this way.

Older men with this mentality were once younger men with this mentality. I keep saying it: Young Black men are not socialized by Black culture to want marriage and children born in one household. This is the mentality a lot of Black girls encounter. We talk about marriage and compare Black college girls to White college girls, but those White colleges girls are all being proposed to by White college guys. Where’s the large grouping of young Black men who are buying engagement rings and proposing before they are 30 themselves?

Look at this thread. Read through this shyt. Lol

Cam is not an anomaly in this community.

And again- he put the mentality on display for the WORLD.

Cam is an anomolly because he is worth millions of dollars. If people championing him dont have the common sense to see his situation is different from 99% of ours that would be troubling.


Does nobody see that we live in a damn Babylon zoo?

Half the women against this champion single motherhood. The other half dont,but they go to work everyday allowing their child to be raised by teachers,then smartphones and video games when they get home. The men bashing Cam also work 40 hours or more a week and probably have less oppurtunity to see their kids than Cam ,who is retired at age 40 and can move and see his children as he pleases. If the situations with his childrens mothers is ammicable,which i believe he has said it is. Then you have the men bashing Cam who allow their women to go to work everyday too. Unlike Cam,who at least allows the women to be stay at home moms which is VERY important. Everything about the way we live is backwards,out of order,and unorganized in this zoo.

It literally gives me anxiety to see people bashing Cam,while not realizing their own way of thinking is not only illogical,but just as ass backwards as his seems to them. Its just theyve been brainwashed to see their way as "normal". Plenty of people trying to fit a round peg in a square hole.

People need to look at their own situation,dont listen to me,Cam or this doctor. Come up with a plan that best fits everyone involved most optimally. Lack of planning is the overall component here

 

[Coco Loco]

Yeah like I said, he knows who to add to his harem of dumb baby mamas

Getting her bewtyhole rearranged to please a man

The same man who said he's being patient waiting for his wife while playing house with her

 

[CobaltBlue]

Cam wanna be Future for whatever reason

 

[CHICAGO]

"DONT HAVE NO nikkaS
AROUND MY KIDS"






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[2 Up 2 Down]

people in here actually trying to argue against that lady's words.

 

[85 East]

He's got the money to support his kids, but does he have the emotional stability and maturity? If he does, then by all means have more kids.

 

[Shadow King]

Saying women are culpable to signing up to be kept baby mamas = men ducking accountability...

 

[bubba scotch]

Broken household, won't someone think of the kids

 

[Shadow King]

A lot of them be on the same type of time, they just happen to be special at a given sport . And many of these women and athletes are smart dumb. They are intelligent but limited by bias or they have intellectualized bullshyt (see Cam's explanation) or they lack morals or a combination thereof.

Every person is limited by bias...