I can acknowledge that.
But men control access to relationships. If a guy says “yea I usually date girls who look like this and that” what do y’all tell girls? Move around and talk to other guys who might find you attractive.
If a young man is on his square and has reinforcement from his environment then you know what he does? Pivot to a different type of chick and get what he wants there.
Listen. Some ppl need to understand that there are some social cues/rules you have to adhere to to play the game.
When a girl is overweight and has a bad sense of style you tell her to lose the weight or deal with the guys who only like big girls.
If you’re having an issue with the fly chicks you work on other aspects of your personality or interests to attract/relate to those chicks OR stick with the kind of girls who rock with you as you are.
CAVEAT:
If a girl loses weight so that she can get “pumped and dumped” by the popular guys, she’s an idiot with low self esteem.
If a guy tries to be a “thug” to appeal to certain women he’s an idiot with no sense of self/identity.
I just watched my little cousin go through freshman Yr - Senior Yr literally being a cool as dude, into tech, honors/ap courses— the whole gamut. No one could mock him or shake him out of achieving those milestones in HS. Now being tall and handsome certainly helped, but his dad taught him how to work a room, talk to ppl, and be secure in himself.
You have to learn how to operate amongst others- which is part of what HS is about.
But no, you don’t need to turn to acting like a thug to get women. What do you think? If even young man was just chill and not on some thug shyt young girls would just sit and ignore all the guys?! Lol
Women control the access to sex.
So if women say you're "corny", it means you're not sexually viable.
Please don't sit here and tell me you don't see the impact that has on a young man's psyche and behavior.
