Shahrazad Ali Discussion Thread

J.E.T.S

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Dawg running on a tight ship on these hoes

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bytch be in jail lol

honestly I haven’t been with a baddie yet that would even let a man control them in this manner.

bruh, it’s about respect and boundaries. A woman know when too far is too far.

If a female cheat on a girls trip… she BEEN cheating at home.

holding a bytch hostage only gonna make her resent you.

Before you know it… she gonna stop fukking you and communicating with you.

gonna feel like strangers living under same roof.

relationships are risky. You can only HOPE your woman ain’t fukking strangers or her ex.
 

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There’s some truth to this. I remember an ex of mine saying I forgive her two easily or too quickly. Don’t remember the exact saying. But my thing is, you’re my girl for a reason. I like u. I get no pleasure from fighting with u. Obviously it depends on the offense. If it isn’t anything flagrant I see no reason to dwell on it especially after she’s apologized.
 

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Attention whoring on social media. That social media best be dead dead or family photo central, strictly. all that back n forth chit chat all damn day is distracting and dangerous.
Male friends that weren't around from middle school. And they best have a wife kids and keep it at holiday cards/ birthday gatherings. Dude need to be a damn super square christian.
Girl trips. Never. Girl trip to the mall...

It makes sense if you allow it so you can hide in plain site with dirt but def under no other circumstance.


The bold is major keys.. All that attention seeking is a recipe for disaster.. I knew bytches that stayed on IG and FB all day, while they kids languished away in the streets..
 

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I can deal with some shyt tests here and there. But if it get to a point where I have to tell u how to be a human being with common sense and respect. I gotta either put u to the side or cut u off. Im too old for all this shyt. Check this check that. Treat me how u wanna be treated and we good. If not :camby: and on to the next. Let them know they're not that important to me.
 

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A miserable single person handing out relationship advice. No wonder posters on here look up to her.

And yes I am familiar with her 'teachings'. You dudes go on and on about conspiracies and COINTELPRO and plants but don't see how 'perfect' her advice is just because it lines up with your hard in the shell stance on life and relationships.

Stuff doesn't educate. It breeds contempt and distrust. There is ample evidence for this. And it is intentional.
 

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A miserable single person handing out relationship advice. No wonder posters on here look up to her.

And yes I am familiar with her 'teachings'. You dudes go on and on about conspiracies and COINTELPRO and plants but don't see how 'perfect' her advice is just because it lines up with your hard in the shell stance on life and relationships.

Stuff doesn't educate. It breeds contempt and distrust. There is ample evidence for this. And it is intentional.

bottom line,

In relationships y’all have separate lives. There should be clear boundaries established early and each person should have some sense of what’s acceptable and not.

if it’s a game of who can prove they care the least in a relationship, you should leave.
 
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