Several rappers have come out speaking about how they were raped as minor by women. Why doesn't society care?

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

There are men on this very platform that have said disturbing shyt that happened to them as youngins not even realizing what they are posting
Then you will have “where was the teachers at back then”
nikka these teachers been fukking young boys
Many men don’t even recite fukkery that’s happened to them because we and society classify that as masculinity
All that other shyt they call toxic is a red herring
Young boys face sexual abuse from women but it’s disguised with the term “soiling his royal oats”
No nikka yall were raped by them old bytches and babysitters
You want to know why most of them relationships with women in your life didn’t work
Think back to your earliest sexual experience
Even your first kiss
And start asking questions to yourself
When you go to a therapist/psychologist
They make you do homework on this type of shyt
If you really got the heart like you claim
Start to peel that first layer back and watch what happens

 

[tay1]

R Kelly too...

Why do so many of these abused musicians perpetuate the sexual abuse onto others instead of getting help for it?

Kids don't tend to get help. They hold it in.

 

[Mr. Negative]

cats love imagining themselves having the same type of woman they fantasize about as an adult forcing sex on them as children/teens

if they got their virginity took by a 300 pound Tarana Burke looking chick, theyd be somewhere crying and trembling til this very day.

 

[chiefdogg]

IN

 

[Bumblebreh]

Many men, especially the ones who struggle getting women, wish it happened to them. They state, "Why were those type of teachers not around when I was young?" Truth be told though, those teachers were around when they were young. Those type of women have always been around. Just that they were not molested by them, were not targeted by them.

And that is very disturbing fantasy. And it highlights an underlying issue, and that is the constant need to seek sexual gratification. I guarantee you that men that think like that are addicted to pornography.

 

[IIVI]

Because a bunch of rap fans are incels.

Those dudes getting taken advantage of by women is still more action than they’ve ever had.

If those dudes weren’t getting female fans/play off their clout, having access the average person wouldn’t have available, etc. then the general public may feel more sorry for them. What most people see is that what happened to them at the hands of women didn’t ruin them from achieving success at insane levels.

Other people’s lives that were ruined have a far more empathetic story than famous people do.

 

[prime]

Happens all the time
Older teen girls do it to young boys too not just women

Yeah I was 11 when I lost my virginity to a 19 year old

 

[ViShawn]

We honestly don't even have the language to identify predatory behavior from women

 

[Mugenight]

Yeah, when it happens to you, no one gives a shyt...

We honestly don't even have the language to identify predatory behavior from women

Yes, we do...they're called pedophiles and rapist.

 

[Pull Up the Roots]

We honestly don't even have the language to identify predatory behavior from women

The issue isn't really a lack of words; it's a lack of societal will to recognize women as capable of the same predatory behavior. Terms like "grooming," "abuse," "coercion," "manipulation," and so on, are all well-established and can apply to women who are the perpetrators, too. We just need to get people to stop downplaying or dismissing male victims when they speak up.

 

[Belize King]

Humans are fukked up. Many if not most people have had inappropriate shyt happen to them as minors. If it didn’t have to you, you know stories. Those facts to show you how fukked up people are and how sexually starts when people are you.

You know the shyt that happened in the 80’s and 90’s right. Do you think this time period is any different? I say that to say, what are we doing to protect our children?

That’s my biggest fear for my daughters right now. How do I protect them without stifling their lives? Wife and talk about it all the time. I pray for the children of the world, they have adults who want to protect them.

 

[Da King]

R Kelly too...

Why do so many of these abused musicians perpetuate the sexual abuse onto others instead of getting help for it?

Free Kelz

 

[Givethanks]

Because it's not gay

 

[Unbothered]

It's hard to prove a woman has raped a boy because of the lack of physical evidence (penetration, fluids, etc) and the only other way would be that she sodomized him with an object, which is rare. See, when a little girl is raped, there's evidence due to the physical trauma (bruising, tears, etc.) to her vaginal area after she's been treated with a rape kit that proves she recently engaged in traumatic forcible sex; in other words, raped/sexually abused.

With a boy, you can't examine his penis to tell if he's been forcibly raped, unless there are bodily fluids/a woman's pubic hairs are present but even then it's hard to prove it's rape since he could've recently finished having sex casually, so the only way to prove a woman raped or sexually abused a boy would have to be her sodomizing him anally, with an object, or there's proof such as scares and bruises near his penis, and parts of his body that would suggest abuse, but not necessarily sexual abuse, rather child abuse.

That's why in regards to the law when a boy is raped by a man, it's easier to prove because of the physical trauma he has done to the boy's rectum area that suggests he's been raped/sexually abused.

It's not that people don't believe it; it's just hard to prove it because of the aforementioned; historically, women who have been found guilty of sexually abusing children, boys in particular, were usually tied to pedophile rings, child pornography, etc. Women go down for sexual abuse cases, but it's usually tied to something bigger, as mentioned above.

 

[Dzali OG]

Wait...this thread turning into a real thing???

nikkas in here baring their souls about some grown woman throwing some puccy on them or sicking their duck?

Yall must be built different...

Only way it was traumatic for us was if we nutted too quick and the women laughed.

Long as they ain't do no ass play with you.....nikka that dikk supposed to be a heat seeking missile. Can't dent that mufukka. Tf are yall scarred about?