Several rappers have come out speaking about how they were raped as minor by women. Why doesn't society care?

[Jaguar93]

the sad reality. It's not women standing on the sidelines ready to shame and clown men for saying they were raped, it's other men.

Yup

 

[Chrishaune]

Because this country is a goddess worshipping country ..

Look at the statue on top of the Capitol building. Look at the statue of Liberty. Look at the Parthenon in Nashville. Look at the statue in the midst of Indianapolis. Look at the focus of the school systems.

If you're a man in America you already know what's wrong with America.

 

[Savvir]

Its great that men are speaking on it if they truly felt violated. I just think its in poor taste to play victim olympics when I see black men saying "why doesnt anybody care when it happens to black boys". I see it as either disengenious in most cases,Or i see it as being another part of this ongoing gender war. Where men are constantly trying to prove women are just as bad or worst people as men are.


How did i draw this conclusion? It’s impossible to genuinely care about black boys being raped,but not care about black girls being raped. And generally speaking,people dont REALLY care that little black girls come up missing,are getting raped,sex trafficked at 10 times the clip at least

But you’re a self admitted rapist



nikka you’re sick

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

R Kelly too...

Why do so many of these abused musicians perpetuate the sexual abuse onto others instead of getting help for it?

cuz they weren't able to get help when it was needed most. you heard the DJ ghost story, absolute fukkery married woman putting a young breh in a situation like that. mayne some women ain't shyt. and the illest part is that woman was likely abused as a kid too. shyt is a evil cycle of abused abusing the innocent.

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

i mean as men nobody takes it seriously ...even on the it is what it is podcast when Cam said it Maurice Clarett and Ma$e were chuckling
i've been raped as well but as an adult

people assume that as a stronger male there is no such thing. but when you consider how the police look at us theres an emotional/logical component to it that goes beyond physical.

in my situation there was a drunk girl at my house who wouldnt take no for an answer and she refused to leave my crib/bedroom. she would push me on the bed, corner me in the room...take her clothes off...i would put her clothes on, she would take them off etc.. i remember literally thinking to myself that I could pick her up and throw her out but risk having her call the cops on me or i could just smash and keep it moving. wasnt like i wanted to call the cops myself

was my logic sound...probably not but these were literally the thoughts that crossed my mind.

nah i get it. like who are the cops gonna believe frfr if she tries to reverse the narrative. you were in a tough predicament still.

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

Add DaBaby to the list. I remember seeing an interview where he said he was molested by woman when he was 5 years old. Literally said that she R. Kelly’d him. I know of a few people who were molested as kids and it’s really sad to see the ways it fukks them up and warps their view of sex in awful ways that stays with them for the rest of their lives. Society doesn’t care because getting women is what is valued, and sexual abuse as a child can lead people to becoming hypersexual and society values sex and uses it to sell damn near everything, so they’re incentivized for their trauma, whether intentionally or unintentionally.

sexual abuse as a child turns some men into murderers...in their minds people ain't shyt so if they do some wild disrespectful shyt to those men they demonstrate how much they now don't give a fukk about another human by ending their life, that anger is deep seated and festering daily.

 

[Tair]

Happened to my brother. Dude is pretty messed up to this day from what he went through.

People don't suspect women of being capable of that type of shyt, and I wasn't suspecting of it either until my brother told dad & mom.

I think it is as DJ Shadow described it, they take advantage of your biology so you feel ashamed and justify it because your biology reacted which furthers the embarrassment/shame of it all. But the effect is still the same - the victim was raped.

 

[TezMilli]

Very common and pushed to the side more than people think. I got molested by my older aunt at 8, shyt fukked me up and it took me 30 years to realize it.

Same here breh. And I was the same age when it happened to me. For years my brain blocked it out but in 2019, I started having little flashbacks that culminated in a traumatic nightmare of the abuse. The first thing I did was call my mom the next morning and we both cried on the phone together,

I had to go to therapy and everything. And thankfully it helped. It revealed a lot of things to me - why I was being promiscuous, why I had failed relationships and a marriage.

Hopefully you've gone down the road to healing as well breh

 

[Kingofthereal]

Same here breh. And I was the same age when it happened to me. For years my brain blocked it out but in 2019, I started having little flashbacks that culminated in a traumatic nightmare of the abuse. The first thing I did was call my mom the next morning and we both cried on the phone together,

I had to go to therapy and everything. And thankfully it helped. It revealed a lot of things to me - why I was being promiscuous, why I had failed relationships and a marriage.

Hopefully you've gone down the road to healing as well breh

Damn, sorry that happened to you. For me I’m just now getting into therapy and it’s help me realized a lot of trauma I deal with is because of it. It’s the same for me when it comes to relationships and sleeping around with a bunch of women. More than anything it’s caused me to not trust people at all.

 

[Low End Derrick]

IDK, Denzel Curry and ASAP Ferg also went through situations like this.

Ngl this is more common than I realised.

 

[Voice of Reason]

Same here breh. And I was the same age when it happened to me. For years my brain blocked it out but in 2019, I started having little flashbacks that culminated in a traumatic nightmare of the abuse. The first thing I did was call my mom the next morning and we both cried on the phone together,

I had to go to therapy and everything. And thankfully it helped. It revealed a lot of things to me - why I was being promiscuous, why I had failed relationships and a marriage.

Hopefully you've gone down the road to healing as well breh

Breh I think someone similar happened to me with a female friend play cousin who is a few years older.


I don't know if it's real or was just a dream.

 

[TezMilli]

Breh I think someone similar happened to we with a female friend of the family play cousin who is a fe years older.


I don't know if it's real or was just a dream.

I hate to say it but it probably happened.

I remember my therapist telling me how the brain builds a defense mechanism when it detaches from the emotional responses of the trauma. When this happens, the victim can have gaps in memory. It's the brain's way of protecting you from further trauma, all the while ensuring your survival and safety. But eventually like in my case and I'm sure others, the event will reveal itself crystal clear.

 

[Nigerianwonder]

black boys are the least protected demographic in this country.

 

[richaveli83]

Because nobody cares about sexual assault on males, in particular, black males and black boys.

 

[Still Benefited]

minors cannot consent to sex

I said by law.

I knew what sex was as a minor and wanted to have it. And very well couldve wanted to have it with certain older women.


In that instance you cant put me in the same category as a minor who was raped or coerced by authority or manipulation. We are not the same in terms of victimhood. The law has to consider me a victim because the adult needs to be held accountable. But i wanted to smash that older woman through the boxspring at 15(hypotehetical).