i mean as men nobody takes it seriously ...even on the it is what it is podcast when Cam said it Maurice Clarett and Ma$e were chucklingIt's crazy how prevalent that sort of thing is man.
yup. it was on an episode of it is what it is a few months agoWord?
You raped a woman though. Lets not forget thatIts great that men are speaking on it if they truly felt violated. I just think its in poor taste to play victim olympics when I see black men saying "why doesnt anybody care when it happens to black boys". I see it as either disengenious in most cases,Or i see it as being another part of this ongoing gender war. Where men are constantly trying to prove women are just as bad or worst people as men are.
How did i draw this conclusion? Its impossible to genuinely care about black boys being raped,but not care about black girls being raped. And generally speaking,people dont REALLY care that little black girls come up missing,are getting raped,sex trafficked at 10 times the clip at least![]()
i mean as men nobody takes it seriously ...even on the it is what it is podcast when Cam said it Maurice Clarett and Ma$e were chuckling
i've been raped as well but as an adult
people assume that as a stronger male there is no such thing. but when you consider how the police look at us theres an emotional/logical component to it that goes beyond physical.
in my situation there was a drunk girl at my house who wouldnt take no for an answer and she refused to leave my crib/bedroom. i remember literally thinking to myself that I could pick her up and throw her out but risk having her call the cops on me or i could just smash and keep it moving. wasnt like i wanted to call the cops myself
was my logic sound...probably not but these were literally the thoughts that crossed my mind.
yup. it was on an episode of it is what it is a few months ago
True but let's be honest. Most people don't get help because they don't know how to.R Kelly too...
Why do so many of these abused musicians perpetuate the sexual abuse onto others instead of getting help for it?
Damn. I hate that this happened to you. It really highlights how the system and social attitudes still fail male victims, especially Black men, by making it feel like there's no safe or viable way to say no and be taken seriously.i mean as men nobody takes it seriously ...even on the it is what it is podcast when Cam said it Maurice Clarett and Ma$e were chuckling
i've been raped as well but as an adult
people assume that as a stronger male there is no such thing. but when you consider how the police look at us theres an emotional/logical component to it that goes beyond physical.
in my situation there was a drunk girl at my house who wouldnt take no for an answer and she refused to leave my crib/bedroom. she would push me on the bed, corner me in the room...take her clothes off...i would put her clothes on, she would take them off etc.. i remember literally thinking to myself that I could pick her up and throw her out but risk having her call the cops on me or i could just smash and keep it moving. wasnt like i wanted to call the cops myself
was my logic sound...probably not but these were literally the thoughts that crossed my mind.