Security camera catches guy being friendzoned after a date *huuuuuu*

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I'm not even jaded though.. It is what it is.. I still have a positive outlook on love... but I refuse be played...
You don't need to go all out though. I guess my beef is that you're completely against paying for a girl...even if she's not trying to use you. It should be a case by case basis. If she's just there for the free food and isn't really interested, then it doesn't matter, but if she's legit wanting to get to know you then put your best foot forward as a gentleman.
 

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Stopped reading right there, you were OBVIOUSLY messing with a bird. What kind of self respecting woman would ask a man she hasn't even gone out with to pay for her to get her hair done? You're really gonna let that dumb ass broad ruin your perception of ALL women? :heh:

I didn't pay.... stupid.... re-read
 

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Stopped reading right there, you were OBVIOUSLY messing with a bird. What kind of self respecting woman would ask a man she hasn't even gone out with to pay for her to get her hair done? You're really gonna let that dumb ass broad ruin your perception of ALL women? :heh:
lol yah, I laughed at the hair thing...helll no.
 

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YUP.

sometimes you gotta let your intentions be known from the JUMP even if it means talking mad reckless. The point is to be clear about where you wanna take things even if you just met her. You dont have to be 100% gross and nasty but filling her head with small talk just so she doesnt scurry away is not the best move. You tell a chick early on that you wanna bite her ass and there NO WAY that shes gonna friendzone you. She might tell you to kick rocks, but if your mouthpiece is tight from the opening tip off, then she'll laugh at you being so blatant and chalk it up to your "humor" :demonic:
this is actually better than being in the friendzone. atleast you made your intentions known and if she aint down then she can
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I don't want to make this personal but I guess I'm going to have to in order to get the point across....

I took this chick(ON MY DIME... SHE WENT OUT OF POCKET FOR NOTHING)to see Rickey Smiley and we had dinner. I let her know 3 weeks in advance that this was going down. Long story short, she wanted me to pay to get her hair did(which I refused), made me wait 1 hour 30 minutes at her crib while she was getting her hair did(and was 30 minutes late to the show, then at dinner, the chick was SO disrespectful, texting and taking EVERY phone call while trying to have a conversation. I'm not the person that demands sex after paying for dates, but after that night, I didn't want to even kiss the chick.. I dropped her off and peeled off. Haven't spoken to her since... That night cost me bout 120.00, which was nothing to me, but that was MY hard earned money and I deserved a better date than what I got, but she got to write it off as something to do on a weekend while she's still loves her raggedy a** baby daddy that is a bum and criminal.

I took that L, but never again... Dutch until I decide that you are worth pursuing and worth a relationship with. I'm not taking care of a female unless I'm married or about to marry her. That's what parents are for or feed your grown a** self.

Love it or hate it.

When she asked you this, that should have been your sign. I think everybody can see the signs that they are going to get ethered, they just ignore it. Also, if this was the first date, it was too much. You should always make sure a person is worth all that attention before you pull out 120 dollars.
 

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@Desirous would you go on a date with a man and let him pay for you when you know for a fact you aren't gonna give him any play? Or are you a decent person :wow:
 

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@Desirous would you go on a date with a man and let him pay for you when you know for a fact you aren't gonna give him any play? Or are you a decent person :wow:

I don't go on dates to give play. I go to get to know someone to determine if there is potential chemistry there beyond an initial attraction.
 

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Um...why did some bytch ass Laker fan neg me? :pachaha:

You mad you got smacked by the Suns, bytch boy? :umad:
 

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So that's a yes

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You reading? I tell guys off the bat that I'm not looking for sex and that I don't jump in the sack. If that's what they're looking for, then don't bother with me...if they want to get to know me and date, then we're on the same page. I'm not going to give false signals for a free meal.
 

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:damn: Went for the kill, got a handshake and chest bump in return. The way she sneaked that handshake in there :banderas: . Dude Just stood there wobbling as his soul left his body. This date was prolly over 15 minutes into it. Dude looks like the type that will say or do some corny sh*t to cockblock himself based on that move alone.

:laff: I LOVE reading these type of threads, nikkas stay saying some funny shyt :laugh:
 

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Damn that shyt was cold. When are dudes gonna learn that that gentleman chivalry bullshyt is dead in the 00's. fukk goin out to dinner unless u wifed or smashed already. I ain't payin for shyt. We goin half I don't know u lol. I'd rather meet u somewhere I ain't pickin u up or walking u to ur door that u already walk in and out of day and nite lol. I'd rather get u on the phone run some game meet up if u feelin me. All that other exaggerated romantic dont wanna say something wrong to fukk it up bullshyt is :camby:. Ya giving these extra average females waaaaay too much power. Word to Tariq Nasheed.
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Dude like he was faded a bit too, insta-Ether.
 
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