It ain't about her being fine. Because she is
It's about
A) Spending extra money on a child that's not yours. For a relationship that may not go the distance.
B) wanting to share the beautiful experience that is birth with someone who's doing it for the first time. I'd like to go In a hospital with me and the woman I'm with being rookies to the experience. There's something special about having your first child with someone else who's also having their first child.
C) baby father drama. I don't want to have conversations with you about the nikka who painted your walls. Thats crazy to me
. It's basically having her ex in your life, for your life. Seeing the nikka at graduations and all this other bullshyt. I'm straight.
D) When you have a baby with someone, you guys are partners for life. Period. That's not something everyone is okay with. Who's to say you don't want to move your family one day? But can't because her baby's father has joint custody which restricts us from moving?
E) A woman always has a special bond with the father of her first child. Always. She's always going to love him for allowing her to experience birth for the first time. Baby daddy #2 ain't got it like baby daddy #1.
Too much extra baggage. No woman is that fine. Sorry.