RIP Kevin Samuels

[Ahadi]

People have said that for years and black women aren’t in denial about these issues. As much as I can’t stand Steve Harvey he totally panders and will go after both genders. I know a lot of men don’t like my earlier post but as I said KS’s old videos were good, I agreed with most of what he said. His problem is he saw he wasn’t getting anywhere being rational so he took a hard turn against women then boom. Views go up and he gains notoriety. And there are several women out there preaching to black women about our weight, our attitudes, becoming unwed mothers. I’m looking for a black man online to come just as hard at black men instead of going after black women.That person may be out there and I’m not aware of them but a lot of people saw through the KS successful man cosplay. We are all aware of our issues and there are plenty of people in denial. KS was behind on child support until a year ago because that’s when he first started making money. A lot of what KS was preaching to young black men he wasn’t even doing for himself.

You have Oprah, Gayle King, Ricki Lake, Color Purple, Waiting to Exhale, City Girls, Megan, The Root, Clubhouse rooms, Etc. saying

“Do better black men”

“Ugh they aren’t doing what they’re suppose to be doing“

*MasterCard fund BW businesses*

“Why can’t they keep up?”

“Y’all are the problem”

“Y’all are dying”

“Y’all are down low, or in Jail”

“Y’all are deadbeats”

“Y’all not shyt” “y’all ain’t shyt” y’all ain’t shyt”

This has been going on for years & we're talking about fair.

 

[Lord Bison]

For a nikka that hate reading, this nikka sassing it up in his posts. Why you post like a hoe ass nikka. You 47 years old and post like a 23 year old female from lipstickalley.

I see your relationships end in divorce. The women can find who's the bytch in relationships, you or her.

I wish you the best bro, wish your kids the best and I hope they do well in life. I can care less about going back and forth with senior citizen ass nikka.

That's because it likely is a 23 year old female from Lipstick Alley. You know these bedbucks, winches and divestor bytches be lurking on here with burner accts.


And with that said I said I hope each and everyone of yall get hit by a greyhound bus. Yall want the eradication of the black race so bad, then it should start with yall first.

 

[Red11]

Niqqa didnt have a single old head crew up there with him. Old heads arent interested in categorizing women because they are there to be had and didnt impact their money. The women in KS past obviously did where he finally came into his own after making money off his grift.

These mentors arent putting on displays of uncaring, guarded from enjoyment by small chatter with a woman or setting up shop online with subpars to front like hes standing tall. What type of performative bullshyt have you watched your mentor speak to women in a KS manner? I saw this dude interview one of his subpars who made a mild flirty joke women do and respond “dont joke with me” with so much unnecessary anger that it made zero sense. And Im still waiting on someone to explain to me the healing that comes out of saying women over 35 and single are leftovers. Whats the end game there other than someone left feeling insulted, you wholeheartedly loving the cruelty that comes with it? How the fukk does that benefit anyone?

Mentor my ass. Yall see him as a device for retribution toward the women who scorned them. Add in some "honesty" toward men that "obviously" aren't them, and you've given them cover under the guise of being "fair".

That isnt a mentor. fukk outta here. Calling me old when sweating an older grifter who made money off niqqas anger and a “dash” of truth.

Again its not his term.

But if you need to know:

 

[NYC Rebel]

Fv

Again its not his term.

But if you need to know:

who gives a fukk who authored it? Why co-sign that dumb shyt? Whats the end game of that comment other than cruelty? Is it mending? Is it helpful? Who “mentors” in that manner? What late 50 year old man teaches that as a plus?

At no point do you cats show that as constructive. Dude was corrosive while giving dudes a kernel of truth to hide behind and pretend theres balance and accountability.

Dude said that for an audience it resonates with.

 

[Red11]

Fv

who gives a fukk who authored it? Why co-sign that dumb shyt? Whats the end game of that comment other than cruelty? Is it mending? Is it helpful? Who “mentors” in that manner? What late 50 year old man teaches that as a plus?

At no point do you cats show that as constructive. Dude was corrosive while giving dudes a kernel of truth to hide behind and pretend theres balance and accountability.

Dude said that for an audience it resonates with.

? you asked a question answered by the videos you didn't watch in those 3 minutes. The videos illustrate why it is important to get married younger and for women who are older to TEACH the younger women this. He wasn't talking to the 40 year old woman but to the 22 yr old.

 

[Red11]

It's funny, because in China, MEN are actually the ones leftover. Because China had that one-child policy in effect for so long and families preferred boys (and they would kill baby girls), now there's a whole lot more men than women. With women getting educated, having careers, making their own money, some of these women said to hell with marriage = even less women for these millions of men to marry.

China recognized their fukk up: The one-child policy men grew up and wanted wives but couldn't find partners because of the significant gender imbalance, and a lot of the available women weren't pressed to get married, so what does China do? They shame the women into getting married by calling them leftover women. It's the biggest gaslight ever.

Ma'am: Pressed vs can't get married, but ok.
The big issue is there is no retirement plan in China. The HUSBAND is supposed to support her parents as well. The reason the mothers are so upset is because there is not safety net for their retirement. But its not just China:

 

[NYC Rebel]

? you asked a question answered by the videos you didn't watch in those 3 minutes. The videos illustrate why it is important to get married younger and for women who are older to TEACH the younger women this. He wasn't talking to the 40 year old woman but to the 22 yr old.

Bruh…. how does that benefit a woman who is already 35 and single? By bringing up things that is not relevant to their present? Its cruelty, period Youre skirting around the issue. That comment is divisive and not beneficial to anyone at that stage. It just isn’t.

Yall are making excuses for dude. It benefits no one.

Dude was corrosive.

 

[UpNext]

You right, it's not just China, but the reasons are pretty universal:

1) Single men can be dangerous. There was literally an article about this recently somewhere.
2) Less marriages = less births = that up-and-coming workforce is about to be light...
3) $$$$. Less workers = less taxes being paid. Esp less lower class workers?! Who's going to do the jobs no one else wants to do??

On another note, once again, it's amazing how pro-marriage yall are for women and yet no one wants to be the men women marry

Well another issue Kevin Samuels brought up is women initiate 80% of divorces. The issue of women being so thirsty to break families apart when things aren't going so well also needs to be addressed.

 

[UpNext]

*Deep heavy negro sigh*

The person who initiates the divorce means nothing but they filed the paper work first. That's it. It does not give reason as to WHY the marriage is ending.

My cousin just filed for divorce from her husband. Dude has been living like a single man the entire time, had an entire girlfriend for at least half of the few years they've been married along with other side pieces, plus other issues. She's had enough.

She is not thirsty to break up her family. She is devastated. She did not get married to get divorced.

I mean you just handwaving that massive statistical imbalance away like this with your anecdotes is a big reason as to why guys are reluctant to be on that other side of marriage.

 

[The Radiant One]

*Deep heavy negro sigh*

The person who initiates the divorce means nothing but they filed the paper work first. That's it. It does not give reason as to WHY the marriage is ending.

My cousin just filed for divorce from her husband. Dude has been living like a single man the entire time, had an entire girlfriend for at least half of the few years they've been married along with other side pieces, plus other issues. She's had enough.

She is not thirsty to break up her family. She is devastated. She did not get married to get divorced.

Yes it matters. So it has been going on for years? Was there a lack of intimacy? How long have they been together. What's the husband's story?

 

[UpNext]

Yes it matters. So it has been going on for years? Was there a lack of intimacy? How long have they been together. What's the husband's story?

When people respond the way @oh boy responded, it just shows she hasn't matured enough to understand you can never really know what's going on in a couples relationship.

 

[The Radiant One]

Apparently. Not sure about the lack of intimacy, I want to say no. Married for 3ish years. The husband's story is he couldn't keep his dikk in his pants.


K

People often blame a Man for having a “girlfriend “ However when things become clear it seems that the woman just isn’t sexually engaging the man

 

[The Radiant One]

Then at that point, do you communicate with your wife or risk your marriage

The responsibility of keeping a marriage together is on both parties

What occurred with this communication? A lot of women feel like sex isn’t important But have a man act like work as it important and it’s a big deal

 

[Red11]

Bruh…. how does that benefit a woman who is already 35 and single? By bringing up things that is not relevant to their present? Its cruelty, period Youre skirting around the issue. That comment is divisive and not beneficial to anyone at that stage. It just isn’t.

Yall are making excuses for dude. It benefits no one.

Dude was corrosive.

Do I have to timestamp every time KS said "its not for you but for the young women listeners?" or "you are where you are, but what advice would you have for the younger listeners" or "what are you going to teach your daughter now that you are 45 and single"

But nevermind.

 

[NYC Rebel]

Do I have to timestamp every time KS said "its not for you but for the young women listeners?" or "you are where you are, but what advice would you have for the younger listeners" or "what are you going to teach your daughter now that you are 45 and single"

But nevermind.

Got you. I can see where you are coming from now.