You just said that they want you to stop using it, now you're making an argument against your own argument.White people are going to use the word no matter what. If anything, they're angry at the black people who took their word and used it as a slang term among each other. So your idea about white people wanting us to use the word isn't valid.
And honestly, using a twisted website like the one you cited really isn't a good source.
Racist whites will continue to use the term whether you are banned from using it or not. Exactly!!!!! Think about what you just wrote.