The only thing you care about is being a clown ass Black woman hating fakkit.
Gossip ass clown. You prob dress up like Wendy Williams to post these "gurllllll" ass threads.
Damn you really put me in check with that one. Lol goof.
The only thing you care about is being a clown ass Black woman hating fakkit.
Gossip ass clown. You prob dress up like Wendy Williams to post these "gurllllll" ass threads.
What an amazing comeback Wendy.Damn you really put me in check with that one. Lol goof.
It took me a while, Early 30s to be exact. Had 2 incidents happen to me at the same time. One with a co worker the other with a girlfriend(not the mention the shyt I was going through with both my kids mothers). I notice if I didnt do exactly what they said their was a issue. shyt irked the fukk out of me. So bad I cut them off. shyt felt like someone took 2 45lbs plate off my back. I finally understood the value of my time and attention.
Nah you are going to get mad. Everything you thought and learned from your elders was bullshyt. You cant help but be mad.. shyt you have to playa. Get that shyt out of your system. Once you do that and start looking at things for what it is you'll be better off.
circling back to this to say I appreciate y’all for laying this advice down.I'm only 32 don't know if that's considered old or not
But at every level of life as a BM you can sense that (some, not all) BW you encounter at that level will try to subtly challenge you in little ways or son you like you don't know what you're doing and need to be corrected.
It really doesn't matter what your qualifications are. They have a general distrust of black men leading things and will assume the worst about you until proven otherwise. And even then they won't apologize about it.
My advice is to maintain your distance from those types when you recognize the red flags.
Black women are.poor judges of character..and men
Having money and.celebrity won't make her immune..
Damn, unfortunate we only have the dichotomy of single motherhood and nuclear familiesThis the same forum that nikkas was shytting on nuclear families for being a “white” thing
Now y’all in here pontificating on these chicks being “baby mommas”
This board is so full of shyt
You cold as hellThe only thing you care about is being a clown ass Black woman hating fakkit.
Gossip ass clown. You prob dress up like Wendy Williams to post these "gurllllll" ass threads.
Fam black people are last in every fukking statistical categoryDamn, unfortunate we only have the dichotomy of single motherhood and nuclear families
Cause it's not like human beings lived any other way for thousands of years into the present day
I dont take it personal breh. I just wish you understood my actual point and responded to thatFam black people are last in every fukking statistical category
I don’t give a shyt how people lived centuries ago
The fact is how are black men and women going to prosper with the ideals and talking points of microphone headasses
It’s women out here purposely becoming single mothers
I’m a product of that shyt
I had ogs
But I’ve wished for years to have a relationship with my actual father
If I came from a two parent home
Maybe I wouldn’t have failed my first marriage
Maybe my ex wife wouldn’t have failed
Maybe I wouldn’t have been out here pulling shenanigans of how to become a man
Getting hurt and hurting people
nikkas want to talk that generational wealth shyt until it actually means building families with two parent structures
Every other community understands this basic ass concept
But nikkas and bytches will come up with every fukking excuse under the sun
From living like “white people”
Traditional mating is dead
But be problack
Like huh
That’s an oxymoron
Every other group pushing our shyt in like the 15-16 Warriors
But fukk a cohesive family unit and 50/50
I can just get it out the mud and be a boss
Don’t take it personal, I don’t have a beef with you but your opinion is for the birds my G
The women you listed have resources to take care of themselves and their children. I think the only thing they might look for in a man is fun, sex, companionship, and certainly love. But definitely not for protection or to be provided for. They can pay for the latter and already checked off the former, so they aren't too messed up being single.