Spanking can lead to all kinds of mental issues, but there are a lot of folks out here looking dumb as hell with their kids talking to them like they ain't shyt.
I guess it depends on the situation. Your child should always know that you love them.
Very last resort for me and my kids. My oldest who’s 15 I stopped 4 years ago. My youngest who’s ten last got that work over a year ago. I try everything I can think of before it gets to the belt. Make sure to review why I’m doing it before with them and after. Really hate doin it, can’t lie. But sometimes it’s necessary after you’ve tried all other means for them to get it together. And I 100% make sure they know they are loved and I tell them as well. Don’t mean I won’t give ‘em some akrite if necessary tho