Renown Marriage Counselor ends 1-year Marriage for Lack of Sex...Is this right?!
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she's probably leaving out the part where she wanted new dikk - she's playing the blame-game and her rationalization points to that - her flabby visage probably played a big part. you didn't lose no kind of weight. 
ol boy was probably like
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at her trying to get sexy.
ol boy was probably like
and at her trying to get sexy.
UserNameless
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Being desired seems to be the issue.
That's my thing...what are people getting married for? Ideally, you marry your best friend. The sex places it in another category, but that's just one component of a friendship that's now amorous. But I'd like to believe the friendship, dedication and commitment is strong enough to weather a lack of sex or a lack of passionate sex that stems from a strong desire to do so.
The expectation of consistent, passionate sex is low on the list when it comes to marriage...unless I primarily viewed my fiancee/wife as a sex object in the first place and/or married her because I was just ready to smash w/in the marriage concept.
I'd probably never get married though.
you said "a friendship that's now amorous". but if you stop having sex and stop being amorous, doesn't it then go back to being a regular friendship? and if so, what's the point of remaining a couple when your "amorous needs" aren't being met? Why not just go back to a regular friendship and find love/sex somewhere else? or maybe have an open relationship if she really wants to keep the title but can't satisfy her partner...
That's why i kinda feel for her in some way. But at the same time i still see society's hypocrisy in that if it were a man, he'd be considered a dog.and also if a woman didn't feel like sleeping with her husband anymore she probably wouldn't have said something like "...from now on when you want sex, all you have to do is ask for it." she would have just expected him to deal with it. and she STILL left...but not without laying all the blame on him though. Also i just realized she wrote a public blog about how her ex-husband wasn't laying pipe and she used her real name...
Sex is low in your list of priorities in a marriage and that's cool for you. but the problem with a marriage is that while other things you value more might be there, if the sex isn't, what's your other option as to where you can get it from? if your wife isn't sleeping with you and you sleep with someone else, you're cheating. So basically you're stuck. I'm not saying you should view your wife primarily as a sex object. But she's the only one you're "allowed" to get sexual satisfaction from. and she's not playing her part...
Remember the chris rock movie "I Think I Love My Wife". I swear that movie completely scared me for life of marriage. And the end was depressing as fukk too.
lol exactly. Men have been dealing with this for how long? But when women do it to men, it's the man's fault. Well he didn't step his game up! There was something HE wasn't doing to please her! lol a man leaves his marriage due to declining sex and the divorce rate skyrockets to like 80%.
does old ass cathy meyer realize her options are slim? that no guy is going to shack up with a old hag like her?
like most women she files for divorces and blames her husband, out of all the men out there who hit their wife, who cheat on their wife, who gamble waway their life savings, she gets a good faithful husband who stood by there for 12 years and just because her old crusty twat wasnt satisfied anymore she leaves.
to "some" of these Coli dudes, she's a PAWG
Taadow
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Seems like it was a li'l more to it:
Before marriage, they was fuccin'.
Their wedding night they didn't fucc.
He said "He NEVER saw what the big deal was with sex." So it wasn't just about her...he had that attitude about sex in general. I would think this is something they talk about before they get married - that's just me though:
"Oooh wee, you just put it on me nicca...let's go again 2 more times."
"I don't know, dear...I don't really like to fucc like that..." Voila. :shrug:
Instead, she waited 10 years and said: "Okay look, nicca - I wansta fucc. So take yo' ass down to the dicc doctor and find out what's wrong with you."
The Doctor sez: "You don't have a regular amount of testosterone (which could be interpreted as "you are not man enough"), so here's some pills so you can go home and fucc your wife when she wants."
It sounds like he didn't take to kindly to that.
i would marry her
I think reincar meant it more like she'll have trouble finding a guy who wants to commit to her and be in an exclusive relationship with her (which i agree with)
Yall got to stop trying to be male victims all the time. What I mean by that is your saying things like ''viewed as a dirtbag" and "get a pass from society" but we are fukking men here, and as men you know damn well no one's opinion about you matters to you but YOURS. Man up nikkas, you all can say that if you personally were in the situation, you'd want out, and you'd get out regardless of what anyone else said or thought. Thats why Im not tripping on her wanting out, cause I know I'd be out.
UserNameless
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You're gonna keep baitin' me, huh?! lol!
I'ma just say...speak for yourself. Everyone's value system is different particularly when it comes to marriage. And at their age, I'm willing to bet that sex wouldn't be many folks priority.
I feel reasonably assured that it wouldn't be mine.
What happened to dedication and commitment?
If I exchanged vows with the woman, I'm really trying to rock til death do us... And I'd like to believe if I value her as a person...as a woman, we'd get through it.
UserNameless
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bait? I just responded to you
but I agree with the bolded so
Nah, I've been telling myself I'm done with these two discussions...but you've been making good points, so I feel compelled to reply...I'm interpreting it as baiting! lol!
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