As you should
My comment was just to say that don't be fooled by appearances
The man with the good job and whose parents have been married 30 years can still be abusive
Ding ding ding
You are absolute correct. It's always the "good image"types
That's why I didn't say anything because I felt who was going to believe me.
I'll give a more recent observation
I went out last week, Sunday to watch the nba finals at D&B ( their food sucks) but anyways this guy wanted to talk to me but his boys were mad annoying. They were behind me talking loud ( granted I was at the bar and it gets loud regardless) but they were loud trying to get my attention.
So he's talking to me about his daily routine and I'm too busy watching that dumb ass Verizon commercial with the white man crashing the black couples wedding.
He grabbed my phone, punched his # in and called his phone
To make a long story short he texted me and asked can he take me out
I never replied. He called twice and called me the following morning and I picked up
He cursed me out
Surprisingly, I didn't get upset but I blocked him