Relationship Violence Guideline

m0rninggl0ry

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Also ladies remember there is no profile for abuser; could be any race any shade any ethnicity any height any weight and body type any economic background any family structure etc.

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Be safe tho


Sure. But these men will display signs so early that we tend to ignore it.

I can just tell. There are certain trigger words; language or actions and that's all it takes.

I'm not going to take a chance and give him a shot. No sir!
 

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Sure. But these men will display signs so early that we tend to ignore it.

I can just tell. There are certain trigger words; language or actions and that's all it takes.

I'm not going to take a chance and give him a shot. No sir!
As you should

My comment was just to say that don't be fooled by appearances

The man with the good job and whose parents have been married 30 years can still be abusive
 

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As you should

My comment was just to say that don't be fooled by appearances

The man with the good job and whose parents have been married 30 years can still be abusive




Ding ding ding

You are absolute correct. It's always the "good image"types
That's why I didn't say anything because I felt who was going to believe me.

I'll give a more recent observation

I went out last week, Sunday to watch the nba finals at D&B ( their food sucks) but anyways this guy wanted to talk to me but his boys were mad annoying. They were behind me talking loud ( granted I was at the bar and it gets loud regardless) but they were loud trying to get my attention.

So he's talking to me about his daily routine and I'm too busy watching that dumb ass Verizon commercial with the white man crashing the black couples wedding.

He grabbed my phone, punched his # in and called his phone

To make a long story short he texted me and asked can he take me out

I never replied. He called twice and called me the following morning and I picked up
He cursed me out

Surprisingly, I didn't get upset but I blocked him
 
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