I believe in the organic mythod. When both parties no longer feel the need to search out other sources for sex and mutual companionship.
Niether one is coaxed or coerced, by family friends time or biological clocks
but you just know. They fill a void or a cavity, no amount of cakeing simping done in your behalf can compare it's just trivial entertainment.
But you get out of something what you put in. And to me you are trying to play the lotto as opposed to make long a wise investment with your time and emotions
The lotterey is is appealing very minimal investment with the gamble of a huge return. ( you want the said benefits of an exclusive committed relationship with out all the work and sacrifice that goes along with it
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people who invest wisely study the market usually know where their money is going and how it is to be spent and have the control and ability to sell and get out if things get bad. As opposed to a dollar and a dream closing ones eyes and wishing for the best.
So really get to know the person both investments can be considered a gamble nothing is a sure thing we just try to make the most educated decision possible.