What adult over 30 with a wife and kids is hanging out with the boys every weekend anyways? Hang out and do what nikka? Go to a club? You gonna come over and third string it with me and my wife?
Only way that works is if yall both got families and live close, and even then it turns from with my boy, to hunting/fishing with the kids or some gay ass couples outing.
Don't get me wrong, they probably talk on the phone or text from time to time, go do a show and hang out for drinks after, travel together but thats normal adult male friendship. Super Bowl, 4th of July, Memorial day type shyt