Recent study finds that 60% of men under 30 are single due to social media and the internet

[Mandarin Duck]

I find him exhausting. There was one point in time I was wallowing in self pity about dating like he was, but at some point I realized I needed to get over myself. There are people based on what posters claim people don't want that are always in relationships and are often married. If they can do it while being what society deems unattractive why can't they? Where he's at he needs outside help that no one here can help with, but he's never going seek it out.

What does that have to do with someone who's never been attractive?

They got to the point of being in a relationship.

 

[folasade]

What does that have to do with someone who's never been attractive?

They got to the point of being in a relationship.

They got to the point of being in a relationship while also not being attractive to general population.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

They got to the point of being in a relationship while also not being attractive to general population.

Completely different than repeated history of never being attractive to the opposite sex at all to the point of it destroying your self esteem.

 

[The ADD]

Really


Then who is the "him" in this paragraph you are referring to
But I can't keep up with my own narrative right

I’m not addressing you on this topic any further is my point. You weren’t quoted in that post I was talking to @Ski Mask

 

[The ADD]

I'm not stating life is over for them, but not all parts of life will be available, just like there people who can never have their own flesh and blood kids, yeah you can say that they can still live happy, but that quality level of happiness ain't gonna be the same. And I'm not going to sit here and say that being locked out of dating is something the average person can brush off especially looking at the response people had towards the quarantine.

This is where I don’t understand this entire discussion.

Where is the certainty that this person is locked out of dating into perpetuity?

 

[Mandarin Duck]

I’m not addressing you on this topic any further is my point. You weren’t quoted in that post I was talking to @Ski Mask

You talking about me.

I'm going to address it.

You can put me on ignore if you'd like but I'm going to defend myself.

 

[The ADD]

You talking about me.

I'm going to address it.

You can put me on ignore if you'd like but I'm going to defend myself.

Sounds good

 

[Ski Mask]

This is where I don’t understand this entire discussion.

Where is the certainty that this person is locked out of dating into perpetuity?

Before I continue this convo/answer this question I have to ask, do you believe that life is fair? Do you believe you can do everything right and still fail? Do you believe that 80 year old virgin my aunt mentioned found someone on his deathbed?

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Sounds good

Remember I don't get p*ssy, I got all night

 

[The ADD]

Before I continue this convo/answer this question I have to ask, do you believe that life is fair? Do you believe you can do everything right and still fail? Do you believe that 80 year old virgin my aunt mentioned found someone on his deathbed?

I don’t know what the last sentence means.

To answer the question life isn’t fair and if we are talking about relationships then nobody is guaranteed to find one they feel is satisfactory.

 

[Ski Mask]

I don’t no what the last sentence means.

To answer the question life isn’t fair and if we are talking about relationships then nobody is guaranteed to find one they feel is satisfactory.

The last sentence is just a push back to the there's someone for everyone vibe in here. But to answer the question your right idk a miracle could happen but stats show after thirty those who struggle usually don't make it out that struggle. Your basically asking him to win the lottery at this point.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Anybody catch that ”men refused to challenge the gender norms” line at the end?

yeah they want you to take dikk too...

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Will ya'll let his man incel in peace? He doesn't want help. He doesn't want to do better. He wants to be where he is.

 

[The ADD]

The last sentence is just a push back to the there's someone for everyone vibe in here. But to answer the question your right idk a miracle could happen but stats show after thirty those who struggle usually don't make it out that struggle. You’re basically asking him to win the lottery at this point.

What stats? I’m legitimately asking.

I think winning the lottery is an overstatement.

Anecdotal but I just got married (3) weeks ago. I met her when I was 38. That just how it worked out. I’m a pretty normal breh. Big picture I think saying someone is locked outdating at 35 is pretty fatalistic.

 

[Scaaar]

Will ya'll let his man incel in peace? He doesn't want help. He doesn't want to do better. He wants to be where he is.

You got it Pearl!