Recent study finds that 60% of men under 30 are single due to social media and the internet

[Mandarin Duck]

You're spreading misery and poisoning the water for the folks that are coming up and trying to find their way in it. It's no different than the older woman who was phased out and messing up the younger women too

Y'all always wrong.
The older woman is telling the men to be miserable like them.

I hope no young men end up like me .

I hope the people younger than me don't go down that same route.

 

[Scaaar]

Idk breh its one thing confident in yourself but you can't say something is gold if no one's willing to buy it. Self esteem is cool but confidence without nothing to back it up is delusion

It's alot of delusional women out here still getting beat down. You see some of the posts that people put in that have some of the wildest demands and they're fat and overweight. Just like it's some brehs that have all these requirements for how their woman should act and treat them. But he's 35 and a line cook at Taco Bell. Delusional folks exist in the dating market. You gotta have esteem about yourself to filter that out and what you will and won't stand for but you don't truly understand that until you've dated and experienced multiple people. You gotta jump in that pool

 

[Mandarin Duck]

You gotta have esteem about yourself to filter that out and what you will and won't stand for but you don't truly understand that until you've dated and experienced multiple people. You gotta jump in that pool

 

[Scaaar]

Y'all always wrong.
The older woman is telling the men to be miserable like them.

I hope no young men end up like me .

You are a 35 yr old loser. You have less than zero confidence in yourself and any words of encouragement that brehs have given you you've flipped to make yourself as big of a victim as you can. I've seen women with more fortitude and gumption than you. You are exactly where you need to be in the dating market. You don't deserve a woman because why would they procreate and spread your seed? There's nothing to gain adding another coward like you out into the gene pool.

 

[The ADD]

You are a 35 yr old loser. You have less than zero confidence in yourself and any words of encouragement that brehs have given you you've flipped to make yourself as big of a victim as you can. I've seen women with more fortitude and gumption than you. You are exactly where you need to be in the dating market. You don't deserve a woman because why would they procreate and spread your seed? There's nothing to gain adding another coward like you out into the gene pool.

Harsh…….

 

[Mandarin Duck]

You are a 35 yr old loser. You have less than zero confidence in yourself and any words of encouragement that brehs have given you you've flipped to make yourself as big of a victim as you can. I've seen women with more fortitude and gumption than you. You are exactly where you need to be in the dating market. You don't deserve a woman because why would they procreate and spread your seed? There's nothing to gain adding another coward like you out into the gene pool.

And you're a liar putting words into my mouth.

I have never encouraged people younger than me to quit trying to date.

Y'all always projecting.

No man who gets p*ssy would be wasting his time arguing with an incel on an internet forum.

 

[Scaaar]

Harsh…….

Some people you have to go at like that. I've seen pages of you guys trying to encourage him and give him helpful advice and just keeps flipping it into making himself a victim. He literally has probably a third of the posts in here of him just spreading his personal misery. That's time he could have spent going to actually try to meet a woman. I like how there has been a growing emphasis on men's mental health but a lot of people use that same new avenue as a crutch and this guy/duck is a prime candidate. If he doesn't want to be better that's cool. But stop whining about it too is my point.

 

[Ski Mask]

It's alot of delusional women out here still getting beat down. You see some of the posts that people put in that have some of the wildest demands and they're fat and overweight. Just like it's some brehs that have all these requirements for how their woman should act and treat them. But he's 35 and a line cook at Taco Bell. Delusional folks exist in the dating market. You gotta have esteem about yourself to filter that out and what you will and won't stand for but you don't truly understand that until you've dated and experienced multiple people. You gotta jump in that pool

That's not what meant you can have the highest self esteem about yourself, but it doesn't corelate with how others view you. For example I'm some who was in the same spot years back yet it only took me to go from obese to skinny fat for my high anxiety or my low self esteem to not matter. I'm not saying internal work isn't important, but that shyt doesn't guarantee that someone will find that person attractive. That self help shyt has limits when it comes to involving others.

 

[Scaaar]

That's not what meant you can have the highest self esteem about yourself, but it doesn't corelate with how others view you. For example I'm some who was in the same spot years back yet it only took me to go from obese to skinny fat for my high anxiety or my low self esteem to not matter. I'm not saying internal work isn't important, but that shyt doesn't guarantee that someone will find that person attractive. That self help shyt has limits when it comes to involving others.

Yeah you're right. That's why I say you gotta to get in the pool. That's where you see where you truly stack up as well as the work you potentially need to do for yourself. If there's a certain caliber of women that you want to pursue. You see what they like and what time they're on and if that's something you want you put yourself in the best possible position to be in proximity to obtain it. You might still fail in that process or you get that woman and see that it's not something you truly want or want to maintain. Or the women. You want don't want you . Its a lot of factors in play. So you make tweaks and adjustments and you cast a new reel out with different settings. Rinse and repeat.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Yeah you're right. That's why I say you gotta to get in the pool. That's where you see where you truly stack up as well as the work you potentially need to do for yourself. If there's a certain caliber of women that you want to pursue. You see what they like and what time they're on and if that's something you want you put yourself in the best possible position to be in proximity to obtain it. You might still fail in that process or you get that woman and see that it's not something you truly want or want to maintain. Or the women. You want don't want you . Its a lot of factors in play. So you make tweaks and adjustments and you cast a new reel out with different settings. Rinse and repeat.

And y'all don't see why a person's self esteem would be destroyed as they continued to dip their foot in that pool would make them retreat from going to the pool in the dkrst place.

Women have been telling them they weren't built for the pool before they even knew what the pool was

 

[The ADD]

That's not what meant you can have the highest self esteem about yourself, but it doesn't corelate with how others view you. For example I'm some who was in the same spot years back yet it only took me to go from obese to skinny fat for my high anxiety or my low self esteem to not matter. I'm not saying internal work isn't important, but that shyt doesn't guarantee that someone will find that person attractive. That self help shyt has limits when it comes to involving others.

Yes but would you have ever said that women don’t and won’t find you atttactive?

 

[The ADD]

And y'all don't see why a person's self esteem would be destroyed as they continued to dip their foot in that pool would make them retreat from going to the pool in the dkrst place.

Women have been telling them they weren't built for the pool before they even knew what the pool was

You aren’t the only one in life that has self esteem issues and you aren’t the only one in this thread that has had to battle it.

That’s been established and people across multiple post have acknowledged that. What reactions/feedback/etc are you looking to get at this point?

 

[winb83]

You are a 35 yr old loser. You have less than zero confidence in yourself and any words of encouragement that brehs have given you you've flipped to make yourself as big of a victim as you can. I've seen women with more fortitude and gumption than you. You are exactly where you need to be in the dating market. You don't deserve a woman because why would they procreate and spread your seed? There's nothing to gain adding another coward like you out into the gene pool.

When a person is a victim they don't have to reflect internally and face themselves. They can feel righteous indignation because they were wronged by someone else. When a person is a victim their situation will never improve because the responsibility for it belongs to someone else.

The truth is though even people who were victims have to at some point take control of what they can and change their own situation. It's people that got raped as children that one day had to come to terms with it and through their own will power move past it and get on with their lives. They were actual victims but got past it and moved on. This guy got blown off by a few women and he crumbled and said I can't do this anymore. Then he blames them for why he can't when in reality he was the decider.

At any point he can focus on self improvement. Get in the gym, develop his social skills, be a better man and say I'm going to put myself out there and if they can't appreciate me that's their loss. That's not the path he chose and he acts like it's impossible to do so when it's not.

 

[Ohene]

Yall still going at it in here

 

[winb83]

That's not what meant you can have the highest self esteem about yourself, but it doesn't corelate with how others view you. For example I'm some who was in the same spot years back yet it only took me to go from obese to skinny fat for my high anxiety or my low self esteem to not matter. I'm not saying internal work isn't important, but that shyt doesn't guarantee that someone will find that person attractive. That self help shyt has limits when it comes to involving others.

It's a lot of women dating men who aren't physically attractive because that man is confident, funny, and has himself together in other aspects that attract her to him. How women view attractiveness and how men view it are fundamentally different.