Recent study finds that 60% of men under 30 are single due to social media and the internet

[Westbama Heartthrob]

This is an insane lie.

There is no skill in life that does not require experience to develop and get better at.

There's literally people in this thread saying they have to deal with the ups and downs of dating.

Now experience doesn't matter

Im not saying it doesnt matter. You gotta know how to apply experience to develop skill. Just doing the same thing many times over and over doesn't automatically make you good at it

Ex. A girl that sucks ya dikk all the time but still can't do it with out scraping ya meat

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Im not saying it doesnt matter. You gotta know how to apply experience to develop skill.

What part of middle aged women don't want to deal with men trying to figure this out do y'all not understand

The average 35 year old man has children and more than likely dating after getting out of their previous relationship with their girlfriend/wife/mother of their kids.

A 35 year old woman has way more understanding to deal with that situation because more than likely she's in the same herself.

She is not wasting her time teaching a man how to hold hands.

Why do y'all make me feel like this is some ridiculous idea

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

I'm the only member on this site to ever put hands on another member for getting outta order.

You gotta big clit

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

What part of middle aged women don't want to deal with men trying to figure this out do y'all not understand

The average 35 year old man has children and more than likely dating after getting out of their previous relationship with their girlfriend/wife/mother of their kids.

A 35 year old woman has way more understanding to deal with that situation because more than likely she's in the same herself.

She is not wasting her time teaching a man how to hold hands.

Why do y'all make me feel like this is some ridiculous idea

Dawg, it's men who've been with dozens of women but can't satisfy a single one

Every woman is different anyway. Example would be some like it rough, some like it passionate, some cum from penetration, or others from clitoral stimulation

No matter your skill or experience level, you will always have to take the time to learn the woman you're with. And making sure to be respectful and attentive to her non-verbal ques

And side-note. Holding hands is pretty self explanatory, so why you keep going back to that?

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Dawg, it's men who've been with dozens of women but can't satisfy a single one

That doesn't matter because that man still has the skill to get that woman in bed.

A skill he probably developed by high school if not college.

The fact that dozens of women found him attractive enough to date and let him have sex with again puts him 100x ahead of me.

Women actually find that person attractive.

No matter your skill or experience level, you will always have to take the time to learn the woman you're with.

I'd imagine that's true for men with relationship/dating/sex experience.

But again, I'm talking about a completely different perspective.

The perspective of never being attractive to women at all.

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

I'm the only member on this site to ever put hands on another member for getting outta order.

.... There a thread on when this went down?..... a Good Friday Fukkery read would be amusing....

 

[Legend27]

This is an insane lie.

There is no skill in life that does not require experience to develop and get better at.

There's literally people in this thread saying they have to deal with the ups and downs of dating.

Now experience doesn't matter

This is not true in the slightest

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

That doesn't matter because that man still has the skill to get that woman in bed.

A skill he probably developed by high school if not college.

The fact that dozens of women found him attractive enough to date and let him have sex with again puts him 100x ahead of me.

Women actually find that person attractive.

I'd imagine that's true for men with relationship/dating/sex experience.

But again, I'm talking about a completely different perspective.

The perspective of never being attractive to women at all.

You gotta stop comparing yourself to others though

I know it's easier said than done, but you can only work with your situation. Try to swap gears for a sec. What are your strengths?

As in, what's something you can do or qualities you have that others may not?

You're in tune with your weaknesses, but part of dating is like selling yourself. Sometimes you gotta finesse that shyt to get a foot in the door

 

[Shadow King]

This thread should not be 51 pages but old niqqas in denial have dragged it along...

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

This thread should not be 51 pages but old niqqas in denial have dragged it along...

They are bootstrap boomers

It uses to be easy as fukk to get ass online

It is a hundred percent harder

And it's by design to extract money for the apps

 

[Mandarin Duck]

You gotta stop comparing yourself to others though

I know it's easier said than done, but you can only work with your situation. Try to swap gears for a sec. What are your strengths?

As in, what's something you can do or qualities you have that others may not?

You're in tune with your weaknesses, but part of dating is like selling yourself. Sometimes you gotta finesse that shyt to get a foot in the door

Those strengths have allowed me to accomplish things in life, but not to be sexually desirable to women.

And accomplishing life achievements doesn't grant you access to women.

I'm smart, I know how to hold a conversation, and be funny.

If you want something done at the job, and you're having a difficult time getting it done because of the personality of the people in a different dept, you give it to me because I know how to talk to people and get it done.

This girl I worked with had her boss breathing down her next. I told her "I'll make her leave"

And it's only because I know how to talk to people.

So her boss comes in and I tell her
"What are you coming in and bothering her with now?"

The boss laughs it off and stops coming.

I'm only saying that to say I'm not some socially awkward person around women.

People ask me why I'm single all the time and I have to say I'm focusing on myself or something to get the heat off me..

That doesn't change the fact that women do not find me attractive and at some moment something will give off that I am inexperienced with women.

 

[winb83]

Women decided that chapter for me.

I gave examples of me trying to interact with women for school and they refused to talk to me.

I wasn't hitting on them.

I simply existed and tried to say hi at an orientation that we were asked to do.

And this was college, not junior high.

Women have treated me like a monster for existing, not for being some fat creepy weirdo that tried to hit on them.

How is a person supposed to feel about themselves being treating like less than human by women for not even doing anything?

Your skin is too thin. You don't have a problem with women you have a problem with you. If you don't like you how can you ever expect anybody else to like you? You're pointing the finger at them because it's easier than just saying I don't particularly like myself. If you say they don't want me you get to be a victim. In order to attract a woman you have to believe in yourself.

I'm not the expert on women but I do get that internally a lot of them some level of conflict / self doubt and look for external validation. If you step to them reflecting that frame of mind they will be repulsed by it. You need to be a source of stability.

Women aren't some monolith breh. They are individuals and you beliefs don't speak for all of them. If you get your shyt together, have confidence in your self and quit playing the victim some women will date you. It depends on where they're at in life and what they're looking for.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

They are bootstrap boomers

It uses to be easy as fukk to get ass online

It is a hundred percent harder

And it's by design to extract money for the apps

Are you admitting you’re only looking for ass, not a serious relationship leading to marriage? Apps are largely about physical attraction. Most women aren’t trying to meet average or below average looking men just for sex on apps. They can meet those men anywhere, and probably already have one on standby. Most women are not grateful for sexual offers from regular guys. And if the women know most men are just looking for sex, why would they risk getting played by an average guy? All those women at some point have slept with a man who didn’t want commitment. They aren’t adding bodies like that anymore for average guys.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Your skin is too thin. You don't have a problem with women you have a problem with you.

And this came from women and their view of me.

The reason why I do not like myself is because of years of rejection from women.

If I applied for a job I don’t get, I have no problem applying for another job because I’ve had years of validation about my intelligence and what I am capable of achieving.

I’ve never received validation from women

I'm not the expert on women but I do get that internally a lot of them some level of conflict / self doubt and look for external validation. If you step to them reflecting that frame of mind they will be repulsed by it. You need to be a source of stability.

I cannot be a source of stability when I’ve never been validated by women.

How the hell can I validate something that’s never validated me.

That doesn’t even make sense.

 

[Ski Mask]

nikkas really like to gaslight those at the bottom. It's one thing to be rejected its another to never experience a positive sexual interaction with opposite sex.